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Potential boyfriend or just friends?

Let’s rap on a question from one of you today… Question: So…I met this guy…Well he re-entered my life. I’ve know him ever since I can remember. But, he is re-entering my life as a potential boyfriend. I’m having a hard time knowing how to act towards him. I don’t wanna come across as pushy. Guys like a chase. How much is too much? I don’t wanna come across as uninterested. I have a ton of questions! Dr. Ashley &…
Where are you stuck?

Where are you stuck?

Many of the clients we work with in our live workshop are stuck in meeting the wrong guys. They are DOING all sorts of things to meet men. They are online dating. Meeting men offline. Speed dating. Hiking dating. Some of you are not meeting ANY MEN. You feel stuck in knowing where to meet men. The bad news is that this won’t change UNLESS you DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT. The saddest part is to see an amazing woman like you…
Is Russia Hacking Your Dates?

Is Russia Hacking Your Dates?

We are sure you’ve heard the news. Russia may or may not have hacked into the democrats emails to get the Trumpster elected. If you are a republican you are saying there is no way Russia did this. If you are a  democrat you are YELLING that Vladimir Putin did this intentionally to get his BFF elected president of the United States. Either way you are getting whipped up into a frenzy. Russia isn’t the only ones who can hack…

What’s Your Winning System?

It’s almost Thanksgiving! Are you still recovering from the big ole election. Wow things are crazy right now right? No matter who you voted for, it feels like things are chaotic. It feels like a lot is out of your control. We are here to bring you some good news. It’s different than the gloom and doom in your news or tee-vee’s. There is a lot that is in your control. No you can’t control what President Trump does! You…

The 5 Biggest Mistakes Most Women Make with The Right Guys

Every day we talk to women who are making some simple mistakes with the right guys. It sucks because these women are incredible! Smart, successful, kind, and good people! But, they are doing a couple of small things that are driving away the kind of men they would really like to share their lives with. After one or two dates, they aren’t hearing from the men that they wish would call again and give them another chance. We had the…
A little Thank You…..

A little Thank You…..

We are so happy that you are part of our community!  We wanted to connect with you and provide you with an EXTRA level of support. First of all, thank you for believing in a unicorn!  Many of you haven’t seen or experienced a love life full of passion, fulfillment, and joy. We know that it can be hard to hold on to hope that it exists. BUT, you are certainly doing it because you are here taking this journey…
How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

Whitney is one of our students and she has absolutely nailed it! She is a dedicated single mom and found herself disheartened by the men she was meeting and the way they were treating her. We were so lucky to interview Whitney on what has worked for her because now she is in an amazing relationship with a man who is an incredible fit for her. She shared the specific tips that she learned from us to find love so…
A Love Letter

A Love Letter

Your heart is good. You dream big. You try hard. You love selflessly. You care deeply. You do it all for everyone else. You think about their needs. You show up when they need you, no matter what your needs are at that moment. You come home alone. You want someone to lay next to at night. You want someone to console you after a rough day. Sometimes you cry. Does anyone even notice? Does anyone think about what you…
Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Hey Date to Soul Mate Nation, We hope you are doing well.  We know it can be very frustrating out there in dating land. That’s why we are so passionate about helping ALL of you create real connections out there. That’s why we put out so much free content and advice.  We want to see you succeed. We were just recently interviewed on the Maggie Linton Show. We touched on several important topics including attracting the right person and where…
Free Love Success Summit with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Free Love Success Summit with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Why can’t I meet someone? Is this a thought you’ve had? Does it seem like meeting the right person is nearly impossible? Or when you do, it never works out? Don’t worry. You’re not alone. Many, many women are in the same boat you are. They are driven and successful in so many areas of their life except one: Finding the one. Ravid Yosef is a cancer survivor and successful businesswoman.  She is putting together a FREE summit called the Love Success Summit to finally ask…
Donald vs. Hillary Debate #1 tonight

Donald vs. Hillary Debate #1 tonight

The event is finally here. The Donald vs. Hillary. The first debate is tonight and some are predicting 100 million of us will be watching. That sounds crazy. Are you going to be watching?   In any debate what you say isn’t as important as how you present and express yourself.   In 2000, Al Gore supposedly had a good debate performance based on is the content of his words. He absolutely got killed though by W. in how he…
Are your Nerves Scaring Men Away?

