Inspiration and Motivation

Doing the right things and STILL not finding love?

Doing the right things and STILL not finding love?

Today Michael is going to talk with you about one of the most important KEYS to having the relationship you want. If you’ve been doing all the “right things” in dating and still not finding lasting love watch todays video. What you do is important in dating. But it isn’t the only key to success. There is another key that is EQUALLY as important to finding love. Watch our latest Video to discover what it is.

Is indecision keeping you single?

One of the biggest things that will prevent the kind of man you want from pursuing a committed relationship with you is indecision. We know this might sound crazy so stay with us and we will explain. We receive hundreds of applications every month from women who want our help to meet a really great guy that they’re excited about, is compatible with them, and is commitment ready. We actually offer our help personal help to less than 10% of…

Make Valentine’s day about this…

Happy Valentine’s day from TEAM ARN. Our whole family, Ashley, Michael, our son Mason and our two dogs Bear and Bailey are grateful to be a part of your life, however big or however small. We appreciate so much that you’ve become part of our family and we don’t take that lightly. We know you could spend your time, energy and attention on anything else and we are grateful for having a human connection with you. We recommend you make…

Take CONTROL of your day

Hey it’s Ashley flying solo today, Most of us spend our day reacting to others and to our environment. Taking a few minutes each morning to give yourself some TLC and put your day in YOUR control, not the control of others or the things that are happening around you, is going to have a drastic impact on your mood. Here’s the reality…making a decision to do this means NOT doing other things. For me, it means that I have…

Meeting the Perfect Guy Wouldn’t Help by Itself

Hi it’s Ashley with a quick message that you DON’T want to hear. The MASSES believe that if they would somehow meet or get introduced to the exact right person they would go on to have the relationship they want. This is the appeal of a matchmaker.  If they can deliver you the exact right person you’re good to go right? Not so fast. The REALITY is most people wouldn’t be able to make it work with the exact right…

Do great single men exist anymore?

Do great single men exist anymore? Are there any good men left or are they all already taken? Let’s dive into this and give you Immense value along the way. We talk to the best women in the world every day. You are Smart. Educated. Attractive. Fun. The list of your strengths goes on and on. That’s one of your biggest problems in finding a match. Your strengths eliminate 95% of men as a match for you. Most men, heck…

Is He Putting You Last?

If you put a man BEFORE you, you’ve taught him to put you LAST. Never Again! As an adult, you teach those around you how to treat you. If people aren’t stepping up and treating you the way you want you have several options: 1. Communicate what you want SPECIFICALLY 2. Communicate WHY you want this 3. Notice and appreciate when they’re getting closer to treating you the way you want 4. Communicate a boundary (ex “I won’t date a…

Stop Catfishing Immediately

If someone is happy to catfish you, be happy to leave the date in the first 5 minutes. If they look nothing like their photos or are way off in some other way stand up and say “you didn’t represent yourself accurately online so I’m leaving. I wish you the best of luck” Or if that’s TOO BOLD for you fake an emergency and get out. But we recommend you uplevel your boldness when it comes to dating. Rooting for…

Get Uncomfortable

Being comfortable is not the way to have the relationship you want. Comfort is one of the BIGGEST and most powerful forces that hold people back from an extraordinary relationship. It’s ALWAYS going to be through being uncomfortable that you find the right person and create a great relationship. It’s uncomfortable to look in the mirror and take responsibility (not fault) for where you are current at in your love life. Nobody likes doing that. It’s uncomfortable to look at…

Dating is a Means to an End, so let’s End It.

2018 was a great year for us. We are so grateful for the opportunity to have helped hundreds of women this year to build a lasting relationship with a man who is on their level, pursued them, and was ready for a commitment. The women on Team Arn had a few things in common when we started on this journey. On some level, they felt like the kind of man they wanted or relationship wasn’t really possible. They were stuck…

What do I want in life? How to Get Clarity on Where You are Going.

What do I want …. In life.. In a relationship…. In my career In a man… There is nothing more powerful than getting real clarity on what you want. What Do I Want in Life To be honest most people reject themselves before life or anyone else gets a chance to reject them. They don’t even allow themselves to think about what they most want out of the FEAR that they’ll go for it and come up miserably short. Michael…
How to Set Goals and Achieve Them

How to Set Goals and Achieve Them

Today we are talking about how to set goals because you are on TEAM ARN and that means you are a constantly growing person. How to Set Goals and GSD You don’t settle for average and you don’t stagnate. That means setting goals is a part of your life. If it isn’t, that is changing right now. In our year long mentorship program Rise Up we focus a lot on how to set goals and actually GSD. Most other people…
Perfectionism is the Enemy of Progress

Perfectionism is the Enemy of Progress

Perfectionism is something that impacts many high level people. Many of us who are doing big things in life and have big goals we’re achieving struggle with being a perfectionist. Here is the definition of perfectionism: 1a: the doctrine that the perfection of moral character constitutes a person’s highest good 1b: the theological doctrine that a state of freedom from sin is attainable on earth 2: a disposition to regard anything short of perfection as unacceptable Why does it matter…

This is the fastest way to meet him in 2019

FIND-ATTRACT-CONNECT-SELECT is the fastest way to meet him! There is no better way to find the right MAN for you right now. If you’re on TEAM ARN you are an action-taker. You’re not average. Don’t do what everyone else in the world does and sit back and wait. You can make this happen. Go watch our f.ree training on our unique 4 step process to stop dating unavailable and undesirable men immediately. Rooting for you, Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael…

I’ve tried everything in Dating!

