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Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

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She Left Him After FINALLY Listening to Her Gut and The Voice Inside

Have you ever stayed with a guy who you KNEW was wrong for you? Most of us have! You have had that feeling in your gut that he is not right for you. That you two aren’t compatible…. That he doesn’t treat you the way your MAN would treat you. But something STOPS you from leaving. Something prevents you from ending it and moving on. Could be comfort… Could be your share friends or the expectations of others.. Could be…
Keep it Simple to Succeed

Keep it Simple to Succeed

We had a great President’s Day weekend here in Sonoma.  The weather was beautiful here Saturday, so we went to two wineries. We went as  a family (we brought our son Mason).  Many of the wineries here are family friendly and are fascinating to a 4 year old. One of the wineries, Jacuzzi, also has olive oil and vinegar tasting.  We ended up buying Chocolate Balsamic Vinegar.  Yum it’s so good. We wanted to have a relaxing yet pleasurable weekend.…
A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

We know a secret that Batwoman used to meet, attract and fall in love with Batman. You see, for years she was single and dating THE WRONG GUYS. She read books, articles and talked to her friends for YEARS about what she could do differently to find the right guy for her once and for all. None of it worked. No matter what she did she ended up frustrated, hurt and SINGLE. This messed with her self-esteem.  She felt bad…
Guided Meditation – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation “Say Yes and Figure Out How”

Guided Meditation – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation “Say Yes and Figure Out How”

Today’s 5 Minute Mindfulness and Guided Meditation is all about Saying Yes. Most of us try to figure out how to do something before we commit to doing it. We want to KNOW the exact steps to go from where we are now to where we want to go BEFORE we commit to doing it. We don’t give ourselves permission to really commit to something until we have the certainty about HOW we’ll do it. You want to know HOW…
Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show

Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show

How is your week going? How are your New Years resolutions going? For most people, they are starting to give up on their goals for 2017 already. They are almost ready to throw in the towel and “try again” next year. We don’t want that for you when it comes to finding lasting love. We want you to find love THIS YEAR. Yesterday we did a LIVE Date to Soul Mate Show in our free facebook group… Mastering Dating &…

How Ann found love in 5 weeks

We just interviewed one of our students named Ann who found love with an amazing guy in just 5 weeks in our Single to Soul Mates Live Workshop. It almost sounds too good to be true…. Except it actually happened. Before working with us, Ann was dating A LOT. She was going out on lots of dates. Trying to meet guys on Plenty of fish and eHarmony as well as offline. She told us she wasn’t meeting any guys who…

The Wrong Mindset – The worst question you can ask yourself!

Don’t let the wrong mindset stop your success or growth in their tracks. We love helping people transform their lives. It’s the reason we became Psychologists. It’s the reason we spent hundreds of thousands of dollars in education to learn from the best in the world of Psychology, Dating, Communication and Relationships. It’s the reason we transformed ourselves first. It’s the reason we are going to transform how the whole world looks at connection and relationships. We are both obsessed…
The You Go First Principle and Making the First Move – The Date to Soul Mate Show

The You Go First Principle and Making the First Move – The Date to Soul Mate Show

Hello, It’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael.  We are feeling extra frisky, it must be the bipolar weather here in Sonoma. Or it could be…. Last night we went to a Kindergarten presentation for our son Mason. He’s going to start school in the fall and we found out about the 5 elementary schools in town. This is mucho exciting and terrifying for some reason. We decided to bang out some free training for you. We have a new Date to…

MLK is like WTF!

Happy MLK day! Today is the perfect day to reflect on your dreams. MLK was a dreamer AND took action to realize his greatest aspirations. If he knew most of us give up on our dreams so easily he would be like WTF! Think about what he faced in his lifetime. Constant rejection of his ideas. Relentless opposition. Received never ending death threats and threats of bodily harm. He was taking action every day to move his aspirations forward and…

#1 Way to have BAD dates

We are having a monsoon here in Northern California.  Flooding and constant rain. We love the rain.  Maybe it’s because we don’t see that much of it here in California…. Let’s get right to the point today. Most of the time, your dates suck. The guys seems WAY OFF from what you are looking for… He shows up late…. He flakes last minute or doesn’t show up at all… He’s a douche…. He doesn’t look anything like his online photos……

Albert Einstein’s secret to finding love

Most of us have our own idea of what INSANITY is. Maybe it’s the homeless guy preaching to pigeons on the street. Maybe it’s people who jump out of planes “for FUN.” Or maybe it’s just running a marathon. Whatever your view of insanity is…it does have a definition. Insanity has been defined as “doing the SAME THING over and over again AND expecting different results.” A pretty smart guy said that: Albert Einstein. By his definition insanity would be…
Stop Dating the Wrong Men and Find the One for YOU!

Stop Dating the Wrong Men and Find the One for YOU!

No more bad dates, Confusion, Worry or Heartache. You can Find, Attract and Deeply Connect with the Right Relationship Ready Man for You so he’ll Do Almost Anything to Commit to YOU. Stephanie is intelligent, kind and good person. She worked really hard to build a bustling career for herself. She has great friends and a fun social life. She is happy with who she is and her life. She is definitely not perfect, but no one is. She still…
You can be a special snowflake

You can be a special snowflake

Dr. Sad McSaderson is THE WORLDS FOREMOST EXPERT IN UNHAPPINESS. He has studied how to be unhappy for decades and is a renowned teacher in the art of unhappiness. If you want to be exceedingly unhappy look no further than the exquisite teachings of Dr. Mcsaderson! If you would rather become an Un-unhappiness expert, you may want to just notice if you’re using any of these strategies and how they are impacting your life. The special snowflake: In today’s lesson you…

Naked Cowboy teaches us some Skillz

You can learn a lesson from almost anyone right? A few months ago, we were in Manhattan for several weeks. We were there as a family. We took our son to see School of Rock which he loved. His first time on broadway was a hit for sure. We walked all over central park and ate our way through New York. We also saw the Naked Cowboy. He is a famous street performer in Times Square. He isn’t really naked.…

Broken promises….

