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Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

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They thought she was sick, but what came next changed everything…

We know a couple. They got married in 1963. She had moved to the United States from Europe as an interpreter. He served in the Army and had moved back home to work in the family business. They met in a restaurant two years before getting married. They came from different family backgrounds, yet in others ways had a lot in common. They fell in love and created a life together. They bought a house. Made friends as a couple.…
Why don’t MEN change?

Why don’t MEN change?

We receive A LOT of messages and comments wondering why women have to change…. Why don’t men change? Why don’t you teach guys how to be better men? Here are a few of the messages we’ve received recently…..; “So the only way they are going to help anyone is if they start re-educating men! Teach them how to be DECENT Human Beings. That’s the problem. That is why over half of the female population is single. Women choose to be…
She’s getting married in November

She’s getting married in November

It’s celebration time. Our client Angela is getting married in November to a MAN that she’s been dreaming of for a long time. For many years it seemed like he might just be that. A dream. A dream that never turns into reality. For a long time, Angela felt successful in other areas of her life, but kept dating guys who wouldn’t open up to her, didn’t feel right or wouldn’t commit. She couldn’t figure out why she wasn’t having…

Breaking free of the bread crumbers…..

We got off the phone with a client who finally broke her main forever single dating pattern. She had been dating bread crumbers for a LONG time. For the past two years she had dated a guy on and off who bread crumbed her the whole time. She had given her blood, sweat and tears to this guy and got very little in return. She was showing up day after day for this guy. Meeting his needs. Stepping up to…
Are you making choices from your feelings or your system?

Are you making choices from your feelings or your system?

If you want to break out of dating the wrong guys over and over again you need a system. If you want to stop searching endless profiles online of guys you don’t like you need a system. To do anything great long term you need a system. Whether it’s your health, physical fitness, your career or having great relationships with others you need a system for long term success. Most of people don’t have a system when it comes to dating.…
Who are you NOT dating anymore?

Who are you NOT dating anymore?

We work with many clients in our live workshop and in our ongoing mentorship program. One of the first things we do with them is get CRYSTAL clear about who they won’t be dating anymore. Yes it’s important to know WHO is right for you. In the beginning it’s more important to know who you WON’T date from this day forward. Notice, we didn’t way wrong for you. Many of us continue to date people who are wrong for us.…
Can’t stop the Perfection….

Can’t stop the Perfection….

In our household the theme song from Troll’s plays a lot right now. Our son Mason is a huge fan. Can’t stop the feeling…… Can’t stop the feeling….. We usually have it stuck in our heads. Most of us have another song stuck in our heads day in and day out. It’ called… Can’t stop the perfection…. We play it all day – everyday. We strive to be perfect. In every area of our lives. We NEED to have the…
You can’t be successful in love without this one thing!

You can’t be successful in love without this one thing!

Most of our clients initially come to us for dating and relationship strategies. They know we’ve created a proven system for finding love with the right person and they want to KNOW the tactics we teach. People focus on tips and tactics. You want to know how to flirt. Where to find the right person. What site or app to use. What to say. Same with dieting.  We want to know the latest tactic or strategy for losing weight. Most…
What are the root causes of the Forever Single Dating Patterns?

What are the root causes of the Forever Single Dating Patterns?

Sarah came to us in a sweat of panic and debilitating confusion. She knew she was stuck… She was trapped in several of the forever single dating patterns… She was excruciatingly aware that she was meeting guys who weren’t right for her. She kept dating these guys who seemed right but were breadcrumbing her. She was also meeting a gang of guys who were WAY off from what she was looking for. She KNEW there was better guys out there… Several…
Don’t be Catfished in Online Dating

Don’t be Catfished in Online Dating

Can you imagine talking to who you think is an attractive CFO named Derek but is instead a slobbering pervert and sex addict who lives in his mama’s basement? You know what we’re talking about. The ultimate catfish. It’s dating the biggest liar of them all. We’ve all heard the catfish horror stories. There are many people who tell lies in their dating life. These lies range from the white variety to the I’m nothing like who I said I…
What are you avoiding?

What are you avoiding?