If you feel like you’ve tried everything in dating today’s message is for you. Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael, This weekend we saw Santa with our son Mason. The pure joy on his face while talking with Santa was palpable. Last week Michael talked to a woman who was ADAMANT she had tried everything in dating. She wasn’t sure what we could do to help her since she had already tried “everything” to meet the right guy. She…
Courage over Fear

Courage over Fear

We tend to reflect on what we HAVEN’T done instead of embracing all of the AMAZING things we have done over the last year. Decide right now who you are going to be. Are you going to let the things that haven’t happened YET define you? OR Are you going to show more determination than ever to give the middle finger to everyone and everything that is getting in your way and get to your goal? You have willingly chosen…

Our garden will help you stop dating the wrong men

You can stop dating unavailable and undesirable men by taking a trip to our garden Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael dropping by…. We’ve gotten into gardening the last two years. Before that NOT so much. Our friends knew us as black thumbs. If they needed a plant or flower killed they gave it to us 😊 It didn’t help that we lived in Los Angeles and had no outdoor space. Two years ago, we moved to our quaint little town…

The real reason amazing women are single

You don’t want to be dating forever. Heck you don’t want to be doing it for 3 more months do you? You want to IMMEDIATELY stop having to beautify yourself for dates. Having to psyche yourself up mentally and emotionally to meet a stranger after a long tiring day of work. Needing to rush across town, spend your hard-earned money on transportation and parking…… Only to meet your date and feel like RUNNING out of the place immediately in disgust…

Don’t read this if you’re easily offended

Happy Tuesday it’s Dr. Michael coming to you solo today, As you many of know, we got back at the end of last week from a live in person event with our VIP clients in Las Vegas. I’m so appreciative and grateful for all of you amazing women on TEAM ARN. You are kind, smart, courageous, committed and take action to live the life you want. I especially love being around those of you in our Meet the Man You…

Is NOTHING happening when it comes to men?

And how you can get moving in the right direction. Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn, He thought be might be stuck here FOREVER. Michael went to college in Florida even though he’s a die hard Wisconsinite for life. One day his friends took him out into the “sticks” of Florida. They had a great time fishing and camping.  The kind of fun you can only have when you’re FAR AWAY from civilized society. When it came time…
Taking Care of Your Inner Child – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation

Taking Care of Your Inner Child – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation

Today’s 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation is all about taking care of your inner child. Take just 5 minutes to create an unbeatable mindset, to be emotionally fit and to exercise your mind and body today. Audio Version – Taking Care of Your Inner Child – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation        

HE WON’T COMMIT. DO THIS…..

Read this to learn what to do when he won’t commit. Hey! It’s Team Arn dropping by today. When you are going through the non-stop cycle of feeling disappointed with your love life, it can be hard to feel like your person is out there…..and that you will ever get the chance to actually meet them! Dating as a modern, professional woman is not an easy task. Most women go through on again off again cycles with dating and it…

[ Live an Ambitious Life AND be Happy? ]

We were just talking with an awesome client who’s doing big things in her life, but she’s having a frustrating day full of setbacks and things not going her way. We had a great conversation about how it’s possible to DO BIG THINGS and live an AMBITIOUS Life while being happy and content. Here are some of our insights: 1. Think in terms of choosing vs. things being forced upon you. Remind yourself that you are CHOOSING to live a…
Focus, Perseverance and Action Taking – Today’s Mindset Elixir

Focus, Perseverance and Action Taking – Today’s Mindset Elixir

Today we are hitting you with a powerful mindset elixir to help you conquer your week. It isn’t enough to use the best strategies to meet the right person or do anything big successfully. You also must CREATE & CONDITION an unbeatable mindset to have long term success. Here is today’s Mindset Elixir

3 BIG Mistakes in Dating

We are pumped to be here with you. Let’s make this week even better than the last. Last week we had our LIVE Meet Your Man OFFLINE Virtual Training. Congratulations to those early action takers who joined us. If there is ONE THING we reward on TEAM ARN, it’s taking action. Why? Because there is nothing more important to creating the love you want than taking consistent and courageous action each day. So, rest assured if you joined us for…
It Feels Impossible Till it’s Done

It Feels Impossible Till it’s Done

On TEAM ARN we dedicate time and energy to creating an unbeatable mindset. We know that you can have the best strategies in the world (that’s what we teach you ladies) but if you don’t have your mindset right you won’t get what you want. It’s crucial to have both the most effective strategy AND an unbeatable mindset to get high level results in the least amount of time. Today we have a mindset elixir for you. Something to help…

The #1 question to meet the man you want

Hey! It’s back to work after the long weekend. As you know, we adopted two dogs over the weekend so we were busy welcoming them to the family. So far, it’s been a pretty smooth transition. Our son Mason is loving that he has two siblings now. Ashley planted our fall garden over the weekend while the dogs ran around and played. Michael gave both of them a haircut and a bath. We also got to thinking about the conversations…
Are you TOO PICKY? (personal photo)

Are you TOO PICKY? (personal photo)

This woman was told she was too picky. Too much… Too this… Too that… Too everything…. None of it was true. She didn’t need to dim her light to meet the right person. In fact, quite the opposite. You will have people around you telling you to do or not do all sorts of things. Most of them mean well and want the best for you. Most of their advice is B.S. even though they mean well. You can do…