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Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

We have a special Date to Soul Mate Show Episode for you. We did a facebook live call in show. That’s right… We gave people advice right on the spot. We will continue to do this so make sure you’ve joined our free facebook group to watch the next show and even call in if you would like. https://www.facebook.com/groups/wineandlove/ If you want to have your last first date and jump on a free Single to Soul Mates call with us…
A Love Letter

A Love Letter

Your heart is good. You dream big. You try hard. You love selflessly. You care deeply. You do it all for everyone else. You think about their needs. You show up when they need you, no matter what your needs are at that moment. You come home alone. You want someone to lay next to at night. You want someone to console you after a rough day. Sometimes you cry. Does anyone even notice? Does anyone think about what you…
How to Prioritize Your Fitness – No time? No problem!

How to Prioritize Your Fitness – No time? No problem!

This is a guest post from Douglas Sciortino Staying fit is important to you. But so is everything else. Your ambition and devotion to your job takes more of your time than you’d like, maintaining social obligations becomes harder and harder, and you’re also in search of your soulmate. It’s no wonder that finding the time to get your sweat on can be difficult. However, there are ways to help you intertwine your fitness with your hectic lifestyle without you evening…

Can You Really Heal a Broken Heart the Eat Pray Love Route?

Dr. Ashley Arn was featured in an article on the Culture Trip.  The article talks about how you can heal your heart after a breakup.  Should you pull an Eat, Pray Love and travel the world.  If you can’t realistically do that what are your other options? https://theculturetrip.com/north-america/usa/articles/can-travel-really-heal-a-broken-heart/     Say yes to love, Dr. Michael and Dr. Ashley Arn    
Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Hey Date to Soul Mate Nation, We hope you are doing well.  We know it can be very frustrating out there in dating land. That’s why we are so passionate about helping ALL of you create real connections out there. That’s why we put out so much free content and advice.  We want to see you succeed. We were just recently interviewed on the Maggie Linton Show. We touched on several important topics including attracting the right person and where…
What Not To Do on a First Date

What Not To Do on a First Date

We had a great opportunity to comment on an article with Huffington Post!  The article is all about the Top 10 Worst Types of First Dates. It was so fun to think about all the places people shouldn’t go! Lol.  We hope we don’t ruin your weekend plans, but we wanted to make sure to give you a heads up so you can avoid making these mistakes. Yikes. Read the article on The Huffington Post  
Are you being scammed in Dating?

Are you being scammed in Dating?

You all know that there are a grip of scammers, sex addicts and digital douches out there in dating land.   In case you don’t know, digital douches are men who would otherwise be nice upstanding gentlemen, but because we communicate now digitally or through online, text or email primarily they are major douchebags. They’re inner douchey demons are let out and run rampant in a digital world. They text, email and hit you up online in rude, overly sexual…
How to Find Your SoulMate at ANY Weight – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 14

How to Find Your SoulMate at ANY Weight – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 14

Hello fellow love Argonauts and Wine Lovers, It’s labor day weekend and we are excited to squeeze the juice out of the last few days of summer. hey ya there beautiful peeps We are hitting you with a value packed show today answering the questions you’ve been asking us the past week.  As always we love you (most of you) and are excited for you to listen in. Here are some of the questions we answer on today’s show: 1)…
Lessons from a Wise Man, Relevance, & How You Can Have it ALL

Lessons from a Wise Man, Relevance, & How You Can Have it ALL

Today Ashley is going to take it in a little bit of a different direction and dive into something personal that might even seem unrelated to love at first. Don’t worry, it will sneak up on you! Enter Ashley… There has been something weighing on my mind that I am trying to figure out how to navigate. I’m having a hard time balancing the joy that comes from work-life balance and the need to be relevant. I’ve always been an entrepreneur and…
The No Fluff Key to Success in Love

The No Fluff Key to Success in Love

We are back in southern California after a month in Chicago and Wisconsin.  It’s cray cray how you can have a blast or have a miserable time no matter where you are depending on your mindset.  We’ve been having a great time.  Except we ate and drank our way through the Midwest so it’s detox time now baby. It’s always nice to see family and friends you haven’t seen in a while. Today we wanted to talk with you about…
Four Friday Favorites – June 3rd 2016

Four Friday Favorites – June 3rd 2016

Hi Date to Soul Mate Nation – Here is your weekly mashup of Four Friday Favorites, the best of the things we here at Date to Soul Mate are reading, thinking about, watching, listening to, and pondering. Article we enjoyed –  Great article about the sacred cow of home ownership. Not that there is anything wrong with it, but usually personal home ownership is not the great investment you think. If you are house poor and its your only investment it’s…
Fighting with Your Man – The Honest Truth about Arguments

