How is your week going? We've been killing it despite Michael and Mason both being sickos this week. We've been doing some amazing work with our students in our Live Workshop and in Single to Soul Mates University. The insights and transformations we've been seeing are inspirational. When you work with thousands of clients you observe certain patterns. Some are success … [Read more...] about The crazy chemistry dating pattern
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aaahhhh... the age old question (at least since 1995). Should you look for love online or on an app? Many of you HATE the current incarnation of dating. You LOATHE online dating. You wish you could serendipitously spill your coffee on your Mr. Right at Starbucks and have him pursue a relationship with you. Many of you LOVE online dating. You think it's the best thing since Brad … [Read more...] about don’t look for love online if……
We had a great President's Day weekend here in Sonoma. The weather was beautiful here Saturday, so we went to two wineries. We went as a family (we brought our son Mason). Many of the wineries here are family friendly and are fascinating to a 4 year old. One of the wineries, Jacuzzi, also has olive oil and vinegar tasting. We ended up buying Chocolate Balsamic Vinegar. Yum it's so … [Read more...] about Keep it Simple to Succeed
When you are stuck in the forever single cycle, one of the biggest shifts you can make is to start COMMANDING ATTENTION FROM HIGH CALIBER MEN. Most women ARE NOT commanding attention from the right guys. You might find yourself either not commanding any attention from guys..... or Commanding attention from THE WRONG GUYS. Both feel bad right? If you want to meet the kind of guy … [Read more...] about How to Command Attention from High Caliber Men
We know a secret that Batwoman used to meet, attract and fall in love with Batman. You see, for years she was single and dating THE WRONG GUYS. She read books, articles and talked to her friends for YEARS about what she could do differently to find the right guy for her once and for all. None of it worked. No matter what she did she ended up frustrated, hurt and SINGLE. This messed … [Read more...] about A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.
It is the most hated “holiday” for people who are single and for a great reason. If you are like most people who are single this time of year, you find yourself reflecting on what has happened and why you are single on this day. You are probably blaming yourself, telling yourself you have done something wrong and you might even be thinking that you aren’t worthy of having the kind of love … [Read more...] about Valentine’s Day Sucks.
We are going on a Ski trip to Big Bear Mountain this weekend with our family. Our son Mason is so excited. He doesn't care much about the skiing, but can't wait to throw snowballs at Michael. He looks so cute in his puffy ski outfit. Many of you have told us about a problem you are having.... You have no clue How to get a guy's attention... But not just any guy. You want the … [Read more...] about How to Get a Guy’s Attention and have Him Pursue YOU
Today's 5 Minute Mindfulness and Guided Meditation is all about Saying Yes. Most of us try to figure out how to do something before we commit to doing it. We want to KNOW the exact steps to go from where we are now to where we want to go BEFORE we commit to doing it. We don't give ourselves permission to really commit to something until we have the certainty about HOW we'll do it. You … [Read more...] about Guided Meditation – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation “Say Yes and Figure Out How”
How is your week going? How are your New Years resolutions going? For most people, they are starting to give up on their goals for 2017 already. They are almost ready to throw in the towel and "try again" next year. We don't want that for you when it comes to finding lasting love. We want you to find love THIS YEAR. Yesterday we did a LIVE Date to Soul Mate Show in our free … [Read more...] about Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show