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Love Compatibility – Are you settling for the wrong guy?

Love Compatibility – Are you settling for the wrong guy?

When we were in New York, we used Airbnb to rent an apartment for over a week.  Online the apartment looked great.  In the pictures it looked clean, modern and like it had quite a bit of room (for Manhattan). We were very excited about staying there for an extended period of time.  We booked the place about two months in advance.  We were fantasizing about our great place in New York for several months, building it up in our…
Free Love Success Summit with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Free Love Success Summit with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Why can’t I meet someone? Is this a thought you’ve had? Does it seem like meeting the right person is nearly impossible? Or when you do, it never works out? Don’t worry. You’re not alone. Many, many women are in the same boat you are. They are driven and successful in so many areas of their life except one: Finding the one. Ravid Yosef is a cancer survivor and successful businesswoman.  She is putting together a FREE summit called the Love Success Summit to finally ask…
Donald vs. Hillary Debate #1 tonight

Donald vs. Hillary Debate #1 tonight

The event is finally here. The Donald vs. Hillary. The first debate is tonight and some are predicting 100 million of us will be watching. That sounds crazy. Are you going to be watching?   In any debate what you say isn’t as important as how you present and express yourself.   In 2000, Al Gore supposedly had a good debate performance based on is the content of his words. He absolutely got killed though by W. in how he…
Is Your Phone Blocking Your Love Life?

Is Your Phone Blocking Your Love Life?

There are lots of singles out there. Are you open to them?   Be careful about being glued to your phone. Only players and extremely aggressive people will approach you if your buried in your phone. This was Starbucks this morning in Manhattan   This was also Starbucks this morning. May not be your cup of tea but a missed opportunity. He was def single. Say yes to love, Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael Arn
Are your Nerves Scaring Men Away?

Are your Nerves Scaring Men Away?

Please don’t be the one that gets the cold shoulder because you unintentionally have RBF on your dates. Or are you so nervous on dates that you aren’t able to express the real you.   We all react differently to being nervous on a date. Some of us talk too much. Some have RBF and hide their personality.   If you are too in your head, it WILL show on your face.   You may not even feel that nervous…
Make Your Skeletons Dance

Make Your Skeletons Dance

  We all have skeletons in our closet. No matter how much badassity swag you have, you still have some sort of perceived baggage. Do you feel like there is something about our past that potential matches judge you for?  Is there something about you or your past that YOU judge yourself for? The question is not IF you have baggage, but how do you manage your skeletons while dating? It is really tough to know how to talk about…
How to Be Irresistible on a First Date with Kimberly Seltzer – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 17

How to Be Irresistible on a First Date with Kimberly Seltzer – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 17

Would you like to know how to show up on a first date looking your best? Feeling confident in how you look? Feeling confident in how you express yourself? Great! We thought so.  You are in luck, because we have a special guest on today’s Date to Soul Mate Show.  She has specialized superpowers in helping people look their best AND feel confident in themselves while dating. Dr. Ashley talks with Kimberly Seltzer who is a therapist and Dating Makeover…
Opening Conversation Starters and How Long Should Women Offer to Pay for Dates – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 16

Opening Conversation Starters and How Long Should Women Offer to Pay for Dates – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 16

Yo Yo Yo, Happy end of the week. We are excited for the weekend. We are going to a microbrew fest in Catalina Island on Saturday. This means sipping the lagers in our sandals on the beach. We are talking about two important topics on today’s shizzle. Our lovely Wine and Love with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael members have been curious lately….. First, we are answering one of your questions about paying for dates. Specifically, how long should a…
How to Give a Massage to Your Partner with Yasuko Kawamura

How to Give a Massage to Your Partner with Yasuko Kawamura

Learn how to give a massage to your partner.  Yasuko Kawamura stops by The Date to Soul Mate Show to teach how to to give a good massage to someone. Yasuko is a Board Certified Licensed Massage Therapist and Reiki practitioner based in Orange County, California. Yasuko has a passion in teaching Couples Massage Class’ in which couples learn how to massage each other using easy massage techniques that do not hurt their fingers. By showing them how to effectively…
Do Men Only Want da Younger Women?

