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Your Last Christmas Alone

Your Last Christmas Alone

Take a moment to think about where you are really at in your dating life. Be honest with yourself. Are you stuck? Miserable? Not sure what to do next? Wake up every day wishing you were in His arms? What would Christmas look like this year if this man was by your side? Why do you think you don’t deserve to have that amazing man in your life? What is holding you back? Why aren’t you important enough to invest…

What if a guy has a creep finger?

Happy Sunday, Today one of you beauts has found yourself in an “interesting” situation. Here is the question…. “should i ignore my feelings? I just met a man who seemed really nice, good looking and we were hitting it off. I was interested in meeting him again just for a lunch date, and we were shaking hands and saying our goodbyes…when he rubbed his finger against my palm. To me that is such a sleazebag thing to do and i…

Success in Love comes from the Amount of times you stood up to the plate and swung.

Sure you have to have the right bat, the right muscles and the ability to read the situation, but you have to swing. Many times probably. Nothing can prepare you for dealing with and uncomfortable feelings of being at the plate and swing. No amount of thinking about it will get you there. You only learn from being in the situation and making mistakes From swinging again and again. Don’t expect Success from Actions you never took. www.meetarelationshipreadyman.com Say yes to…
Warning: Don’t be Here when I get Back Up!

Warning: Don’t be Here when I get Back Up!

Relationships REALLY SUCK sometimes. You put yourself out there.  You make the effort.  You persist. You meet guys offline.  You meet guys online. You go out on dates. You meet guys.  You flirt. You get your hair done. You dress up and look your best. You put yourself in a great emotional state.  You make interesting conversation. You really get to know these guys. The guys you’re attracted to aren’t relationship ready or don’t pay attention to you. The guys you…
Are You a Perfectionist or a Scaredy Cat?

Are You a Perfectionist or a Scaredy Cat?

Many of you are ambitious professionals. You have a good education.  You have a respected job.  You excel in number of areas of life. You like things the way that you like them.  You want to do a great job at whatever you do. You may call yourself a perfectionist. Being a perfectionist has some advantages.  It also has some disadvantages. In your career, it can help.  Sure it might cause you some stress or mental anguish but it helps you…

Does Santa Clause have Commitment Issues?

Over the weekend we saw Santa Clause in our little hometown of Sonoma, CA. Our son Mason has been anticipating the big red’s arrival for weeks.   You could see the excitement written all over his face. Mason talked endlessly about what he was going to tell Santa he wanted for Christmas.  This was a big part of seeing Santa for him. Santa had to know he wanted transformers, power rangers and trucks. He also told us he was going…
Fear. Freedom. Power.

Fear. Freedom. Power.

Fear. Freedom. Power. These are three of the most powerful MOTIVATORS behind all the actions people take. Think about it. Most of the things you want in this life have to do with one of the above. Fear. You are afraid that you will never find the love you want and deserve. You are AFRAID you’ll be single and lonely forever. You are afraid that you are unwanted and unloveable. You are afraid of failure. You are afraid of success. Freedom. You want…
Your Mind isn’t Wired for Happiness and a Great Relationship

Your Mind isn’t Wired for Happiness and a Great Relationship

You have to learn how to fight against your natural wiring. APPLY FOR A FREE ATTRACT THE MAN YOU WANT PERSONALIZED BLUEPRINT! If you are ready to get out of the dating game once and for all, then NOW IS THE TIME to fill out an application for a FREE Attract The Man You Want Personalized Blueprint with us. Apply NOW and If we are 100% CERTAIN we can help you based on your application, we will reach out to…
Red Flags in Dating – Signs You are Dating a Narcissist, Commitment Phobe, or Fixer Upper

Red Flags in Dating – Signs You are Dating a Narcissist, Commitment Phobe, or Fixer Upper

In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show we teach you the Biggest Red Flags in Dating to AVOID toxic men.  To identify Narcissists, Commitment Phobes and Fixer Uppers, Are you ready to meet a relationship ready man? Are you giving a ton of your energy and effort to putting yourself out there, but find that you seemingly always end up with a narcissist, fixer upper, or commitment phobe? Amazing women ask us every day how to find a relationship ready…

When Life Flips You the Bird!

