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Donald vs. Hillary Debate #1 tonight

Donald vs. Hillary Debate #1 tonight

The event is finally here. The Donald vs. Hillary. The first debate is tonight and some are predicting 100 million of us will be watching. That sounds crazy. Are you going to be watching?   In any debate what you say isn’t as important as how you present and express yourself.   In 2000, Al Gore supposedly had a good debate performance based on is the content of his words. He absolutely got killed though by W. in how he…
Is Your Phone Blocking Your Love Life?

Is Your Phone Blocking Your Love Life?

There are lots of singles out there. Are you open to them?   Be careful about being glued to your phone. Only players and extremely aggressive people will approach you if your buried in your phone. This was Starbucks this morning in Manhattan   This was also Starbucks this morning. May not be your cup of tea but a missed opportunity. He was def single. Say yes to love, Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael Arn
Are your Nerves Scaring Men Away?

Are your Nerves Scaring Men Away?

Please don’t be the one that gets the cold shoulder because you unintentionally have RBF on your dates. Or are you so nervous on dates that you aren’t able to express the real you.   We all react differently to being nervous on a date. Some of us talk too much. Some have RBF and hide their personality.   If you are too in your head, it WILL show on your face.   You may not even feel that nervous…
What Not To Do on a First Date

What Not To Do on a First Date

We had a great opportunity to comment on an article with Huffington Post!  The article is all about the Top 10 Worst Types of First Dates. It was so fun to think about all the places people shouldn’t go! Lol.  We hope we don’t ruin your weekend plans, but we wanted to make sure to give you a heads up so you can avoid making these mistakes. Yikes. Read the article on The Huffington Post  
Make Your Skeletons Dance

Make Your Skeletons Dance

  We all have skeletons in our closet. No matter how much badassity swag you have, you still have some sort of perceived baggage. Do you feel like there is something about our past that potential matches judge you for?  Is there something about you or your past that YOU judge yourself for? The question is not IF you have baggage, but how do you manage your skeletons while dating? It is really tough to know how to talk about…
Are you being scammed in Dating?

Are you being scammed in Dating?

You all know that there are a grip of scammers, sex addicts and digital douches out there in dating land.   In case you don’t know, digital douches are men who would otherwise be nice upstanding gentlemen, but because we communicate now digitally or through online, text or email primarily they are major douchebags. They’re inner douchey demons are let out and run rampant in a digital world. They text, email and hit you up online in rude, overly sexual…
How to Be Irresistible on a First Date with Kimberly Seltzer – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 17

How to Be Irresistible on a First Date with Kimberly Seltzer – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 17

Would you like to know how to show up on a first date looking your best? Feeling confident in how you look? Feeling confident in how you express yourself? Great! We thought so.  You are in luck, because we have a special guest on today’s Date to Soul Mate Show.  She has specialized superpowers in helping people look their best AND feel confident in themselves while dating. Dr. Ashley talks with Kimberly Seltzer who is a therapist and Dating Makeover…
Opening Conversation Starters and How Long Should Women Offer to Pay for Dates – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 16

Opening Conversation Starters and How Long Should Women Offer to Pay for Dates – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 16

Yo Yo Yo, Happy end of the week. We are excited for the weekend. We are going to a microbrew fest in Catalina Island on Saturday. This means sipping the lagers in our sandals on the beach. We are talking about two important topics on today’s shizzle. Our lovely Wine and Love with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael members have been curious lately….. First, we are answering one of your questions about paying for dates. Specifically, how long should a…
Match.com Review from Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

Match.com Review from Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

Hello Beauts and Gents, Today we are going to give you our unvarnished expert opinions of Match.com. If you are dating like it’s this year, you are going to be online dating.  The key is to choose one paid online dating site to use and one free or niche site to use. So here it goes. Match.com Review Match.com is one of those er paid sites.  It’s the grand poo ba of online dating.  The Bill Gates. The Big Dog…
How to Give a Massage to Your Partner with Yasuko Kawamura

How to Give a Massage to Your Partner with Yasuko Kawamura

Learn how to give a massage to your partner.  Yasuko Kawamura stops by The Date to Soul Mate Show to teach how to to give a good massage to someone. Yasuko is a Board Certified Licensed Massage Therapist and Reiki practitioner based in Orange County, California. Yasuko has a passion in teaching Couples Massage Class’ in which couples learn how to massage each other using easy massage techniques that do not hurt their fingers. By showing them how to effectively…
Do Men Only Want da Younger Women?

