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Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

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Why Love is Harder for the over achiever!

Why Love is Harder for the over achiever!

If you are reading this, we already know that you are an overachiever! Tricked you. Seriously though. Dating is tougher for people who are ambitious, driven, and tend to over achieve. You always earned good grades, you have never missed a deadline, and every time you “apply” yourself, you have gotten the result you wanted. Of course, that only applies to every other area of your life except your love life, only THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in your life. Most…
Today is the Day…….

Today is the Day…….

Today is the day you are going to make the 5 Shifts so you can find love now. We have a new free training for you to watch right now. There is nothing for sale.  It is pure, free transformational content Go watch the training here   http://www.onlinemeetingnow.com/register/?id=y7b83hzdsj   Say yes to love, Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn      
How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

Whitney is one of our students and she has absolutely nailed it! She is a dedicated single mom and found herself disheartened by the men she was meeting and the way they were treating her. We were so lucky to interview Whitney on what has worked for her because now she is in an amazing relationship with a man who is an incredible fit for her. She shared the specific tips that she learned from us to find love so…
Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

We have a special Date to Soul Mate Show Episode for you. We did a facebook live call in show. That’s right… We gave people advice right on the spot. We will continue to do this so make sure you’ve joined our free facebook group to watch the next show and even call in if you would like. https://www.facebook.com/groups/wineandlove/ If you want to have your last first date and jump on a free Single to Soul Mates call with us…
A Love Letter

A Love Letter

Your heart is good. You dream big. You try hard. You love selflessly. You care deeply. You do it all for everyone else. You think about their needs. You show up when they need you, no matter what your needs are at that moment. You come home alone. You want someone to lay next to at night. You want someone to console you after a rough day. Sometimes you cry. Does anyone even notice? Does anyone think about what you…
Your Best Online Dating Photos – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 19

Your Best Online Dating Photos – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 19

Today in our newest Date to Soul Mate Show we interview one of the foremost experts in the world on photos, especially online photos so buckle up and get ready. What are the best online photos to use on your dating profile? Should you get professional photos? How do you look your best in photos? We get to the bottom of these questions and many more. In the show we interview Claire Bahn, President of Online Profile Pros, formerly Dating…
Texting tips to leave him wanting more..

Texting tips to leave him wanting more..

We know that trying to find love can be frustrating. You’re so ready to find the man of your dreams, and you’re doing all the things you can think of to put yourself out there and make it happen. Not to mention the fact that the dating landscape has completely changed and can be beyond overwhelming: So many dating sites and apps to comb through.. How the heck to create a profile that represents you well and will grab the…

Can You Really Heal a Broken Heart the Eat Pray Love Route?

Dr. Ashley Arn was featured in an article on the Culture Trip.  The article talks about how you can heal your heart after a breakup.  Should you pull an Eat, Pray Love and travel the world.  If you can’t realistically do that what are your other options? https://theculturetrip.com/north-america/usa/articles/can-travel-really-heal-a-broken-heart/     Say yes to love, Dr. Michael and Dr. Ashley Arn    
Flirting, Honesty, and Dating in the Suburbs – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 18

Flirting, Honesty, and Dating in the Suburbs – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 18

In the latest Date to Soul Mate Show, we answer your questions directly. We talked about flirting and if it’s good or not when a guy teases you. We answered a question about how to handle someone who is hot and cold with you. How you can pay attention to “that little voice” when dating someone. How much makeup should you wear on a date. Flirting, Honesty, and Dating in the Suburbs – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP…
Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Hey Date to Soul Mate Nation, We hope you are doing well.  We know it can be very frustrating out there in dating land. That’s why we are so passionate about helping ALL of you create real connections out there. That’s why we put out so much free content and advice.  We want to see you succeed. We were just recently interviewed on the Maggie Linton Show. We touched on several important topics including attracting the right person and where…
Love Compatibility – Are you settling for the wrong guy?

