Do great single men exist anymore?

Do great single men exist anymore? Are there any good men left or are they all already taken? Let’s dive into this and give you Immense value along the way. We talk to the best women in the world every day. You are Smart. Educated. Attractive. Fun. The list of…

Is He Putting You Last?

If you put a man BEFORE you, you’ve taught him to put you LAST. Never Again! As an adult, you teach those around you how to treat you. If people aren’t stepping up and treating you the way you want you have several options: 1. Communicate what you want SPECIFICALLY…

Dating narcissists, players and fixer uppers?

Many are making the mistake of putting SELECTION before ATTRACTION. To be effective in dating, Attraction comes BEFORE Selection. You must be a magnet to the kind of man you want (you’ll also attract a lot of men you don’t want in this phase which is okay). Once your ATTRACTION…

Stop Catfishing Immediately

If someone is happy to catfish you, be happy to leave the date in the first 5 minutes. If they look nothing like their photos or are way off in some other way stand up and say “you didn’t represent yourself accurately online so I’m leaving. I wish you the…

Get Uncomfortable

Being comfortable is not the way to have the relationship you want. Comfort is one of the BIGGEST and most powerful forces that hold people back from an extraordinary relationship. It’s ALWAYS going to be through being uncomfortable that you find the right person and create a great relationship. It’s…

Dating is a Means to an End, so let’s End It.

2018 was a great year for us. We are so grateful for the opportunity to have helped hundreds of women this year to build a lasting relationship with a man who is on their level, pursued them, and was ready for a commitment. The women on Team Arn had a…

What do I want in life? How to Get Clarity on Where You are Going.

What do I want …. In life.. In a relationship…. In my career In a man… There is nothing more powerful than getting real clarity on what you want. What Do I Want in Life To be honest most people reject themselves before life or anyone else gets a chance…

How to Set Goals and Achieve Them

How to Set Goals and Achieve Them
Today we are talking about how to set goals because you are on TEAM ARN and that means you are a constantly growing person. How to Set Goals and GSD You don’t settle for average and you don’t stagnate. That means setting goals is a part of your life. If…

How to Trust Again to have the Relationship You Want

Today you’re going to learn how to trust again and WHY it’s important. Do people have to PROVE themselves to you before you show them who you are? Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn, Both of us had trust issues for years. We didn’t let people in. We…

Perfectionism is the Enemy of Progress

Perfectionism is the Enemy of Progress
Perfectionism is something that impacts many high level people. Many of us who are doing big things in life and have big goals we’re achieving struggle with being a perfectionist. Here is the definition of perfectionism: 1a: the doctrine that the perfection of moral character constitutes a person’s highest good…

Emotion and Relaxation Techniques

There are relaxation techniques that help you deeply relax, reduce stress and calm your nervous system. Other relaxation techniques help ADD energy to your life. To change your state and to feel more energetic. Today we will talk about how to change your physiology to both relax and have more…

How to spend less time dating AND Meet your Man

If you are wasting a lot of time online dating, swiping, messaging and going on dates that don’t go anywhere today’s message is for you. When we talk with single women who want to find love, we notice a few patterns. 1. The first type of person hasn’t dated much,…

This is the fastest way to meet him in 2019

FIND-ATTRACT-CONNECT-SELECT is the fastest way to meet him! There is no better way to find the right MAN for you right now. If you’re on TEAM ARN you are an action-taker. You’re not average. Don’t do what everyone else in the world does and sit back and wait. You can…

I’ve tried everything in Dating!

If you feel like you’ve tried everything in dating today’s message is for you. Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael, This weekend we saw Santa with our son Mason. The pure joy on his face while talking with Santa was palpable. Last week Michael talked to a woman who…

If a man is interested he will pursue you? Not so fast!

 Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael We hope you had a great holiday week. Our son Mason and our two dogs Bailey and Bearsly loved spending the whole week together playing, eating wildly good yet slightly bad for you foods and spending extended time with their grandparents. The…

Courage over Fear

Courage over Fear
We tend to reflect on what we HAVEN’T done instead of embracing all of the AMAZING things we have done over the last year. Decide right now who you are going to be. Are you going to let the things that haven’t happened YET define you? OR Are you going…

If a Man is Interested in You he’ll Pursue You?

We just made a post on facebook…. If a man is interested in you he’ll pursue you! Yes or No? What do you think?  Is it true or not that a man will pursue you if he’s interested. We’ve stirred up a lot of discussion with this one. Go here…

Busting Liars and Cheaters

This is how you find a man who is DESIRABLE and FAITHFUL. Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael popping in…. The other day we caught our son in a BIG LIE. He was lying to us for days with the expertise of a CON MAN. He would sit calmly…

Are you paddling upstream?

Today you are going to see the realities of dating first hand. It’s important so you know what’s at stake here. 50.2% of the America population is SINGLE.  That’s about 124 MILLION singles. Of those 124 million singles 53.2% are single women and 46.8% are single men. Yes there are…

Our garden will help you stop dating the wrong men

You can stop dating unavailable and undesirable men by taking a trip to our garden Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael dropping by…. We’ve gotten into gardening the last two years. Before that NOT so much. Our friends knew us as black thumbs. If they needed a plant or flower killed…

The real reason amazing women are single

You don’t want to be dating forever. Heck you don’t want to be doing it for 3 more months do you? You want to IMMEDIATELY stop having to beautify yourself for dates. Having to psyche yourself up mentally and emotionally to meet a stranger after a long tiring day of…

Don’t read this if you’re easily offended

Happy Tuesday it’s Dr. Michael coming to you solo today, As you many of know, we got back at the end of last week from a live in person event with our VIP clients in Las Vegas. I’m so appreciative and grateful for all of you amazing women on TEAM…

Is NOTHING happening when it comes to men?

And how you can get moving in the right direction. Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn, He thought be might be stuck here FOREVER. Michael went to college in Florida even though he’s a die hard Wisconsinite for life. One day his friends took him out into the…

You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist

You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist
There is a great Gandhi quote… “You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist” In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show Michael talks about how you can live this quote in your dating life.

Cast a Witches Spell on all Desirable Men

Learn how using a simple Halloween strategy can have a successful man wildly attracted to you. Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael coming your way before we scour our little wine country town for candy with our son Mason. Believe it or not he has TWO costumes.  We went to a…

Taking Care of Your Inner Child – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation

Taking Care of Your Inner Child – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation
Today’s 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation is all about taking care of your inner child. Take just 5 minutes to create an unbeatable mindset, to be emotionally fit and to exercise your mind and body today. Audio Version – Taking Care of Your Inner Child – 5 Minute Mindfulness and…

How to Text a Guy Between Dates

How to Text a Guy Between Dates
Know exactly what to text him before in in between dates to spark attraction. Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael from TEAM ARN with a short but powerful message, One of our clients in our Meet the Man You Want Bootcamp asked about how she could text a man…