Online Dating Advice

Dating Background Check – Should you do background checks before you go on a date?

Dating Background Check – Should you do background checks before you go on a date?

Is a dating background check necessary or not?  Today we will talk you about if you should be doing background checks or not in dating. The internet is responsible for many of our dating challenges today. We can blame online dating for the paradox of choice and for letting us hide behind the computer screen instead of interacting face to face. We complain about how complicated dating is today because the getting to know you process is no longer organic…

Happily Ever After – He kept showing up uninvited

Today will show you how one couple lived happily ever after despite a rough start. The curious case of the happily ever after couple who should’ve never been together. It was 1963 and Nancy went out on a blind date with Harry. Nancy was 5 feet tall and she liked shorter men with brown hair. She didn’t like dating tall guys because she felt so small in comparison. Harry showed up at her door and she immediately wanted to cancel.…
How to Talk to a Guy – Real is RARE

How to Talk to a Guy – Real is RARE

If you want to learn how to talk to a guy online or someone you’re interested than keep reading. Do you ever feel like all you’re doing is having fake “conversations” with people on: online dating sites/apps social media text chat email We are doing more “communicating” now than ever before, yet are we really saying anything? We are connected to each other 24/7 and yet disconnected from each other on a level never before seen. Digital communication has made…

Dating and Social Media – The social media scandal haunting your love life

Do dating and social media conflict with each other?  Today we talk about how social media can significantly help or hurt your chances in meeting the right guy for you. Let’s be real…when you swipe online, if there is someone you’re interested in, do you try to creep on their social media accounts? Of course. Who wouldn’t? All that is talked about in the media today is who “liked”, “poked” or “unfollowed” who on social media. Have you ever had…

The red carpet was “normal” that’s why it failed.

This was the title of the Cosmo headlines today. Being “normal” means that you fall between the cracks. Normal=Unmemorable Normal=Predictable Normal=Average Normal=Mediocre Normal=What is expected So, what does this have to do with your love life? Most people fall into the category of being “normal” in their love life. They take the steps they are “supposed” to take. They do what everyone else does to try to find love…which is stay stuck in an on again off again cycle of…

First Date Conversation – A mind blowing, bed rattling reason to Satisfy your inner goddess

What is the best first date conversation to have? On a first date, if someone asked you to describe yourself in 5 words, what would they be? Usually, the most BORING, INSIGNIFICANT, and run of the mill words come to mind… …Nice …Kind …Loyal And BLAH BLAH BLAH. How can you expect to have chemistry with ANY guy when you describe yourself as a roommate? Most of the people that choose to come to work with us have ZERO idea…
Why Do Men Pull Away – 4 Reasons Why Men Act Hot and Cold

Why Do Men Pull Away – 4 Reasons Why Men Act Hot and Cold

One of the most common questions we get is “Why do men pull away?”   “Why do men leave and come back?” We were talking to someone the other day….. She had just been hit with something she thought would never happen. Katie felt like she was spinning. She had been dating Josh for two years now. Granted, things were on and off, but he was always her go to. He said he didn’t want a commitment and she was ok…
First Date Advice – First date secrets revealed

First Date Advice – First date secrets revealed

Today we give you our best first date advice and tips.  Here is what to do if you want to stop having dysfunctional first dates. First dates can really suck.  People tell us all the time they HATE first dates. They are almost always…. Boring Awkward Predictable Stuffy Fake and unnatural And worst of all…….. A complete waste of time. And guess what? When you do have a great first date, the guy totally flakes and you never see him…
How to Find My Soulmate

How to Find My Soulmate

A client asked us… How do I find my soulmate? What do I have to do meet the man who is the one for me? Do I find my soulmate online?  Offline? We told this client we need to change how she is thinking about soulmates before she can find who she is looking for. Another client of ours has gone on 3 great dates with a guy. This man is attractive.  He is an ambitious professional.  He is family…

Why you SHOULDN’T have a date on Valentine’s Day.

Valentine’s Day is one of those events that leads people to lose their freaking minds. If you are single, it can cause you to rip yourself to shreds. It’s the fakebook comparison game. Where you compare yourself to your “HAPPY” friends.  Your “IN LOVE” friends. All the people you see on fakebook proudly taking selfies of their once in a lifetime relationship. When you see that it’s easy to compare someone else’s fakebook highlight reel of their life to your…

while you were sleeping…..

About 3 weeks ago we sent a message to a select group of you who had reached out to us asking for help. We made an offer for these women to join our program if they needed help getting a different result. Most people did not take action on this offer.  They hesitated.  They doubted. A few of you did jump in right away at this offer to join our program. While you were sleeping last night…we got this email…

4 Reasons why men ghost

Our client, Natalie (pseudonym) is a great catch. She is smart, attractive, driven, and successful at most things in life. When she wants something, she sets a goal, creates a plan, and makes it happen. She has great friends and family. People she can count on, laugh with, and cry with. Overall, her life is very, very full and she feels fulfilled much of the time. The one thing hasn’t seemed to work out for her is her love life.…

Online Dating Doesn’t Work

During Summer 2017, two AMAZING women reached out to us. They were both equally frustrated, disheartened, and even feeling a bit hopeless about when or if they would ever find the love of their life. They both told us the same thing, “Online dating doesn’t work.” Both of these women are professionals who are very successful in many other areas of their lives. When we really dug deep, we found out they had both been going through the on again,…

Should I just cut him off?