Do you know It took Leonardo da Vinci 10 YEARS to paint Mona Lisa’s lips. You might feel frustrated that you haven’t found the right guy yet. Hell, you might just be wondering whether there is even a good-ish guy out there for you. The dating game can knock you on your a#ss. It can suck any positive feelings right out of you if you aren’t careful. At times it feels like life is flipping you the bird. Life is…

What’s Your Winning System?

It’s almost Thanksgiving! Are you still recovering from the big ole election. Wow things are crazy right now right? No matter who you voted for, it feels like things are chaotic. It feels like a lot is out of your control. We are here to bring you some good news. It’s different than the gloom and doom in your news or tee-vee’s. There is a lot that is in your control. No you can’t control what President Trump does! You…

The 5 Biggest Mistakes Most Women Make with The Right Guys

Every day we talk to women who are making some simple mistakes with the right guys. It sucks because these women are incredible! Smart, successful, kind, and good people! But, they are doing a couple of small things that are driving away the kind of men they would really like to share their lives with. After one or two dates, they aren’t hearing from the men that they wish would call again and give them another chance. We had the…
What if you DON’T do something?

What if you DON’T do something?

We want you to take a quick second to take a little journey with us… Let’s imagine for a second your life is going to stay the SAME. You’ll make the SAME amount of money. You’ll have the SAME relationships. Most of all, you’ll have the SAME PROBLEMS in love. You’ll STILL be single or miserable in a dead end relationship. You’ll STILL be going out on dates with narcissists, fixer-uppers and commitment phobes. You’ll STILL be meeting man-childs who…
A little Thank You…..

A little Thank You…..

We are so happy that you are part of our community!  We wanted to connect with you and provide you with an EXTRA level of support. First of all, thank you for believing in a unicorn!  Many of you haven’t seen or experienced a love life full of passion, fulfillment, and joy. We know that it can be hard to hold on to hope that it exists. BUT, you are certainly doing it because you are here taking this journey…
Why Love is Harder for the over achiever!

Why Love is Harder for the over achiever!

If you are reading this, we already know that you are an overachiever! Tricked you. Seriously though. Dating is tougher for people who are ambitious, driven, and tend to over achieve. You always earned good grades, you have never missed a deadline, and every time you “apply” yourself, you have gotten the result you wanted. Of course, that only applies to every other area of your life except your love life, only THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in your life. Most…
Today is the Day…….

Today is the Day…….

Today is the day you are going to make the 5 Shifts so you can find love now. We have a new free training for you to watch right now. There is nothing for sale.  It is pure, free transformational content Go watch the training here   http://www.onlinemeetingnow.com/register/?id=y7b83hzdsj   Say yes to love, Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn      
How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

Whitney is one of our students and she has absolutely nailed it! She is a dedicated single mom and found herself disheartened by the men she was meeting and the way they were treating her. We were so lucky to interview Whitney on what has worked for her because now she is in an amazing relationship with a man who is an incredible fit for her. She shared the specific tips that she learned from us to find love so…
Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

We have a special Date to Soul Mate Show Episode for you. We did a facebook live call in show. That’s right… We gave people advice right on the spot. We will continue to do this so make sure you’ve joined our free facebook group to watch the next show and even call in if you would like. https://www.facebook.com/groups/wineandlove/ If you want to have your last first date and jump on a free Single to Soul Mates call with us…
A Love Letter

A Love Letter

Your heart is good. You dream big. You try hard. You love selflessly. You care deeply. You do it all for everyone else. You think about their needs. You show up when they need you, no matter what your needs are at that moment. You come home alone. You want someone to lay next to at night. You want someone to console you after a rough day. Sometimes you cry. Does anyone even notice? Does anyone think about what you…
Your Best Online Dating Photos – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 19

Your Best Online Dating Photos – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 19

Today in our newest Date to Soul Mate Show we interview one of the foremost experts in the world on photos, especially online photos so buckle up and get ready. What are the best online photos to use on your dating profile? Should you get professional photos? How do you look your best in photos? We get to the bottom of these questions and many more. In the show we interview Claire Bahn, President of Online Profile Pros, formerly Dating…
Texting tips to leave him wanting more..