What are 2 crucial steps you’re avoiding doing when it comes to dating or love? These are 2 actions you know you should do to find the right person for you, but you’ve been putting them off. Avoiding them. Saying you’ll do them next week. We all have things that are important for us to be doing that we are totally avoiding. We do it in all areas of our lives. We avoid working out. We avoid eating vegetables. We avoid…
The Invisible Consequences of an Amazing Relationship

The Invisible Consequences of an Amazing Relationship

Everything you want or do in life comes with benefits and costs. Nothing is totally great or bad. Some of the worst things in life have unintended benefits… Lets rap about something everyone would say isn’t good for your life… Drinking too much alcohol. You can also get some hidden “benefits” when you drink too much. You get a release from the stress of life and can let go. People connect to you through your drinking or your drinking problem.…

She thinks we are wrong….Uuuh Ohhhh

Tanya disagrees with us that soul mates are created. Here is what she said “I’m sorry to say!  I disagree with your point of view on soulmates. you don’t create a soulmate. if that were true then we could pick anyone and make them into your soulmate.  your soulmate is the one who when you meet them you know I mean you really know its them. the love from your heart never goes away and neither does the pain when…
A New Relationship with Your Thoughts – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation

A New Relationship with Your Thoughts – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation

It’s Monday.  We have a new Monday 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation. It’s the ultimate mind/body exercise for busy people who hate mindfulness and meditation. In today’s session we explore the nature of your thoughts and how you can create a completely different relationship to your thoughts.  This will help you be emotionally fit, more present and to truly connect with someone else. Here is this weeks 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation. A New Relationship with Your Thoughts – 5…
Soul Mates are Created

Soul Mates are Created

First you find the right person for you, then you fight like hell for the rest of your life to be soul mates. Last Sunday we realized something was off between us and had been for 2 weeks. We weren’t connecting. weren’t on the same page. We were bickering over little things. getting annoyed with each other over day to day things. We caught ourselves not prioritizing each other and not prioritizing our relationship. For several weeks we had both been…

The whacky crazy way to find love

Do this to break free from Old Dating Patterns. Today you’re going to get advice from US by way of George Costanza of Seinfeld. haha yes we know this sounds Whacky. Do you remember the Seinfeld episode where George does everything opposite from what he would normally do? It’s a hilarious episode. He tells a woman he is bald and a failure. He tells the owner of the Yankees that they suck and things start to drastically change for him. You…

She Left Him After FINALLY Listening to Her Gut and The Voice Inside

Have you ever stayed with a guy who you KNEW was wrong for you? Most of us have! You have had that feeling in your gut that he is not right for you. That you two aren’t compatible…. That he doesn’t treat you the way your MAN would treat you. But something STOPS you from leaving. Something prevents you from ending it and moving on. Could be comfort… Could be your share friends or the expectations of others.. Could be…
Keep it Simple to Succeed

Keep it Simple to Succeed

We had a great President’s Day weekend here in Sonoma.  The weather was beautiful here Saturday, so we went to two wineries. We went as  a family (we brought our son Mason).  Many of the wineries here are family friendly and are fascinating to a 4 year old. One of the wineries, Jacuzzi, also has olive oil and vinegar tasting.  We ended up buying Chocolate Balsamic Vinegar.  Yum it’s so good. We wanted to have a relaxing yet pleasurable weekend.…
A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

We know a secret that Batwoman used to meet, attract and fall in love with Batman. You see, for years she was single and dating THE WRONG GUYS. She read books, articles and talked to her friends for YEARS about what she could do differently to find the right guy for her once and for all. None of it worked. No matter what she did she ended up frustrated, hurt and SINGLE. This messed with her self-esteem.  She felt bad…
Guided Meditation – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation “Say Yes and Figure Out How”

Guided Meditation – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation “Say Yes and Figure Out How”

Today’s 5 Minute Mindfulness and Guided Meditation is all about Saying Yes. Most of us try to figure out how to do something before we commit to doing it. We want to KNOW the exact steps to go from where we are now to where we want to go BEFORE we commit to doing it. We don’t give ourselves permission to really commit to something until we have the certainty about HOW we’ll do it. You want to know HOW…
Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show

Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show

How is your week going? How are your New Years resolutions going? For most people, they are starting to give up on their goals for 2017 already. They are almost ready to throw in the towel and “try again” next year. We don’t want that for you when it comes to finding lasting love. We want you to find love THIS YEAR. Yesterday we did a LIVE Date to Soul Mate Show in our free facebook group… Mastering Dating &…

How Ann found love in 5 weeks

We just interviewed one of our students named Ann who found love with an amazing guy in just 5 weeks in our Single to Soul Mates Live Workshop. It almost sounds too good to be true…. Except it actually happened. Before working with us, Ann was dating A LOT. She was going out on lots of dates. Trying to meet guys on Plenty of fish and eHarmony as well as offline. She told us she wasn’t meeting any guys who…