Do Men Only Want da Younger Women?

Welcome back to the work week.  The grind is real this week no?   We hope you had a great Labor Day weekend. We received a lot of questions from you all.  One of the consistent themes you ask us about is “do men only want younger women?” “why do men seem to only look for younger women?” “who do these men think they are looking for someone 10-15 years younger, while they’re not the best catch themselves?” Yes it’s true…
How to Find Your SoulMate at ANY Weight – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 14

How to Find Your SoulMate at ANY Weight – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 14

Hello fellow love Argonauts and Wine Lovers, It’s labor day weekend and we are excited to squeeze the juice out of the last few days of summer. hey ya there beautiful peeps We are hitting you with a value packed show today answering the questions you’ve been asking us the past week.  As always we love you (most of you) and are excited for you to listen in. Here are some of the questions we answer on today’s show: 1)…
Is Working from Home Ruining Your Love Life?

Is Working from Home Ruining Your Love Life?

Is working from home ruining your love life? It definitely could be….. Does this sound like you? Roll out of bed.  Throw on yoga pants.  Instantly make and drink GIANT cup of java. Dream about going back to sleep…..WAIT just kidding. Turn on your laptop. Get cracking. No hair brushing. Usually, no teeth brushing. No makeup. Honestly, this is our daily routine and it feels pretty awesome. No muss, no fuss. We can just wake up and grind. Unfortunately, working from home makes finding…
How to Trust Again – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 11

How to Trust Again – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 11

We have a brand new show for you all! We received some great questions from our free facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/wineandlove/   Here are some of the questions we answer on today’s show: 1) How to trust again and get over trust issues? 2) How do you stop meeting fixer uppers and project type guys? 3) How do you get out of the friend zone? 4) What do you do when you like a guy who is part of a group of…
Ghosting Someone – Why he Disappeared

Ghosting Someone – Why he Disappeared

Ghosting someone! Find out why he disappeared and what you can do about it on the latest Date to Soul Mate show with Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael. We answered our FB group’s most pressing dating questions. Here are some of the questions we answered: 1) Where are the best places to meet single men? 2) Is it ok for a woman to make the first move and how do you go about doing that? 3) Why do men decide…
What to Wear on a Date from Alex Cheatwood of Ustyled.com

What to Wear on a Date from Alex Cheatwood of Ustyled.com

In today's Date to Soul Mate Show, Dr. Ashley gets the best style advice from fashion and style expert Alex Cheatwood of Ustyled.com. If you want to learn about the best date outfits to wear and how you can look your best listen to this show.
The Best Places to Meet Men – The Date to Soul Mate Show

The Best Places to Meet Men – The Date to Soul Mate Show

Discover the best places to meet men from Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael Arn.  We will teach you where to meet relationship ready men offline. Do you want to learn about the best places to meet men? What about meeting high caliber relationship ready men? They are everywhere. It’s literally raining men out there. There are so many single quality relationship ready men in the world right now. The thing is you can’t be romantic about the best places to…

Online Dating Profile Examples – Free Profile Makeover

How would you like the chance to get a free online dating profile makeover from us? We are going to provide you and our other readers with the best online dating profile examples out there. We have provided many online profile makeovers both here at date to soul mate and while working with eHarmony.com.   These makeovers are often part of packages people pay $5,000, $10,000 and up to $30,000 for. We know from our experience that minor changes and…
The Donald vs. The Hills

The Donald vs. The Hills

Can you fathom how crazy the next 6 months will be in the presidential election? It’s down to two people. The Donald vs. The Hills No matter what your politics, you know it’s going to get vicious between these two. Old Donnie boy can’t help but throw verbal punches left and right.  He’s already accusing Bill Clinton of being a rapist and saying Hillary enabled it all. Hillary already put out an attack ad on the reality star using his…
What to Do On a First Date with a Guy- Is your First Date a Breaking Bad Episode?