Texting tips to leave him wanting more..

We know that trying to find love can be frustrating. You’re so ready to find the man of your dreams, and you’re doing all the things you can think of to put yourself out there and make it happen. Not to mention the fact that the dating landscape has completely changed and can be beyond overwhelming: So many dating sites and apps to comb through.. How the heck to create a profile that represents you well and will grab the…

Can You Really Heal a Broken Heart the Eat Pray Love Route?

Dr. Ashley Arn was featured in an article on the Culture Trip.  The article talks about how you can heal your heart after a breakup.  Should you pull an Eat, Pray Love and travel the world.  If you can’t realistically do that what are your other options? https://theculturetrip.com/north-america/usa/articles/can-travel-really-heal-a-broken-heart/     Say yes to love, Dr. Michael and Dr. Ashley Arn    
Flirting, Honesty, and Dating in the Suburbs – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 18

Flirting, Honesty, and Dating in the Suburbs – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 18

In the latest Date to Soul Mate Show, we answer your questions directly. We talked about flirting and if it’s good or not when a guy teases you. We answered a question about how to handle someone who is hot and cold with you. How you can pay attention to “that little voice” when dating someone. How much makeup should you wear on a date. Flirting, Honesty, and Dating in the Suburbs – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP…
Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Hey Date to Soul Mate Nation, We hope you are doing well.  We know it can be very frustrating out there in dating land. That’s why we are so passionate about helping ALL of you create real connections out there. That’s why we put out so much free content and advice.  We want to see you succeed. We were just recently interviewed on the Maggie Linton Show. We touched on several important topics including attracting the right person and where…
Love Compatibility – Are you settling for the wrong guy?

Love Compatibility – Are you settling for the wrong guy?

When we were in New York, we used Airbnb to rent an apartment for over a week.  Online the apartment looked great.  In the pictures it looked clean, modern and like it had quite a bit of room (for Manhattan). We were very excited about staying there for an extended period of time.  We booked the place about two months in advance.  We were fantasizing about our great place in New York for several months, building it up in our…
Free Love Success Summit with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Free Love Success Summit with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Why can’t I meet someone? Is this a thought you’ve had? Does it seem like meeting the right person is nearly impossible? Or when you do, it never works out? Don’t worry. You’re not alone. Many, many women are in the same boat you are. They are driven and successful in so many areas of their life except one: Finding the one. Ravid Yosef is a cancer survivor and successful businesswoman.  She is putting together a FREE summit called the Love Success Summit to finally ask…
How Hillary is Changing the World of Dating

How Hillary is Changing the World of Dating

Speculation about Hillary’s health has run rampant in the news, but no one is talking yet about her impact on dating. Regardless of your politics, you have to admit that it is pretty cool that women are now actively in the running for president of the United States. What an exciting time! Women now have the opportunity to take charge of traditionally male dominated roles. With more women in business and powerful roles, there has been a shift in how…
The NY fire department broke us out

The NY fire department broke us out

Our family has been staying in Manhattan, NY for the past 10 days or so. It has been a great time. We took our son Mason to see The School of Rock which he thought was hilarious. The pure joy in watching him watch the show was palpable. One night we got a babysitter and went out with some friends of ours for dinner and drinks. We went to this steak restaurant that had been open for 150 years. We…
Donald vs. Hillary Debate #1 tonight

Donald vs. Hillary Debate #1 tonight

The event is finally here. The Donald vs. Hillary. The first debate is tonight and some are predicting 100 million of us will be watching. That sounds crazy. Are you going to be watching?   In any debate what you say isn’t as important as how you present and express yourself.   In 2000, Al Gore supposedly had a good debate performance based on is the content of his words. He absolutely got killed though by W. in how he…
Is Your Phone Blocking Your Love Life?

Is Your Phone Blocking Your Love Life?

There are lots of singles out there. Are you open to them?   Be careful about being glued to your phone. Only players and extremely aggressive people will approach you if your buried in your phone. This was Starbucks this morning in Manhattan   This was also Starbucks this morning. May not be your cup of tea but a missed opportunity. He was def single. Say yes to love, Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael Arn