Broken promises will be the death of your self esteem and your future relationship. You are part of this group because you are 100% certain that you need to figure out how to find love and you haven’t been able to do it on your own. You know that you want it and deserve it. So, why are you stuck in the broken promises cycle? You make a promise to yourself that finding love is going to me your number…
Where are you stuck?

Where are you stuck?

Many of the clients we work with in our live workshop are stuck in meeting the wrong guys. They are DOING all sorts of things to meet men. They are online dating. Meeting men offline. Speed dating. Hiking dating. Some of you are not meeting ANY MEN. You feel stuck in knowing where to meet men. The bad news is that this won’t change UNLESS you DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT. The saddest part is to see an amazing woman like you…
Is Russia Hacking Your Dates?

Is Russia Hacking Your Dates?

We are sure you’ve heard the news. Russia may or may not have hacked into the democrats emails to get the Trumpster elected. If you are a republican you are saying there is no way Russia did this. If you are a  democrat you are YELLING that Vladimir Putin did this intentionally to get his BFF elected president of the United States. Either way you are getting whipped up into a frenzy. Russia isn’t the only ones who can hack…
Your Last Christmas Alone

Your Last Christmas Alone

Take a moment to think about where you are really at in your dating life. Be honest with yourself. Are you stuck? Miserable? Not sure what to do next? Wake up every day wishing you were in His arms? What would Christmas look like this year if this man was by your side? Why do you think you don’t deserve to have that amazing man in your life? What is holding you back? Why aren’t you important enough to invest…

Success in Love comes from the Amount of times you stood up to the plate and swung.

Sure you have to have the right bat, the right muscles and the ability to read the situation, but you have to swing. Many times probably. Nothing can prepare you for dealing with and uncomfortable feelings of being at the plate and swing. No amount of thinking about it will get you there. You only learn from being in the situation and making mistakes From swinging again and again. Don’t expect Success from Actions you never took. www.meetarelationshipreadyman.com Say yes to…
Warning: Don’t be Here when I get Back Up!

Warning: Don’t be Here when I get Back Up!

Relationships REALLY SUCK sometimes. You put yourself out there.  You make the effort.  You persist. You meet guys offline.  You meet guys online. You go out on dates. You meet guys.  You flirt. You get your hair done. You dress up and look your best. You put yourself in a great emotional state.  You make interesting conversation. You really get to know these guys. The guys you’re attracted to aren’t relationship ready or don’t pay attention to you. The guys you…
Are You a Perfectionist or a Scaredy Cat?

Are You a Perfectionist or a Scaredy Cat?

Many of you are ambitious professionals. You have a good education.  You have a respected job.  You excel in number of areas of life. You like things the way that you like them.  You want to do a great job at whatever you do. You may call yourself a perfectionist. Being a perfectionist has some advantages.  It also has some disadvantages. In your career, it can help.  Sure it might cause you some stress or mental anguish but it helps you…
Fear. Freedom. Power.

Fear. Freedom. Power.

Fear. Freedom. Power. These are three of the most powerful MOTIVATORS behind all the actions people take. Think about it. Most of the things you want in this life have to do with one of the above. Fear. You are afraid that you will never find the love you want and deserve. You are AFRAID you’ll be single and lonely forever. You are afraid that you are unwanted and unloveable. You are afraid of failure. You are afraid of success. Freedom. You want…
Your Mind isn’t Wired for Happiness and a Great Relationship

Your Mind isn’t Wired for Happiness and a Great Relationship

You have to learn how to fight against your natural wiring. APPLY FOR A FREE ATTRACT THE MAN YOU WANT PERSONALIZED BLUEPRINT! If you are ready to get out of the dating game once and for all, then NOW IS THE TIME to fill out an application for a FREE Attract The Man You Want Personalized Blueprint with us. Apply NOW and If we are 100% CERTAIN we can help you based on your application, we will reach out to…

When Life Flips You the Bird!

Do you know It took Leonardo da Vinci 10 YEARS to paint Mona Lisa’s lips. You might feel frustrated that you haven’t found the right guy yet. Hell, you might just be wondering whether there is even a good-ish guy out there for you. The dating game can knock you on your a#ss. It can suck any positive feelings right out of you if you aren’t careful. At times it feels like life is flipping you the bird. Life is…
What if you DON’T do something?

What if you DON’T do something?

We want you to take a quick second to take a little journey with us… Let’s imagine for a second your life is going to stay the SAME. You’ll make the SAME amount of money. You’ll have the SAME relationships. Most of all, you’ll have the SAME PROBLEMS in love. You’ll STILL be single or miserable in a dead end relationship. You’ll STILL be going out on dates with narcissists, fixer-uppers and commitment phobes. You’ll STILL be meeting man-childs who…
A little Thank You…..

A little Thank You…..

We are so happy that you are part of our community!  We wanted to connect with you and provide you with an EXTRA level of support. First of all, thank you for believing in a unicorn!  Many of you haven’t seen or experienced a love life full of passion, fulfillment, and joy. We know that it can be hard to hold on to hope that it exists. BUT, you are certainly doing it because you are here taking this journey…
How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

Whitney is one of our students and she has absolutely nailed it! She is a dedicated single mom and found herself disheartened by the men she was meeting and the way they were treating her. We were so lucky to interview Whitney on what has worked for her because now she is in an amazing relationship with a man who is an incredible fit for her. She shared the specific tips that she learned from us to find love so…