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Should I ask a guy out?

Since the 1960’s the dating world has gotten much better.  Women are able to date and find love.  You have more opportunities in love now more than ever.  The changes that have happened in society since the 1960’s have been great and they also made male/female dynamics in the dating world very confusing. We often get asked about who should be the pursuer in a relationship.   Can I ask a guy out that I find attractive?   What to…

How to Make Your Boyfriend Smile

  Are unsure how to bring passion and excitement to your relationship? Would you like to take your relationship back to the honeymoon stage without spending any more time together? If you feel like your relationship is stuck in a rut, than you are in luck.   There is a communication strategy that we’ve discovered called Honeymoon communication which can dramatically change how your lover thinks about you and your relationship.   It can be difficult to know what to…

Improve Your Self Image to Improve Your Love Life

  What is your self image? Your self image is your map or mental blueprint of yourself.     It is how you picture and think about yourself. What you see yourself being able to do and be. How you see your strengths and limitations, successes and failures.   We all have a self image, but you may or may not be conscious of yours. Self image is frequently changing, except if you didn’t know to update yours, than you…

Feeling Depressed, Angry or Anxious? Don’t Try and Solve Your Relationship Problems

  Have you ever tried to talk to your partner about something or solve problems when you were feeling depressed, anxious and angry?   It’s practically impossible to solve anything when you are in a bad emotional state.   If you’ve ever watched any of the singing reality stars or professional athletes perform under pressure, you know that rational, talented and skilled people can look and act completely irrational, make poor decisions and look downright foolish when faced with intense…

Communication Problems – YOU’RE FAT, LAZY AND A DEAD FISH IN THE SACK!

  Communication Problems and misunderstandings often lead to relationship problems. But you don’t have to believes us, let’s start with a story…….   YOU’RE FAT, LAZY AND A DEAD FISH IN THE SACK!   How would it feel if your husband came home from work and told you that? Ya all the women reading this want to collectively stomp on this guy’s *$%#* with their sharpest 8 inch stilettos.   Believe it or not, a guy Ashley was working with…

What are Emotional Needs and How they Impact Your Love Life

  We love Starbucks. Ya we have sold out and gone commercial but it’s true. Michael loves their Americano’s and Ashley their bacon and Gouda breakfast sandwiches and don’t even get us started on their Holiday Latte’s.   The other day we were at Starbucks pretending to mind our own business, but we couldn’t help but notice a mother and daughter LOUDLY talking to each other. So, of course we had to eavesdrop.   The daughter must’ve had a big…

Flooding Yourself with Negative thoughts and Bad Memories of Your Partner

  We are major Foodies. We love talking about, preparing and eating FOOD. Ashley is an amazing cook and loves the process of cooking just as much as savoring the end result. She reads books, magazine and blogs on cooking FOR FUN.   Don’t even get her started on homemade baby food…….she could spend hours making it!   Michael feels like he hit the jackpot because his wife, mother and mother in-law are all great cooks. He can cook too,…

Relationship Problems? The #1 Thing You Can Do to Rescue Your Relationship

  We know a couple. Jack and Debbie. Jack is a Pediatrician and Debbie is a high level executive for a computer company. On paper they are a perfect match. They’re both attractive…..smart… successful…. And have pretty much the same values. They’re the kind of couple you look at and get jealous of because they seem like Ken and Barbie.   They also have two kids 2 year old Dakota and 4 year old Huntington. They’re so cute you almost…

The Work Wife – The Explosion of Cheating and Sex At Work

  The Work Wife – the Explosion of Cheating and Sex at Work   You wouldn’t believe the stories we’ve heard of cheating in relationships being relationship experts and talking to lots of people about their relationship problems.   Cheating and sex at work are so common that there are even new terms to describe what’s happening….   WORK WIFE or WORK HUSBAND   That’s right, after all the effort it took to get some caveman to commit to you,…

Marriage Breakdown 101: The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

  Famed Psychologist and Marriage Researcher Dr. John Gottman has identified 4 communication behaviors that are signs of a marriage breakdown.   Dr. Gottman named these behaviors The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Before you start thinking your relationship is doomed or you’re headed for a marriage breakdown, these behaviors are often reversible.   The first step is being aware that you and your partner are engaging in these destructive behaviors. Also, all couples use these behaviors at times, but…

Dealing with a Long Distance Relationship

Mailbag Question: Dealing with a Long Distance Relationship   I moved to Texas with the intention of working there for a year, maybe more. Within the first three months I met a man and we hit it off from the start. He was everything I had ever wanted in a man in terms of personality and morals. We got to the stage of deciding whether to take things to the next level (boyfriend and girlfriend). This was before I went…

How to Get Your Partner’s Undivided Attention Today

Today you are going to learn how to get your partner focused on YOU. Yes, that’s right…… I know it sounds impossible but just keep reading and you can believe us later Now, we are going to share with you part of Section: 8 Spotlight Texts – Getting Your Partner’s Undivided Attention from the Passionate Communication Program If you have been with your partner for some time, you probably text about who is going to pick up the groceries on…

3 Ways to Stop Fighting in a Relationship

Learn 3 Ways to Stop Fighting in a Relationship and make your relationship better instantly. Are you and your partner stuck constantly fighting? Crucial Habits for relationship success

How to Have Charisma and Attract Your Perfect Mate

How to have charisma and Attract Your Perfect Mate. Have others feel so connected and close to you that they can’t help but like you. If you’re in the dating world, attract people that are worthy of you. If you’re in a relationship, feel attraction, love and deep connection

What your Emotional Fitness says about Your Relationships

Conditioning your emotional fitness is the most crucial habit necessary to improving your relationships. That means figuring out how to communicate to yourself and others about what is happening in your life in ways that are empowering.