Doing the right things and STILL not finding love?

Doing the right things and STILL not finding love?
Today Michael is going to talk with you about one of the most important KEYS to having the relationship you want. If you’ve been doing all the “right things” in dating and still not finding lasting love watch todays video. What you do is important in dating. But it isn’t…

Why great men disappear

We just had a recent conversation with a “yes, but” person. She reached out to us requesting help in finding her person. She couldn’t proclaim enough that she wanted to work with us, was ready to do whatever it takes, and was all in! This is always red flag number…

Is indecision keeping you single?

One of the biggest things that will prevent the kind of man you want from pursuing a committed relationship with you is indecision. We know this might sound crazy so stay with us and we will explain. We receive hundreds of applications every month from women who want our help…

Make Valentine’s day about this…

Happy Valentine’s day from TEAM ARN. Our whole family, Ashley, Michael, our son Mason and our two dogs Bear and Bailey are grateful to be a part of your life, however big or however small. We appreciate so much that you’ve become part of our family and we don’t take…

You’re probably single because…

You never forwarded those chain messages in 2008. JK 🙂 If you’ve ever been single on Valentine’s day, it basically sucks. The fact that there is even a nickname of “Single Awareness Day” is stupid. At the same time, the pressure is real. Anyone and everyone has to ask about…

What’s the best dating app/site to use?

Today we break down what you need to know about which dating app/site to chose. Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn, We are excited it’s Monday morning. Our son Mason got the flu and has been sick for over a week. He finally feels better and IS GOING…

Take CONTROL of your day

Hey it’s Ashley flying solo today, Most of us spend our day reacting to others and to our environment. Taking a few minutes each morning to give yourself some TLC and put your day in YOUR control, not the control of others or the things that are happening around you,…

Did he come on strong and then disappear?

You RARELY meet a guy that you are really interested in. Most of the time, you are on again, off again with dating, When you are in the “on” phase, you put in good effort and go through the motions. Men are interested in you. It’s pretty easy to get…

This is #1 cause of men NOT pursuing you

Hey it’s Ashley & Michael, We are sitting here in our kitchen thinking about you and what it’s like to be out there in today’s dating world. Believe it or not we have most of our meetings in our kitchen here at TEAM ARN Wine Country Head Quarters. Nothing better…

James is looking for…….

James is a Vice President at an Ecommerce Company. He went to college and has worked his way up the corporate ladder. He’s never been married and doesn’t have any kids. He’s ambitious so he’s prioritized his education and work up until now. He is social, has a great group…

Finding Your Man is Easier Than You Think

Implement this one strategy to dramatically change WHO’S pursuing you. Hi it’s Ashley and Michael, If you’re a busy woman with little time to waste, you’re in for a treat today. We get it. We’re strapped for time too. We work our butts off to help all of you amazing…

Why your feelings don’t matter

Why your feelings don’t matter
How often do you FEEL like giving up looking for the right guy? Yes, you want to be in a great relationship but is the process to get there really worth it? The process is EXHAUSTING. It’s time INTENSIVE. It drains your energy It often beats you down mentally, emotionally…

Step by step plan to stay single

Today you’re going to learn HOW to stay single. Knowing how to achieve the opposite of your goal is just as important as knowing how to get what you want. Many times what you choose NOT to do is more important than what you choose to do. This weekend we…

Get Upset or Get Comfortable

Sometimes you want to be comfortable with where you’re at and other times you want to get upset with where you’re at. Whether you’re comfortable with something or upset about it, it’s totally subjective and within your control to change how you’re representing it to yourself. If you want to…

Meeting the Perfect Guy Wouldn’t Help by Itself

Hi it’s Ashley with a quick message that you DON’T want to hear. The MASSES believe that if they would somehow meet or get introduced to the exact right person they would go on to have the relationship they want. This is the appeal of a matchmaker.  If they can…