Love Compatibility – Are you settling for the wrong guy?

When we were in New York, we used Airbnb to rent an apartment for over a week.  Online the apartment looked great.  In the pictures it looked clean, modern and like it had quite a bit of room (for Manhattan). We were very excited about staying there for an extended period of time.  We booked the place about two months in advance.  We were fantasizing about our great place in New York for several months, building it up in our…
Free Love Success Summit with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Free Love Success Summit with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Why can’t I meet someone? Is this a thought you’ve had? Does it seem like meeting the right person is nearly impossible? Or when you do, it never works out? Don’t worry. You’re not alone. Many, many women are in the same boat you are. They are driven and successful in so many areas of their life except one: Finding the one. Ravid Yosef is a cancer survivor and successful businesswoman.  She is putting together a FREE summit called the Love Success Summit to finally ask…
How Hillary is Changing the World of Dating

How Hillary is Changing the World of Dating

Speculation about Hillary’s health has run rampant in the news, but no one is talking yet about her impact on dating. Regardless of your politics, you have to admit that it is pretty cool that women are now actively in the running for president of the United States. What an exciting time! Women now have the opportunity to take charge of traditionally male dominated roles. With more women in business and powerful roles, there has been a shift in how…
The NY fire department broke us out

The NY fire department broke us out

Our family has been staying in Manhattan, NY for the past 10 days or so. It has been a great time. We took our son Mason to see The School of Rock which he thought was hilarious. The pure joy in watching him watch the show was palpable. One night we got a babysitter and went out with some friends of ours for dinner and drinks. We went to this steak restaurant that had been open for 150 years. We…
Donald vs. Hillary Debate #1 tonight

Donald vs. Hillary Debate #1 tonight

The event is finally here. The Donald vs. Hillary. The first debate is tonight and some are predicting 100 million of us will be watching. That sounds crazy. Are you going to be watching?   In any debate what you say isn’t as important as how you present and express yourself.   In 2000, Al Gore supposedly had a good debate performance based on is the content of his words. He absolutely got killed though by W. in how he…
Is Your Phone Blocking Your Love Life?

Is Your Phone Blocking Your Love Life?

There are lots of singles out there. Are you open to them?   Be careful about being glued to your phone. Only players and extremely aggressive people will approach you if your buried in your phone. This was Starbucks this morning in Manhattan   This was also Starbucks this morning. May not be your cup of tea but a missed opportunity. He was def single. Say yes to love, Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael Arn
Are your Nerves Scaring Men Away?

Are your Nerves Scaring Men Away?

Please don’t be the one that gets the cold shoulder because you unintentionally have RBF on your dates. Or are you so nervous on dates that you aren’t able to express the real you.   We all react differently to being nervous on a date. Some of us talk too much. Some have RBF and hide their personality.   If you are too in your head, it WILL show on your face.   You may not even feel that nervous…
What Not To Do on a First Date

What Not To Do on a First Date

We had a great opportunity to comment on an article with Huffington Post!  The article is all about the Top 10 Worst Types of First Dates. It was so fun to think about all the places people shouldn’t go! Lol.  We hope we don’t ruin your weekend plans, but we wanted to make sure to give you a heads up so you can avoid making these mistakes. Yikes. Read the article on The Huffington Post  
Make Your Skeletons Dance

Make Your Skeletons Dance

  We all have skeletons in our closet. No matter how much badassity swag you have, you still have some sort of perceived baggage. Do you feel like there is something about our past that potential matches judge you for?  Is there something about you or your past that YOU judge yourself for? The question is not IF you have baggage, but how do you manage your skeletons while dating? It is really tough to know how to talk about…
Are you being scammed in Dating?

Are you being scammed in Dating?

