Inspiration and Motivation

Is Russia Hacking Your Dates?

Is Russia Hacking Your Dates?

We are sure you’ve heard the news. Russia may or may not have hacked into the democrats emails to get the Trumpster elected. If you are a republican you are saying there is no way Russia did this. If you are a  democrat you are YELLING that Vladimir Putin did this intentionally to get his BFF elected president of the United States. Either way you are getting whipped up into a frenzy. Russia isn’t the only ones who can hack…
Your Last Christmas Alone

Your Last Christmas Alone

Take a moment to think about where you are really at in your dating life. Be honest with yourself. Are you stuck? Miserable? Not sure what to do next? Wake up every day wishing you were in His arms? What would Christmas look like this year if this man was by your side? Why do you think you don’t deserve to have that amazing man in your life? What is holding you back? Why aren’t you important enough to invest…

Success in Love comes from the Amount of times you stood up to the plate and swung.

Sure you have to have the right bat, the right muscles and the ability to read the situation, but you have to swing. Many times probably. Nothing can prepare you for dealing with and uncomfortable feelings of being at the plate and swing. No amount of thinking about it will get you there. You only learn from being in the situation and making mistakes From swinging again and again. Don’t expect Success from Actions you never took. www.meetarelationshipreadyman.com Say yes to…
Warning: Don’t be Here when I get Back Up!

Warning: Don’t be Here when I get Back Up!

Relationships REALLY SUCK sometimes. You put yourself out there.  You make the effort.  You persist. You meet guys offline.  You meet guys online. You go out on dates. You meet guys.  You flirt. You get your hair done. You dress up and look your best. You put yourself in a great emotional state.  You make interesting conversation. You really get to know these guys. The guys you’re attracted to aren’t relationship ready or don’t pay attention to you. The guys you…
Are You a Perfectionist or a Scaredy Cat?

Are You a Perfectionist or a Scaredy Cat?

Many of you are ambitious professionals. You have a good education.  You have a respected job.  You excel in number of areas of life. You like things the way that you like them.  You want to do a great job at whatever you do. You may call yourself a perfectionist. Being a perfectionist has some advantages.  It also has some disadvantages. In your career, it can help.  Sure it might cause you some stress or mental anguish but it helps you…
Fear. Freedom. Power.

Fear. Freedom. Power.

Fear. Freedom. Power. These are three of the most powerful MOTIVATORS behind all the actions people take. Think about it. Most of the things you want in this life have to do with one of the above. Fear. You are afraid that you will never find the love you want and deserve. You are AFRAID you’ll be single and lonely forever. You are afraid that you are unwanted and unloveable. You are afraid of failure. You are afraid of success. Freedom. You want…
Your Mind isn’t Wired for Happiness and a Great Relationship

Your Mind isn’t Wired for Happiness and a Great Relationship

You have to learn how to fight against your natural wiring. APPLY FOR A FREE ATTRACT THE MAN YOU WANT PERSONALIZED BLUEPRINT! If you are ready to get out of the dating game once and for all, then NOW IS THE TIME to fill out an application for a FREE Attract The Man You Want Personalized Blueprint with us. Apply NOW and If we are 100% CERTAIN we can help you based on your application, we will reach out to…

When Life Flips You the Bird!

Do you know It took Leonardo da Vinci 10 YEARS to paint Mona Lisa’s lips. You might feel frustrated that you haven’t found the right guy yet. Hell, you might just be wondering whether there is even a good-ish guy out there for you. The dating game can knock you on your a#ss. It can suck any positive feelings right out of you if you aren’t careful. At times it feels like life is flipping you the bird. Life is…
What if you DON’T do something?

What if you DON’T do something?

We want you to take a quick second to take a little journey with us… Let’s imagine for a second your life is going to stay the SAME. You’ll make the SAME amount of money. You’ll have the SAME relationships. Most of all, you’ll have the SAME PROBLEMS in love. You’ll STILL be single or miserable in a dead end relationship. You’ll STILL be going out on dates with narcissists, fixer-uppers and commitment phobes. You’ll STILL be meeting man-childs who…
A little Thank You…..

A little Thank You…..

We are so happy that you are part of our community!  We wanted to connect with you and provide you with an EXTRA level of support. First of all, thank you for believing in a unicorn!  Many of you haven’t seen or experienced a love life full of passion, fulfillment, and joy. We know that it can be hard to hold on to hope that it exists. BUT, you are certainly doing it because you are here taking this journey…
How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

Whitney is one of our students and she has absolutely nailed it! She is a dedicated single mom and found herself disheartened by the men she was meeting and the way they were treating her. We were so lucky to interview Whitney on what has worked for her because now she is in an amazing relationship with a man who is an incredible fit for her. She shared the specific tips that she learned from us to find love so…
Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

We have a special Date to Soul Mate Show Episode for you. We did a facebook live call in show. That’s right… We gave people advice right on the spot. We will continue to do this so make sure you’ve joined our free facebook group to watch the next show and even call in if you would like. https://www.facebook.com/groups/wineandlove/ If you want to have your last first date and jump on a free Single to Soul Mates call with us…
A Love Letter

A Love Letter

Your heart is good. You dream big. You try hard. You love selflessly. You care deeply. You do it all for everyone else. You think about their needs. You show up when they need you, no matter what your needs are at that moment. You come home alone. You want someone to lay next to at night. You want someone to console you after a rough day. Sometimes you cry. Does anyone even notice? Does anyone think about what you…
How to Prioritize Your Fitness – No time? No problem!

How to Prioritize Your Fitness – No time? No problem!