Do Men Only Want da Younger Women?

Welcome back to the work week.  The grind is real this week no?   We hope you had a great Labor Day weekend. We received a lot of questions from you all.  One of the consistent themes you ask us about is “do men only want younger women?” “why do men seem to only look for younger women?” “who do these men think they are looking for someone 10-15 years younger, while they’re not the best catch themselves?” Yes it’s true…
How to Find Your SoulMate at ANY Weight – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 14

How to Find Your SoulMate at ANY Weight – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 14

Hello fellow love Argonauts and Wine Lovers, It’s labor day weekend and we are excited to squeeze the juice out of the last few days of summer. hey ya there beautiful peeps We are hitting you with a value packed show today answering the questions you’ve been asking us the past week.  As always we love you (most of you) and are excited for you to listen in. Here are some of the questions we answer on today’s show: 1)…
Beware of The Energy Vampires & Negative People

Beware of The Energy Vampires & Negative People

Do you feel like you don’t have time or energy for love? Do you find yourself dealing with other people’s problems, negative people and feeling completely depleted? There are family, friends, co-workers and other people out there who will suck the time and energy out of your life.  They are negative people.  They may or may not mean to but boy are they good at it. Audit Your Needy Naysers and Negative People in Your Life Before you can really be…

Online Dating Tips, Amarone and Reckless Love – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 13

In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show we answer all of your questions.  We give you our best online dating tips.  We also drink wine.  We review two “Man” wines. Here are some of the questions we answer… What are your best online dating tips? How long should you date someone you are unsure about? Why am I attracting the wrong people? How do you move the process of online dating along to meet someone? How do you initiate contact…
The George Costanza School of Dating

The George Costanza School of Dating

“When you don’t care, that indifference makes you attractive” George Constanza George isn’t 100% correct here but he is on to something. If you’ve ever watched Seinfeld, you know Costanza isn’t exactly an ideal love guru. He has crazy ideas… He acts selfishly….. He overthinks everything…. But he sometimes throws out something profound and useful to listen to. When you are out there in the dating world, what mindset do you bring to the table? When you really want something…
Is Working from Home Ruining Your Love Life?

Is Working from Home Ruining Your Love Life?

Is working from home ruining your love life? It definitely could be….. Does this sound like you? Roll out of bed.  Throw on yoga pants.  Instantly make and drink GIANT cup of java. Dream about going back to sleep…..WAIT just kidding. Turn on your laptop. Get cracking. No hair brushing. Usually, no teeth brushing. No makeup. Honestly, this is our daily routine and it feels pretty awesome. No muss, no fuss. We can just wake up and grind. Unfortunately, working from home makes finding…
How to Trust Again – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 11

How to Trust Again – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 11

We have a brand new show for you all! We received some great questions from our free facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/wineandlove/   Here are some of the questions we answer on today’s show: 1) How to trust again and get over trust issues? 2) How do you stop meeting fixer uppers and project type guys? 3) How do you get out of the friend zone? 4) What do you do when you like a guy who is part of a group of…
Ghosting Someone – Why he Disappeared

Ghosting Someone – Why he Disappeared

Ghosting someone! Find out why he disappeared and what you can do about it on the latest Date to Soul Mate show with Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael. We answered our FB group’s most pressing dating questions. Here are some of the questions we answered: 1) Where are the best places to meet single men? 2) Is it ok for a woman to make the first move and how do you go about doing that? 3) Why do men decide…
The No Fluff Key to Success in Love