Are your Nerves Scaring Men Away?

Please don’t be the one that gets the cold shoulder because you unintentionally have RBF on your dates. Or are you so nervous on dates that you aren’t able to express the real you.   We all react differently to being nervous on a date. Some of us talk too much. Some have RBF and hide their personality.   If you are too in your head, it WILL show on your face.   You may not even feel that nervous…
Opening Conversation Starters and How Long Should Women Offer to Pay for Dates – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 16

Opening Conversation Starters and How Long Should Women Offer to Pay for Dates – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 16

Yo Yo Yo, Happy end of the week. We are excited for the weekend. We are going to a microbrew fest in Catalina Island on Saturday. This means sipping the lagers in our sandals on the beach. We are talking about two important topics on today’s shizzle. Our lovely Wine and Love with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael members have been curious lately….. First, we are answering one of your questions about paying for dates. Specifically, how long should a…
How to Give a Massage to Your Partner with Yasuko Kawamura

How to Give a Massage to Your Partner with Yasuko Kawamura

Learn how to give a massage to your partner.  Yasuko Kawamura stops by The Date to Soul Mate Show to teach how to to give a good massage to someone. Yasuko is a Board Certified Licensed Massage Therapist and Reiki practitioner based in Orange County, California. Yasuko has a passion in teaching Couples Massage Class’ in which couples learn how to massage each other using easy massage techniques that do not hurt their fingers. By showing them how to effectively…
Ghosting Someone – Why he Disappeared

Ghosting Someone – Why he Disappeared

Ghosting someone! Find out why he disappeared and what you can do about it on the latest Date to Soul Mate show with Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael. We answered our FB group’s most pressing dating questions. Here are some of the questions we answered: 1) Where are the best places to meet single men? 2) Is it ok for a woman to make the first move and how do you go about doing that? 3) Why do men decide…
Fighting with Your Man – The Honest Truth about Arguments

Fighting with Your Man – The Honest Truth about Arguments

When you argue with your man what are you really arguing about? What are you thinking during the argument? What are you trying to do in the argument? Most of our arguments and fights aren’t what they appear to be on the surface. Whether you are arguing with some namby pamby on flakebook or your lip boxing with your lover, you are using all sorts of ninja like attacks and defensive moves that go deeper than just the topic of…

Should I ask a guy out?

Since the 1960’s the dating world has gotten much better.  Women are able to date and find love.  You have more opportunities in love now more than ever.  The changes that have happened in society since the 1960’s have been great and they also made male/female dynamics in the dating world very confusing. We often get asked about who should be the pursuer in a relationship.   Can I ask a guy out that I find attractive?   What to…

How to Make Your Boyfriend Smile

  Are unsure how to bring passion and excitement to your relationship? Would you like to take your relationship back to the honeymoon stage without spending any more time together? If you feel like your relationship is stuck in a rut, than you are in luck.   There is a communication strategy that we’ve discovered called Honeymoon communication which can dramatically change how your lover thinks about you and your relationship.   It can be difficult to know what to…

Improve Your Self Image to Improve Your Love Life

  What is your self image? Your self image is your map or mental blueprint of yourself.     It is how you picture and think about yourself. What you see yourself being able to do and be. How you see your strengths and limitations, successes and failures.   We all have a self image, but you may or may not be conscious of yours. Self image is frequently changing, except if you didn’t know to update yours, than you…

Feeling Depressed, Angry or Anxious? Don’t Try and Solve Your Relationship Problems

  Have you ever tried to talk to your partner about something or solve problems when you were feeling depressed, anxious and angry?   It’s practically impossible to solve anything when you are in a bad emotional state.   If you’ve ever watched any of the singing reality stars or professional athletes perform under pressure, you know that rational, talented and skilled people can look and act completely irrational, make poor decisions and look downright foolish when faced with intense…

Communication Problems – YOU’RE FAT, LAZY AND A DEAD FISH IN THE SACK!