This is a guest post from Douglas Sciortino Staying fit is important to you. But so is everything else. Your ambition and devotion to your job takes more of your time than you’d like, maintaining social obligations becomes harder and harder, and you’re also in search of your soulmate. It’s no wonder that finding the time to get your sweat on can be difficult. However, there are ways to help you intertwine your fitness with your hectic lifestyle without you evening…

Can You Really Heal a Broken Heart the Eat Pray Love Route?

Dr. Ashley Arn was featured in an article on the Culture Trip.  The article talks about how you can heal your heart after a breakup.  Should you pull an Eat, Pray Love and travel the world.  If you can’t realistically do that what are your other options? https://theculturetrip.com/north-america/usa/articles/can-travel-really-heal-a-broken-heart/     Say yes to love, Dr. Michael and Dr. Ashley Arn    
Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Hey Date to Soul Mate Nation, We hope you are doing well.  We know it can be very frustrating out there in dating land. That’s why we are so passionate about helping ALL of you create real connections out there. That’s why we put out so much free content and advice.  We want to see you succeed. We were just recently interviewed on the Maggie Linton Show. We touched on several important topics including attracting the right person and where…
What Not To Do on a First Date

What Not To Do on a First Date

We had a great opportunity to comment on an article with Huffington Post!  The article is all about the Top 10 Worst Types of First Dates. It was so fun to think about all the places people shouldn’t go! Lol.  We hope we don’t ruin your weekend plans, but we wanted to make sure to give you a heads up so you can avoid making these mistakes. Yikes. Read the article on The Huffington Post  
Are you being scammed in Dating?

Are you being scammed in Dating?

You all know that there are a grip of scammers, sex addicts and digital douches out there in dating land.   In case you don’t know, digital douches are men who would otherwise be nice upstanding gentlemen, but because we communicate now digitally or through online, text or email primarily they are major douchebags. They’re inner douchey demons are let out and run rampant in a digital world. They text, email and hit you up online in rude, overly sexual…
How to Find Your SoulMate at ANY Weight – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 14

How to Find Your SoulMate at ANY Weight – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 14

Hello fellow love Argonauts and Wine Lovers, It’s labor day weekend and we are excited to squeeze the juice out of the last few days of summer. hey ya there beautiful peeps We are hitting you with a value packed show today answering the questions you’ve been asking us the past week.  As always we love you (most of you) and are excited for you to listen in. Here are some of the questions we answer on today’s show: 1)…
Lessons from a Wise Man, Relevance, & How You Can Have it ALL

Lessons from a Wise Man, Relevance, & How You Can Have it ALL

Today Ashley is going to take it in a little bit of a different direction and dive into something personal that might even seem unrelated to love at first. Don’t worry, it will sneak up on you! Enter Ashley… There has been something weighing on my mind that I am trying to figure out how to navigate. I’m having a hard time balancing the joy that comes from work-life balance and the need to be relevant. I’ve always been an entrepreneur and…
The No Fluff Key to Success in Love

The No Fluff Key to Success in Love

We are back in southern California after a month in Chicago and Wisconsin.  It’s cray cray how you can have a blast or have a miserable time no matter where you are depending on your mindset.  We’ve been having a great time.  Except we ate and drank our way through the Midwest so it’s detox time now baby. It’s always nice to see family and friends you haven’t seen in a while. Today we wanted to talk with you about…
Four Friday Favorites – June 3rd 2016

Four Friday Favorites – June 3rd 2016

Hi Date to Soul Mate Nation – Here is your weekly mashup of Four Friday Favorites, the best of the things we here at Date to Soul Mate are reading, thinking about, watching, listening to, and pondering. Article we enjoyed –  Great article about the sacred cow of home ownership. Not that there is anything wrong with it, but usually personal home ownership is not the great investment you think. If you are house poor and its your only investment it’s…
Fighting with Your Man – The Honest Truth about Arguments

Fighting with Your Man – The Honest Truth about Arguments

When you argue with your man what are you really arguing about? What are you thinking during the argument? What are you trying to do in the argument? Most of our arguments and fights aren’t what they appear to be on the surface. Whether you are arguing with some namby pamby on flakebook or your lip boxing with your lover, you are using all sorts of ninja like attacks and defensive moves that go deeper than just the topic of…
Handling Rejection in Dating

Handling Rejection in Dating

Handling rejection is brutal.  It’s no joke.  Rejection can tear you apart. Is it worse to not hear from someone after you have messaged them or to get a polite, “I’m not interested in you” response? This is a tough answer, because they both suck.  They both emotionally feel bad for most people. Rejection in love always stings. It depends on what kind of person you are.  For many of us the unknown causes a lot of anxiety and stress. …

Why is it hard finding love? What are the common mistakes we make?

Have you been on a major love sucking streak?   Has your craydar been off?  (craydar is your ability to spot crazy men)   It is hard to find lasting love.  No doubt about it our ami.  You are not alone in your frustration.   Dr. Ashley Arn was a featured guest on The Love Show with eHarmony.  In this show Dr. Ashley talks with two of eHarmony’s Vice President’s Jeannie Assimos and Grant Langston about why it is so hard to find love.…

Giving is Receiving – Why Men Would be Uncontrollably Attracted to Mother Theresa

Today we are going to show you why giving is receiving and how your orientation toward giving in dating is important. She walked in to the crowded room. She scanned the room looking for a great guy to chat with.   She didn’t know what he would look like.  She did know that if she was able to connect with enough men on a deep soul level, she would eventually find the right relationship ready man for her.  She would…