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Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

How she reconnected with the right guy……

We had a great Father’s Day weekend.  Ashley and our son Mason went all out to make Michael feel special.  They cooked his favorite meals and Mason even bought him a framed photograph at a garage sale for 25 cents.  He was very proud of himself for getting such a…

“You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist.”

“You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist.” –Indira Gandhi This is so true in dating and relationships. If you’re communicating with your guard up, with walls, with resentment, with suspicion, with heart barriers – you won’t truly connect with someone. We need to open that fist…. Open our hearts….…

Does big thinking beat small thinking?

For years we thought BIG. Big goals. Big motivation. Big beliefs. We were taking on the world and we trained our minds to think that way. Michael used to compete in golf tournaments. The best of the best were competing. He would visualize himself WINNING the big prize. He would…

should you give advice to people you care about?

Unsolicited advice is almost never the best way to really help someone you care about in our experience. It makes them mad and usually secretly want to punch you in the face. They don’t really care or listen to your unsolicited advice. It leads to a disconnection between the two…

What Men Want in a Woman Straight from the Horses Mouth

Today you will learn what men want in a woman.  We will break it down for you so that you have a good idea what men are looking for. What do men want? What are the best guys out there looking for in a woman? We get a version of…

Are Relationships Hard? – This is What a REAL Relationship is like

Are Relationships Hard? –  This is What a REAL Relationship is like
Are relationships hard or should they be easy when you’ve found the right person? On today’s brand-new Date to Soul Mate Show we get personal and you get a behind the scenes look into what a real relationship is like. Ashley doesn’t hold back and confesses what she can’t stand…

💩 it Doesn’t Fit 😭

Hey it’s Dr. Ashley.. I’m jumping on here to talk with your privately….Michael doesn’t know I’m doing this. This totally happened to me recently and I thought you might relate. I’m in a wedding and I ordered this dress.  It shows up and try it on and….. S%@#!!!! It doesn’t…

An Exclusive Relationship in 6 weeks?

Can you get into an exclusive relationship within 6 weeks? Learn what it takes to stop dating unavailable or undesirable men starting right now. She decided to reluctantly talk with us. She didn’t want to, but the frustration of meeting one more guy who was totally beneath her was unbearable.…

How to Get Over Your Ex

How to Get Over Your Ex
Learn how to get over your ex so that you can move ON & UP from him.  Now you can stop thinking about your ex once and for all. Do you think about your ex a lot? When you were with this person, likely things weren’t always great. After all,…

How to Deal with Rejection – Get Hurt and Get Even….

How to Deal with Rejection – Get Hurt and Get Even….
Learn how to deal with rejection, loneliness and heartache.  You will experience ups and downs in your love life and it is how you deal with them that matters most. He was running as fast as he could.  In fact, he was in an all out sprint. Nobody was going…

Should I Sleep with Him?

We often get asked “Should I sleep with him?”  “Do I need to wait?” “Will he leave if I don’t?” Today we answer this age old question. How many times have you wondered “should I sleep with him?” What’s the current rule? Wait at least two, five, or ten dates?…

What Attracts Men the Most – What Most Women Will Never Get….

Discover what attracts men the most.  It’s not how you look or what you say to a man that matters most when it comes to attraction. Did you see Mark Zuckerberg of flakebook testifying before congress. It was pure pop culture theater. It was ironic that we watched the live…

Is He The One? – Would you pass this dating test?

Is he the one for you?  What do you look for to know with certainty that he is right for you? Today we’ve got a simple yet IMPORTANT one question test for you. If you pass with flying colors, your chances of finding the right man for you skyrocket and…

How to Text a Guy – One of the Worst texts to receive from a guy

Learn how to text a guy that you like.  Today we’ll talk about why it’s so important to be able to communicate through text, email, chat or in person. “hey you free to hang?” Have you ever gotten one of these texts from a guy you’re dating? He doesn’t plan…

Online Dating Tips for Women – Do you have Online Dating ADHD?

Today we got the best online dating tips for women just like you.  If you have online dating ADHD it will be nearly impossible the meet the right man online. Oh WOW. Our inbox’s get FLOODED from people desperately wanting help with online dating. People are at their BREAKING POINTS…

Live the Good Life – These are the Keys to the GOOD LIFE

Live the Good Life – These are the Keys to the GOOD LIFE
Do you want to live the good life?  Today we’ll teach you what it takes to live a life full of love, happiness and impact. “There is no heavier burden than an unfulfilled potential” – Charles Schulz Happy Friday TEAM ARN, We want to give you so much VALUE today that you explode…

Judging People – Use Other People’s Judgments to Your Favor

Should we stop judging people?  Can we stop others from judging us? We all judge people. When we’re out running errands, at work, socializing with friends, hanging with family, we judge people. People would be frightened if they KNEW our worst thoughts about others. We are 24/7 judgy judgersons. You…

Communicate with Confidence – It only takes one……?

Why is it so important to communicate with confidence? Today we’ll show you why communicating confidently and being proactive in connecting with others is so important. You are only one interaction away from getting anything you want in life, you just don’t know which interaction it will be. Ever since…

Men and Women Differences – Who wins in a fight: Men vs. Women

Men and Women Differences – Who wins in a fight: Men vs. Women
Men and women differences – Do these differences matter and what can you do to overcome them and have a great relationship. Ouch yes we went there.  You’ve probably heard Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. What a BS concept. Ashley is from Laguna Niguel, CA and…

How to Achieve Goals – Stop Shoulding on Yourself!

Do you want to know how to achieve goals? There is a counter intuitive step to take that is crucial to you achieving your goals. How many goals do you have that you think about and put on your proverbial “to do list”? Do ever actually get those things done?…