Diamonds are formed under PRESSURE and STRESS

Diamonds are formed under PRESSURE and STRESS
Most people avoid stress and avoid pressure. They avoid putting themselves in situations where they are completely out of their element. They say “I’m not ready for that.” This is the surest way to avoid results or success in any area of your life. If you want to get the…

If you’re doing this online, you’re wasting your time

You’re busy. You have a great career. You have friends and family to spend time with. You have a lot of interests and awesome things to do. Everything in your life is stable and fulfilling… EXCEPT your love life. You’d like a partner to share all the things you have…

HOW TO AVOID DATING LOSERS OR “NICE GUYS” ONLINE

Our son Mason is home sick from school today.   Our dogs are loving up on him right now on the couch.   It’s great to have dogs that snuggle you when you aren’t feeling good.   Sitting around got us to thinking……..   In our work with thousands of…

Do great single men exist anymore?

Do great single men exist anymore? Are there any good men left or are they all already taken? Let’s dive into this and give you Immense value along the way. We talk to the best women in the world every day. You are Smart. Educated. Attractive. Fun. The list of…

Is He Putting You Last?

If you put a man BEFORE you, you’ve taught him to put you LAST. Never Again! As an adult, you teach those around you how to treat you. If people aren’t stepping up and treating you the way you want you have several options: 1. Communicate what you want SPECIFICALLY…

Dating narcissists, players and fixer uppers?

Many are making the mistake of putting SELECTION before ATTRACTION. To be effective in dating, Attraction comes BEFORE Selection. You must be a magnet to the kind of man you want (you’ll also attract a lot of men you don’t want in this phase which is okay). Once your ATTRACTION…

Stop Catfishing Immediately

If someone is happy to catfish you, be happy to leave the date in the first 5 minutes. If they look nothing like their photos or are way off in some other way stand up and say “you didn’t represent yourself accurately online so I’m leaving. I wish you the…

Get Uncomfortable

Being comfortable is not the way to have the relationship you want. Comfort is one of the BIGGEST and most powerful forces that hold people back from an extraordinary relationship. It’s ALWAYS going to be through being uncomfortable that you find the right person and create a great relationship. It’s…

Dating is a Means to an End, so let’s End It.

2018 was a great year for us. We are so grateful for the opportunity to have helped hundreds of women this year to build a lasting relationship with a man who is on their level, pursued them, and was ready for a commitment. The women on Team Arn had a…

What do I want in life? How to Get Clarity on Where You are Going.

What do I want …. In life.. In a relationship…. In my career In a man… There is nothing more powerful than getting real clarity on what you want. What Do I Want in Life To be honest most people reject themselves before life or anyone else gets a chance…

How to Set Goals and Achieve Them

How to Set Goals and Achieve Them
Today we are talking about how to set goals because you are on TEAM ARN and that means you are a constantly growing person. How to Set Goals and GSD You don’t settle for average and you don’t stagnate. That means setting goals is a part of your life. If…

How to Trust Again to have the Relationship You Want

Today you’re going to learn how to trust again and WHY it’s important. Do people have to PROVE themselves to you before you show them who you are? Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn, Both of us had trust issues for years. We didn’t let people in. We…

Perfectionism is the Enemy of Progress

Perfectionism is the Enemy of Progress
Perfectionism is something that impacts many high level people. Many of us who are doing big things in life and have big goals we’re achieving struggle with being a perfectionist. Here is the definition of perfectionism: 1a: the doctrine that the perfection of moral character constitutes a person’s highest good…

Emotion and Relaxation Techniques

There are relaxation techniques that help you deeply relax, reduce stress and calm your nervous system. Other relaxation techniques help ADD energy to your life. To change your state and to feel more energetic. Today we will talk about how to change your physiology to both relax and have more…

How to spend less time dating AND Meet your Man

If you are wasting a lot of time online dating, swiping, messaging and going on dates that don’t go anywhere today’s message is for you. When we talk with single women who want to find love, we notice a few patterns. 1. The first type of person hasn’t dated much,…