Holly in our facebook group – Modern Romance for Professional Women (www.modernromance.com) asked the following question….. Question: “What do you do when you are emailing back and forth with a guy on an online dating site and it feels like you have to pull teeth to get them to talk? The one-liner person? Sometimes, I think well is it just because we are on the site, but after about 15 e-mails I am pretty tired of thinking about something to…

50 Shades of Dating

Dating really has 50 shades. Dating can be sexy and alluring…drawing you in with the promise to deliver you the DREAM you have for your love life. Sometimes it’s dark and twisty. You don’t understand it. It’s overwhelming. It messes with your head. Sometimes you crave it. You need a human connection. You are afraid to be without it. Sometimes it pushes you past your comfort zone. It makes you feel things you have never felt before. It drives you…

Dumped and in a Dark Place

It can seem like no matter what you do you aren’t any closer to meeting the right person or having the relationship you want. The endless bad dates are demoralizing. It doesn’t seem to matter how hard you try it always feel like your back at square one. Your love life is different than other areas of your life. In most other areas you can make gradual progress. It’s easier to feel like your making progress in your career because…
Feeling better vs. BEING better

Feeling better vs. BEING better

If you had a bad day and are just venting, we recommend you vent in a private journal and not on a public facebook post. Believe it or not, the people you’re dating are looking you up. We once had a client who couldn’t figure out why she was having so much trouble in the beginning stages of dating. People were initially interested in her but quickly disappeared. After 2 minutes of online research, we discovered that she was saying…
Online Dating Shocker

Online Dating Shocker

It seems like every day there is some hot new trend or fad. Have you ever BELIEVED without a shadow of a doubt that one of these “hot” trends was BAD for people? We have. We thought Atkins diet was for sure going to clog people’s arteries and lead to a whole host of problems. Now they say fat is good for you and it’s the primary focus of popular diets like keto. Who knew?! At the time, we thought…

The Old Fashioned Way

Our client, Leslie (pseudonym) wanted to meet someone the old fashioned way. When she first called us, she was 46 years old and had pretty much been single her entire life. She chose to reach out to us for help because she recently had a medical condition that required surgery. She found herself alone, unable to take care of her basic needs, and having to call upon family to help her post surgery. As her family members rallied around her,…

“How can I be what he wants?”

A single, beautiful, successful woman asked us “How can I be what he wants?” and here was our answer… You could easily follow the random tips and strategies out there to turn yourself into what the media says that a man wants.….. Lose weight Try more night cream Become a siren (what does that mean?) Change your hair Change your face Don’t talk about what you want when you meet a man Buy a push up bra Don’t call a…

“I rejected the WRONG guy!”

“I rejected the WRONG guy!” Yesterday we were on a live call with our awesome, kick a$$, women’s group. One of our clients was excited to share a win. Every week, sharing wins is an important part of this call. Think about it for a second…. What place do you have in your life where you can brag and give yourself props for the actions you are taking in any area of your life? For most of us, we don’t…
Finding Your Soul Mate – Why is it so easy for everyone else?

Finding Your Soul Mate – Why is it so easy for everyone else?

Finding Your Soul Mate isn’t easy.  At least not for you.  It seems like it’s easy for everyone else. Do you notice how easy it is for your friends and co-workers to get into a relationship. Half the time they aren’t even trying.  It just happens. One minute they’re single and the next minute they’re on their way to walking down the aisle. If you go on facebook you see people connecting and finding love all the time. When we…

Are you Trying TOO Many things in Dating?

I was playing basketball with our son Mason yesterday. We were shooting hoops and I felt like I couldn’t miss. I kept shooting and it kept going in. It was a really good feeling.   As I thought about it, I realized that for the past several years I had settled on shooting a basketball with a certain form. I chose a particular way to shoot the ball and stuck with it.   Every time I played basketball I shot…
Dating Advice – What is Your Plan?

Dating Advice – What is Your Plan?

The best dating advice we can give you is to have a plan. Most people don’t have a plan when it comes to their love life. We act weird in our love lives. We don’t plan anything. We don’t want to plan how to meet the right person. We don’t believe we need a plan. People have probably told you for years that “It’ll happen when it’s right.” But in what other area of our life do we use this…
How to Attract Men Who are Compatible with You and Up to Your Standards

How to Attract Men Who are Compatible with You and Up to Your Standards

Today you are going to learn how to attract men who are compatible with YOU. Do you feel like no matter what you do you aren’t attracting or dating men who are up to your standards? Compatibility is important to the success and fulfilment of a relationship. If you are consistently ending up dating people who are off from what you are looking for something needs to change. It doesn’t matter if they’re way off physically, intellectually, personality wise or…
Time Management and Productivity in Dating

Time Management and Productivity in Dating

Does time management matter in dating? Can you be productive when it comes to your love life? The answer is YES! What you spend your precious time and energy DOING in your love life is crucial. There are specific actions you can take that have huge return on time investments in dating. These actions lead you to attract and connect with the right people. They directly lead you to creating a lasting relationship. Conversely, most things you CAN do in…
First Impressions – How to Make a Good First Impression

First Impressions – How to Make a Good First Impression

First Impressions are make or break in dating. We tend to take the first 5 seconds to 5 minutes with someone and extrapolate our first impressions to stereotype them as a person. This is no bueno if you don’t know how to make a good first impression. It’s no sweat if you can make positive impressions right away. Think about the people you’ve met in dating. How many great first impressions have people made on you? We’re going to guess…
Attract the Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps

Attract the Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps

Every day, we see successful, intelligent, amazing professional women go home ALONE at night.   During the day they mostly feel fine as they work through the hustle and bustle of their jobs.   But, the nights and weekends are the WORST.   They schedule themselves to the point of exhaustion to avoid thinking about how, when, or if they will ever have what they really want…a partner to share life with.   They wake up at 3 a.m FREAKING…