  Communication Problems and misunderstandings often lead to relationship problems. But you don’t have to believes us, let’s start with a story…….   YOU’RE FAT, LAZY AND A DEAD FISH IN THE SACK!   How would it feel if your husband came home from work and told you that? Ya all the women reading this want to collectively stomp on this guy’s *$%#* with their sharpest 8 inch stilettos.   Believe it or not, a guy Ashley was working with…

What are Emotional Needs and How they Impact Your Love Life

  We love Starbucks. Ya we have sold out and gone commercial but it’s true. Michael loves their Americano’s and Ashley their bacon and Gouda breakfast sandwiches and don’t even get us started on their Holiday Latte’s.   The other day we were at Starbucks pretending to mind our own business, but we couldn’t help but notice a mother and daughter LOUDLY talking to each other. So, of course we had to eavesdrop.   The daughter must’ve had a big…

Flooding Yourself with Negative thoughts and Bad Memories of Your Partner

  We are major Foodies. We love talking about, preparing and eating FOOD. Ashley is an amazing cook and loves the process of cooking just as much as savoring the end result. She reads books, magazine and blogs on cooking FOR FUN.   Don’t even get her started on homemade baby food…….she could spend hours making it!   Michael feels like he hit the jackpot because his wife, mother and mother in-law are all great cooks. He can cook too,…

Relationship Problems? The #1 Thing You Can Do to Rescue Your Relationship

  We know a couple. Jack and Debbie. Jack is a Pediatrician and Debbie is a high level executive for a computer company. On paper they are a perfect match. They’re both attractive…..smart… successful…. And have pretty much the same values. They’re the kind of couple you look at and get jealous of because they seem like Ken and Barbie.   They also have two kids 2 year old Dakota and 4 year old Huntington. They’re so cute you almost…

The Work Wife – The Explosion of Cheating and Sex At Work

  The Work Wife – the Explosion of Cheating and Sex at Work   You wouldn’t believe the stories we’ve heard of cheating in relationships being relationship experts and talking to lots of people about their relationship problems.   Cheating and sex at work are so common that there are even new terms to describe what’s happening….   WORK WIFE or WORK HUSBAND   That’s right, after all the effort it took to get some caveman to commit to you,…

Marriage Breakdown 101: The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

  Famed Psychologist and Marriage Researcher Dr. John Gottman has identified 4 communication behaviors that are signs of a marriage breakdown.   Dr. Gottman named these behaviors The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Before you start thinking your relationship is doomed or you’re headed for a marriage breakdown, these behaviors are often reversible.   The first step is being aware that you and your partner are engaging in these destructive behaviors. Also, all couples use these behaviors at times, but…

Dealing with a Long Distance Relationship

Mailbag Question: Dealing with a Long Distance Relationship   I moved to Texas with the intention of working there for a year, maybe more. Within the first three months I met a man and we hit it off from the start. He was everything I had ever wanted in a man in terms of personality and morals. We got to the stage of deciding whether to take things to the next level (boyfriend and girlfriend). This was before I went…

How to Get Your Partner’s Undivided Attention Today

Today you are going to learn how to get your partner focused on YOU. Yes, that’s right…… I know it sounds impossible but just keep reading and you can believe us later Now, we are going to share with you part of Section: 8 Spotlight Texts – Getting Your Partner’s Undivided Attention from the Passionate Communication Program If you have been with your partner for some time, you probably text about who is going to pick up the groceries on…

3 Ways to Stop Fighting in a Relationship

Learn 3 Ways to Stop Fighting in a Relationship and make your relationship better instantly. Are you and your partner stuck constantly fighting? Crucial Habits for relationship success