What to Do On a First Date with a Guy- Is your First Date a Breaking Bad Episode?

What to Do On a First Date with a Guy- Is your First Date a Breaking Bad Episode? What do you do on a first date?   What is your mentality going into meeting someone for the first time? We had a long hard week. It was time to binge watch some Netflix as the young kidz do nowadays. We were on the hunt for a new show to binge watch. Hey Netflix is creepily recommending Breaking Bad, Nurse Jackie and…

Why is it hard finding love? What are the common mistakes we make?

Have you been on a major love sucking streak?   Has your craydar been off?  (craydar is your ability to spot crazy men)   It is hard to find lasting love.  No doubt about it our ami.  You are not alone in your frustration.   Dr. Ashley Arn was a featured guest on The Love Show with eHarmony.  In this show Dr. Ashley talks with two of eHarmony’s Vice President’s Jeannie Assimos and Grant Langston about why it is so hard to find love.…

How to Find and Keep a Good Man

  Dr. Ashley Arn of Date to Soul Mate and eH+ by eHarmony was just interviewed on Last First Date Radio about how to find and keep a good man.  She gives some great free tips and insights into men, women and dating.   Check Out Relationships Podcasts at Blog Talk Radio with Last First Date Radio on BlogTalkRadio with Last First Date Radio on BlogTalkRadio     Here are some takeaways from the interview……. -there are many great relationship…

Giving is Receiving – Why Men Would be Uncontrollably Attracted to Mother Theresa

Today we are going to show you why giving is receiving and how your orientation toward giving in dating is important. She walked in to the crowded room. She scanned the room looking for a great guy to chat with.   She didn’t know what he would look like.  She did know that if she was able to connect with enough men on a deep soul level, she would eventually find the right relationship ready man for her.  She would…

5 Reasons Why Dating is So Hard Today

Why is dating so hard these days? One of the most common questions we get asked by our clients and readers is why is dating so hard today. The amount of single men and women is at an all time high so it should be easier to find love right? Not so fast. We’ll explain why the opposite is actually true later.  Dating and relationships are very confusing today. There are a number of reasons dating is so frustrating and confusing…

The Psychology of Love and Relationships: Why You Should Say Yes to Love

What is your relationship to creating lasting love in your life? Do you have a yes attitude or a no attitude? These are important questions to ask yourself, because your answers will make or break your dating/relationship success. It could be the reason you’ve been doing everything you can think of to find lasting love but nothing has worked. Your answers are related to the psychology of love and relationships. Initially, most of our clients have a no attitude toward…

How to Make Your Boyfriend Smile

  Are unsure how to bring passion and excitement to your relationship? Would you like to take your relationship back to the honeymoon stage without spending any more time together? If you feel like your relationship is stuck in a rut, than you are in luck.   There is a communication strategy that we’ve discovered called Honeymoon communication which can dramatically change how your lover thinks about you and your relationship.   It can be difficult to know what to…

Where can I meet a good man?

  Why aren’t there any good men out there?   It seems like all the good ones are taken.  Otherwise they’re all players, narcissists or fixer-uppers.   Do you feel like finding a good man – one that will love you the way you want and deserve – is like finding the perfect pair of shoes after all the good ones have already been taken?   We get asked all the time about where the best places are to meet…

Will I Ever Find Love?

  Melissa came to our office. She was going to do some coaching with us on her love life. She was smart, strong, and successful and was what most men would consider physically attractive. She had been putting a lot of effort into finding her soul mate.   In fact, she had been doing this for at least 10 years. She had been dating guy after guy, but it never seemed to work. From the outside it seemed like she…

How to be Attractive to a Man

  Do you ever wonder “what attracts men?” Have you ever thought “Am I attractive?”   It can be difficult to know what attracts the type of man you’re interested in. There is a lot of conflicting advice about what you need to do to be attractive to a man. Also, most of the advice focuses way too much on physical attraction.   We get so frustrated hearing all these false and conflicting tips about attraction. We are sickened by…