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Does Match.com Work?

Does Match.com Work?

One of the biggest questions we get asked is “which Dating site or app should I use?” The bad news is there is no holy grail of dating sites or apps. There isn’t ONE that beats all the rest. Dating sites are like diets. There are many out there and the best one for you is the one you’ll use and stick to using. Today we talk about Match.com. Should you use Match.com? How do you use Match.com to actually…

Attraction and Chemistry are a lot like Motivation.

Most people wait and depend on someone or something outside of themselves to give them motivation or attraction.   That’s why motivation and attraction rarely happen and are short lived when they do occur.   Yes, some of attraction is innate and totally outside of our control.   Yet, much of attraction and chemistry for someone else starts within you.   The energy, boldness and playfulness you bring to an interaction with someone is huge.   The parts of you…
Have Him Pursue You

Have Him Pursue You

Let’s get together sometime! Let’s meet up soon. We’ll figure it out. I’ll hit you up sometime. One of the worst things in dating is when a person is SOMETIMING you. When they’re SOONING you. Even worse is when they expect you to do ALL the work. Let me know when you’re free! Let me know when you want to get together again. If you want to be the person in charge of making all the plans and giving all…

SAY THIS, NOT THAT in Dating & Relationships….

There is the end of the conversation when you want someone to take your phone number and call or text you. What do we normally do? Usually we say nothing and miss out on ever talking to that person again. or we say “here’s my number give me a call” or “give me your number” Next time SAY THIS: “I have to go, it was great talking to you.” followed by…… 1. You seem fun! Feel free to shoot me…
You are only ONE green light signal or conversation away from finding the love of your life…..

You are only ONE green light signal or conversation away from finding the love of your life…..

You just don’t know which green light signal it will be! That’s right. One green light signal or one conversation with the RIGHT PERSON at the RIGHT TIME will change the course of your life. The problem is we don’t connect with each other anymore. We are more unapproachable than ever. We are stuck in our phones, stuck in our mental to do list, and running from one activity to another. We also have our walls up because we’ve been hurt…
Are you pen pals or are you ACTUALLY dating?

Are you pen pals or are you ACTUALLY dating?

There is a special kind of boiling frustration that engulfs you when a guy you met online continues to want to be message pals or text buddies. The dreaded never ending messages. He messages you over and over again. or He halfheartedly messages you every once in awhile. All without ever asking you out on a REAL DATE. The growing resentment inside of you explodes when he send you another “what’s up” message. The worst part of it is you…
What Makes a Man WANT to Commit to You

What Makes a Man WANT to Commit to You

What makes a man want to commit to the right woman? The number one thing we hear from women every single day is that they only meet men who are NOT looking for the one thing they want—a committed relationship. These men usually want to date “casually”, when things are convenient for them, no strings attached. Here is the biggest problem, often times things with this kind of man are HOT. When you are with him, you feel chemistry, connection,…
Attractive Complementary Qualities

Attractive Complementary Qualities

On Today’s Date to Soul Mate Show Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn talk about How you can be your most attractive self using Attractive Complementary Qualities. Attractive Complementary Qualities – The Date to Soul Mate Show APPLY FOR A FREE ATTRACT THE MAN YOU WANT PERSONALIZED BLUEPRINT! FIND & ATTRACT Your IDEAL MAN in the SHORTEST TIME possible by following a simple system that’s led thousands of modern, professional women to build lasting relationships with their ideal man. If…
Men aren’t from Mars and you’re not from Venus

Men aren’t from Mars and you’re not from Venus

What a ridiculous concept.  That men and women are from different planets. That we are so different we need to come up with a way to understand each other’s completely different planetary languages. Well if it’s so ridiculous why has this idea become so popular? First of all, the popularity of an idea has nothing to do with its accuracy or validity. Think about Trickle Down Economics as an idea. Popular with a lot of people. Total BS. Second, it’s…
The Curse of the One Hit Wonder

The Curse of the One Hit Wonder

  I get knocked down, but I get up again You are never gonna keep me down I get knocked down, but I get up again You are never gonna keep me down I get knocked down, but I get up again You are never gonna keep me down I get knocked down, but I get up again You are never gonna keep me down He drinks a Whiskey drink, he drinks a Vodka drink He drinks a Lager drink,…
How to Get Your Needs Met in Your Love Life

How to Get Your Needs Met in Your Love Life

Do  you feel like you are always giving, giving, giving and giving to the men you’re dating? AND never GETTING your needs met? Feeling drained from the imbalance of it all. frustrated by the unfairness of it all. Not only that but many of these guys have the goolies to blame you when the relationship ends. YOU…… The one who was doing all the giving. This is an all to common story…….. Jane found herself in a never ending cycle…

She thinks we are wrong….Uuuh Ohhhh

Tanya disagrees with us that soul mates are created. Here is what she said “I’m sorry to say!  I disagree with your point of view on soulmates. you don’t create a soulmate. if that were true then we could pick anyone and make them into your soulmate.  your soulmate is the one who when you meet them you know I mean you really know its them. the love from your heart never goes away and neither does the pain when…
Soul Mates are Created

Soul Mates are Created

First you find the right person for you, then you fight like hell for the rest of your life to be soul mates. Last Sunday we realized something was off between us and had been for 2 weeks. We weren’t connecting. weren’t on the same page. We were bickering over little things. getting annoyed with each other over day to day things. We caught ourselves not prioritizing each other and not prioritizing our relationship. For several weeks we had both been…
Push the Fear Away

Push the Fear Away

Fear will eat away at your success and life if you let it! Our son Mason received his first STRIPE in taekwondo. He was SOOOOO EXCITED. He had the biggest ear to ear grin on his face. You could tell he was proud of himself. He was almost manic with glee. It didn’t start out this way though with taekwondo. In fact quite the opposite. At first he was SCARED to even join the class. He was one of the…

The whacky crazy way to find love

Do this to break free from Old Dating Patterns. Today you’re going to get advice from US by way of George Costanza of Seinfeld. haha yes we know this sounds Whacky. Do you remember the Seinfeld episode where George does everything opposite from what he would normally do? It’s a hilarious episode. He tells a woman he is bald and a failure. He tells the owner of the Yankees that they suck and things start to drastically change for him. You…

4 Steps to End Bread Crumbing Now

We recently talked to you about The Bread Crumbing Dating Pattern and today we are going to teach you What to do when you’re stuck in this pattern. But before we get there, if you want a quick giggle, go check out this article and pictures of this couple who have been married 37 years and dress in matching outfits everyday http://datetosoulmate.com/stylish-couple-world/ Let’s refresh our memories about Bread Crumbing so we are all on the same page. Bread crumbing is when…

Is he leaving you bread crumbs?

Aahhhh today we are going to talk with you about one of the most insidious Forever Single Dating Patterns. The Bread Crumbing Dating Pattern…. This is when a guy gives you just enough attention, love, affection or communication to leave you wanting more. Just enough to get you to stay.. To keep dating him… To stay in the relationship… He is leaving bread crumbs for you to continue following the path with him. He never fully meets your needs. Not…