The No Fluff Key to Success in Love

We are back in southern California after a month in Chicago and Wisconsin.  It’s cray cray how you can have a blast or have a miserable time no matter where you are depending on your mindset.  We’ve been having a great time.  Except we ate and drank our way through the Midwest so it’s detox time now baby. It’s always nice to see family and friends you haven’t seen in a while. Today we wanted to talk with you about…
What to Wear on a Date from Alex Cheatwood of Ustyled.com

What to Wear on a Date from Alex Cheatwood of Ustyled.com

In today's Date to Soul Mate Show, Dr. Ashley gets the best style advice from fashion and style expert Alex Cheatwood of Ustyled.com. If you want to learn about the best date outfits to wear and how you can look your best listen to this show.
The Best Places to Meet Men – The Date to Soul Mate Show

The Best Places to Meet Men – The Date to Soul Mate Show

Discover the best places to meet men from Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael Arn.  We will teach you where to meet relationship ready men offline. Do you want to learn about the best places to meet men? What about meeting high caliber relationship ready men? They are everywhere. It’s literally raining men out there. There are so many single quality relationship ready men in the world right now. The thing is you can’t be romantic about the best places to…

Online Dating Profile Examples – Free Profile Makeover

How would you like the chance to get a free online dating profile makeover from us? We are going to provide you and our other readers with the best online dating profile examples out there. We have provided many online profile makeovers both here at date to soul mate and while working with eHarmony.com.   These makeovers are often part of packages people pay $5,000, $10,000 and up to $30,000 for. We know from our experience that minor changes and…
eHarmony Review from Dr. Michael and Dr. Ashley Arn

eHarmony Review from Dr. Michael and Dr. Ashley Arn

We are your trusted experts when it comes to dating. We want to give you the best dating advice in the world. We also want to steer you in the right direction in terms of the best and worst places to find your match. Today we are going to review eHarmony.com We have to give you a disclaimer because we have both worked with eHarmony as dating experts and matchmakers. Of course, we are biased towards their services.  We also have…
4 Lessons from the Worst Online Dating Profile Ever – Four Friday Favorites – June 10th 2016

4 Lessons from the Worst Online Dating Profile Ever – Four Friday Favorites – June 10th 2016

Hi Date to Soul Mate Nation – Here is your weekly dose of our Four Friday Favorites, the best of the things we are reading, thinking about, watching, listening to, and pondering. Psychology we enjoyed –  On reddit, people were discussing their ability to set healthy boundaries with family members.  This person made an excuse for his or her inability to set healthy boundaries by saying they hated conflict and were an INFP.  For anyone who doesn’t know, INFP is a personality…

What happened between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard?

We’re sure you’ve heard about the latest sad news in celebrity coupledom.  Unfortunately, this isn’t your regular celebrity breakup or rehab stint. Johnny and Amber are getting divorced after 15 months of marriage.  Their marriage was short even in Hollywood years, but that’s the least of it. Amber is accusing Johnny of domestic violence.  This is getting ugly early.  She said that he has been physically and verbally violent throughout their marriage.  She claims that Johnny snorts cocaine, drinks and…
The Donald vs. The Hills

The Donald vs. The Hills

Can you fathom how crazy the next 6 months will be in the presidential election? It’s down to two people. The Donald vs. The Hills No matter what your politics, you know it’s going to get vicious between these two. Old Donnie boy can’t help but throw verbal punches left and right.  He’s already accusing Bill Clinton of being a rapist and saying Hillary enabled it all. Hillary already put out an attack ad on the reality star using his…
Fighting with Your Man – The Honest Truth about Arguments

Fighting with Your Man – The Honest Truth about Arguments

When you argue with your man what are you really arguing about? What are you thinking during the argument? What are you trying to do in the argument? Most of our arguments and fights aren’t what they appear to be on the surface. Whether you are arguing with some namby pamby on flakebook or your lip boxing with your lover, you are using all sorts of ninja like attacks and defensive moves that go deeper than just the topic of…