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Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

HE WON’T COMMIT. DO THIS…..

Read this to learn what to do when he won’t commit. Hey! It’s Team Arn dropping by today. When you are going through the non-stop cycle of feeling disappointed with your love life, it can be hard to feel like your person is out there…..and that you will ever get…

Stuck in the Modern Woman’s Dating Cycle?

Stuck in the Modern Woman’s Dating Cycle?
Stuck in the Modern Woman’s Dating Cycle? It seems like the things that used to work in dating don’t work anymore for the modern professional woman. THE BOTTOM LINE? Even though there are more single men now than ever, and even though it’s easier to meet people due to the…

[ Live an Ambitious Life AND be Happy? ]

We were just talking with an awesome client who’s doing big things in her life, but she’s having a frustrating day full of setbacks and things not going her way. We had a great conversation about how it’s possible to DO BIG THINGS and live an AMBITIOUS Life while being…

Focus, Perseverance and Action Taking – Today’s Mindset Elixir

Focus, Perseverance and Action Taking – Today’s Mindset Elixir
Today we are hitting you with a powerful mindset elixir to help you conquer your week. It isn’t enough to use the best strategies to meet the right person or do anything big successfully. You also must CREATE & CONDITION an unbeatable mindset to have long term success. Here is…

3 BIG Mistakes in Dating

We are pumped to be here with you. Let’s make this week even better than the last. Last week we had our LIVE Meet Your Man OFFLINE Virtual Training. Congratulations to those early action takers who joined us. If there is ONE THING we reward on TEAM ARN, it’s taking…

It Feels Impossible Till it’s Done

It Feels Impossible Till it’s Done
On TEAM ARN we dedicate time and energy to creating an unbeatable mindset. We know that you can have the best strategies in the world (that’s what we teach you ladies) but if you don’t have your mindset right you won’t get what you want. It’s crucial to have both…

The #1 question to meet the man you want

Hey! It’s back to work after the long weekend. As you know, we adopted two dogs over the weekend so we were busy welcoming them to the family. So far, it’s been a pretty smooth transition. Our son Mason is loving that he has two siblings now. Ashley planted our…

Are you TOO PICKY? (personal photo)

Are you TOO PICKY? (personal photo)
This woman was told she was too picky. Too much… Too this… Too that… Too everything…. None of it was true. She didn’t need to dim her light to meet the right person. In fact, quite the opposite. You will have people around you telling you to do or not…

A Secret of the Elite

WE KNOW you are taking action to live the life you want. That’s what we do on TEAM ARN. While most people sit back and complain why they can’t live a great life, we are out there in the real world MAKING IT HAPPEN. We never sit on the sidelines.…

He usually isn’t who you think he’s going to be

It’s a strange but great time of year isn’t it. Summer is coming to an end. Families are traveling everywhere before school starts. You’re trying to get anything fun in you can before the fall weather hits. Yesterday, in our Attract the Man You Want Workshop (we get together and…

We all Perform Magic

We hope you had a FANTASTIC weekend. We had a blast at our son’s 6th birthday on Saturday. We hired a magician and 24 children were spellbound by his tricks (many of us adults were too). If you really think about it, what does a magician do? Mainly a magician…

DO LESS – SUCCEED MORE

Years ago, when we did in person therapy with people, we learned something simple yet profound. You see, we had an office and our clients would come and talk to us in the traditional therapisty manner. They would sit on our couch and we’d talk about their issues. The prevailing…

Live in the Present – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation

We’ve got a treat for you today, but before we get to that you want to know this….. In relationships, it’s almost never a straight line to getting it right. There is often a person BEFORE your person. What often seems like the right person for you is simply the…

Dating isn’t easy, but it’s…….

Hello TEAM ARN, It’s MONDAY and we are getting after IT! We had a fantastic weekend. We went garage saling on Saturday and made out like bandits. We found a brand-new foosball table for $20. We bought a handmade mint condition floor standing wine rack that holds 30+ bottles for…

How to have Superpowers this Week!

It’s MONDAY. Do you feel like you have a million things you COULD DO? Does it feel like you have more things to do than time to do it? The brutal truth is most things we do DON’T MATTER. Most of our lives are spent talking about and doing things…

Why You Don’t Get What You Deserve

We were just talking with a client about when you’re talking with your partner or even yourself about what you want or what kind of life you want to live, it’s important to take the first surface level answer and go MUCH BIGGER. We usually only allow ourselves to think…

It wasn’t easy but it was worth it.

It wasn’t easy but it was worth it.
Helloo from the TEAM ARN Wine Country Head Quarters, We had an event filled WEDDING WEEKEND. One of our amazing clients who lives in Canada got married. And guess what? They got married in wine country California. We couldn’t contain our excitement that this client found love with the right…

This is #1 Priority in Dating over ALL else…..

We are so pumped! We are going to a client’s wedding tomorrow here in wine country California. Our client lives in Toronto BUT as luck would have it, they’re having the wedding here in Sonoma. YAY FOR HAVING THE RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT! What is more important than anything else when…

This is why you don’t feel excited for dates

We’re sitting down writing this to you from our kitchen. Our son Mason is in archaeology camp this week (it’s summer vacay after all) BUT he picked up a bug, so today he’s resting and sleeping it off at home. You know how much easier it is to cope with…

Who’s Infiltrating Your Mind & Decisions?

Who’s Infiltrating Your Mind & Decisions?
Hey ACTION-TAKER, It is a glorious day here in wine country California. Tuesday nights here are FARMERS MARKET starting at 5:30pm. We had an amazing time last night picking up some veggies, sipping on some bubbly, listening to the local band and devouring tasting eats from the GREEN Grocer (a…

What’s Your Mission Statement

Yes, yes, yes, welcome to all of you who have joined TEAM ARN recently and DECIDED to NEVER live a mediocre or average life. Thousands of the most elite women in the world have watched our videos and put our techniques into action in the just the past couple of…

How she reconnected with the right guy……

We had a great Father’s Day weekend.  Ashley and our son Mason went all out to make Michael feel special.  They cooked his favorite meals and Mason even bought him a framed photograph at a garage sale for 25 cents.  He was very proud of himself for getting such a…

“You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist.”

“You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist.” –Indira Gandhi This is so true in dating and relationships. If you’re communicating with your guard up, with walls, with resentment, with suspicion, with heart barriers – you won’t truly connect with someone. We need to open that fist…. Open our hearts….…

Does big thinking beat small thinking?

For years we thought BIG. Big goals. Big motivation. Big beliefs. We were taking on the world and we trained our minds to think that way. Michael used to compete in golf tournaments. The best of the best were competing. He would visualize himself WINNING the big prize. He would…

should you give advice to people you care about?

Unsolicited advice is almost never the best way to really help someone you care about in our experience. It makes them mad and usually secretly want to punch you in the face. They don’t really care or listen to your unsolicited advice. It leads to a disconnection between the two…