You all know that there are a grip of scammers, sex addicts and digital douches out there in dating land.   In case you don’t know, digital douches are men who would otherwise be nice upstanding gentlemen, but because we communicate now digitally or through online, text or email primarily they are major douchebags. They’re inner douchey demons are let out and run rampant in a digital world. They text, email and hit you up online in rude, overly sexual…
How to Be Irresistible on a First Date with Kimberly Seltzer – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 17

How to Be Irresistible on a First Date with Kimberly Seltzer – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 17

Would you like to know how to show up on a first date looking your best? Feeling confident in how you look? Feeling confident in how you express yourself? Great! We thought so.  You are in luck, because we have a special guest on today’s Date to Soul Mate Show.  She has specialized superpowers in helping people look their best AND feel confident in themselves while dating. Dr. Ashley talks with Kimberly Seltzer who is a therapist and Dating Makeover…
Opening Conversation Starters and How Long Should Women Offer to Pay for Dates – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 16

Opening Conversation Starters and How Long Should Women Offer to Pay for Dates – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 16

Yo Yo Yo, Happy end of the week. We are excited for the weekend. We are going to a microbrew fest in Catalina Island on Saturday. This means sipping the lagers in our sandals on the beach. We are talking about two important topics on today’s shizzle. Our lovely Wine and Love with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael members have been curious lately….. First, we are answering one of your questions about paying for dates. Specifically, how long should a…
Match.com Review from Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

Match.com Review from Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

Hello Beauts and Gents, Today we are going to give you our unvarnished expert opinions of Match.com. If you are dating like it’s this year, you are going to be online dating.  The key is to choose one paid online dating site to use and one free or niche site to use. So here it goes. Match.com Review Match.com is one of those er paid sites.  It’s the grand poo ba of online dating.  The Bill Gates. The Big Dog…
How to Give a Massage to Your Partner with Yasuko Kawamura

How to Give a Massage to Your Partner with Yasuko Kawamura

Learn how to give a massage to your partner.  Yasuko Kawamura stops by The Date to Soul Mate Show to teach how to to give a good massage to someone. Yasuko is a Board Certified Licensed Massage Therapist and Reiki practitioner based in Orange County, California. Yasuko has a passion in teaching Couples Massage Class’ in which couples learn how to massage each other using easy massage techniques that do not hurt their fingers. By showing them how to effectively…
Do Men Only Want da Younger Women?

Do Men Only Want da Younger Women?

Welcome back to the work week.  The grind is real this week no?   We hope you had a great Labor Day weekend. We received a lot of questions from you all.  One of the consistent themes you ask us about is “do men only want younger women?” “why do men seem to only look for younger women?” “who do these men think they are looking for someone 10-15 years younger, while they’re not the best catch themselves?” Yes it’s true…
How to Find Your SoulMate at ANY Weight – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 14

How to Find Your SoulMate at ANY Weight – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 14

Hello fellow love Argonauts and Wine Lovers, It’s labor day weekend and we are excited to squeeze the juice out of the last few days of summer. hey ya there beautiful peeps We are hitting you with a value packed show today answering the questions you’ve been asking us the past week.  As always we love you (most of you) and are excited for you to listen in. Here are some of the questions we answer on today’s show: 1)…
Beware of The Energy Vampires & Negative People

Beware of The Energy Vampires & Negative People

Do you feel like you don’t have time or energy for love? Do you find yourself dealing with other people’s problems, negative people and feeling completely depleted? There are family, friends, co-workers and other people out there who will suck the time and energy out of your life.  They are negative people.  They may or may not mean to but boy are they good at it. Audit Your Needy Naysers and Negative People in Your Life Before you can really be…

Online Dating Tips, Amarone and Reckless Love – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 13

In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show we answer all of your questions.  We give you our best online dating tips.  We also drink wine.  We review two “Man” wines. Here are some of the questions we answer… What are your best online dating tips? How long should you date someone you are unsure about? Why am I attracting the wrong people? How do you move the process of online dating along to meet someone? How do you initiate contact…