Fighting with Your Man – The Honest Truth about Arguments

When you argue with your man what are you really arguing about? What are you thinking during the argument? What are you trying to do in the argument? Most of our arguments and fights aren’t what they appear to be on the surface. Whether you are arguing with some namby pamby on flakebook or your lip boxing with your lover, you are using all sorts of ninja like attacks and defensive moves that go deeper than just the topic of…
Handling Rejection in Dating

Handling Rejection in Dating

Handling rejection is brutal.  It’s no joke.  Rejection can tear you apart. Is it worse to not hear from someone after you have messaged them or to get a polite, “I’m not interested in you” response? This is a tough answer, because they both suck.  They both emotionally feel bad for most people. Rejection in love always stings. It depends on what kind of person you are.  For many of us the unknown causes a lot of anxiety and stress. …

Why is it hard finding love? What are the common mistakes we make?

Have you been on a major love sucking streak?   Has your craydar been off?  (craydar is your ability to spot crazy men)   It is hard to find lasting love.  No doubt about it our ami.  You are not alone in your frustration.   Dr. Ashley Arn was a featured guest on The Love Show with eHarmony.  In this show Dr. Ashley talks with two of eHarmony’s Vice President’s Jeannie Assimos and Grant Langston about why it is so hard to find love.…

Giving is Receiving – Why Men Would be Uncontrollably Attracted to Mother Theresa

Today we are going to show you why giving is receiving and how your orientation toward giving in dating is important. She walked in to the crowded room. She scanned the room looking for a great guy to chat with.   She didn’t know what he would look like.  She did know that if she was able to connect with enough men on a deep soul level, she would eventually find the right relationship ready man for her.  She would…

5 Reasons Why Dating is So Hard Today

Why is dating so hard these days? One of the most common questions we get asked by our clients and readers is why is dating so hard today. The amount of single men and women is at an all time high so it should be easier to find love right? Not so fast. We’ll explain why the opposite is actually true later.  Dating and relationships are very confusing today. There are a number of reasons dating is so frustrating and confusing…

There’s a Douche Bag Blocking My Path

  This Douche Bag situation is critical to your love life.   We went out for a walk with our son Mason in the morning. He loves walking.   He also loves attention from the ladies young and old on our walks.   He is fascinated by the street performers on the promenade. Although “Pink Man” scares him silly. As we were leaving, one of our neighbors was frantically pacing back and forth by our driveway. We stopped to see…

Ashley’s Big Toe vs. A Marinara Sauce Jar

OOOOOOHHHHHH NNNOOOOOOOOOO   Michael heard a frightening scream and loud crying from the kitchen.   He was instantly hit with an intense fear. The kind of fear that stops your heart. Makes you hyper alert. The kind you only feel when you’re worried for your life.   Or for the life of someone you love.   Michael ran into the kitchen. Ashley was bent over crying. Our son Mason was sitting on the kitchen counter looking frightened.   Ashely was…

The Psychology of Love and Relationships: Why You Should Say Yes to Love

What is your relationship to creating lasting love in your life? Do you have a yes attitude or a no attitude? These are important questions to ask yourself, because your answers will make or break your dating/relationship success. It could be the reason you’ve been doing everything you can think of to find lasting love but nothing has worked. Your answers are related to the psychology of love and relationships. Initially, most of our clients have a no attitude toward…

Dating Coach for Women: The difference between feeling stuck for years and success

  What do Serena Williams, Michael Jordan and Lindsey Vonn all have that you probably don’t? No not fame and millions of dollars. It’s something that helped them be ultra-successful. It’s something that almost all top performers and people who excel at any area of their life have. But weirdly, most other people think they don’t need one. It’s a coach. That’s right almost all people who are happy and successful in something whether that’s fitness, personal wealth, business, parenting,…

How to Give a Romantic Massage to Your Lover

  Have you ever had an insanely busy, tense day where all you want to do is come home and melt into your partner’s arms or go straight to the spa for a massage?  You might even be thinking “HELLO! I feel that way every day!”   When we started our work with couples, we very quickly learned that there is nothing worse than when both partners are stressed out physically and emotionally.   Most of us have endless to do…
How to Have More Confidence by Sharing Your Weirdness

How to Have More Confidence by Sharing Your Weirdness

If you want to truly have more confidence, connect with someone and create real relationships learn how to start sharing your weirdness. Relationship Advice - Teaching you Crucial Habits for Successful Relationships

Understanding Emotions Made Simple and Easy

Understanding emotions made simple and easy. No pompous, hard to comprehend academic jargon here. Relationship Advice: Teaching you Crucial Habits for Successful Relationship!

How to Increase Happiness with 4 Simple Steps!

If you’re searching for how to increase happiness, look no further and focus on these 4 simple steps. Most of us are unhappy, overworked, overwhelmed and have failing relationships. Relationship Advice: Teaching you Crucial Habits for Successful Relationship!