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What are the root causes of the Forever Single Dating Patterns?

What are the root causes of the Forever Single Dating Patterns?

Sarah came to us in a sweat of panic and debilitating confusion. She knew she was stuck… She was trapped in several of the forever single dating patterns… She was excruciatingly aware that she was meeting guys who weren’t right for her. She kept dating these guys who seemed right but were breadcrumbing her. She was also meeting a gang of guys who were WAY off from what she was looking for. She KNEW there was better guys out there… Several…
Bumble Dating Review – Bumble secrets exposed

Bumble Dating Review – Bumble secrets exposed

Here is our Bumble Dating Review and our tips and secrets to use Bumble successfully. Have you used the dating app Bumble? Bumble is one of the hottest and most popular dating apps out there right now. Many women are jumping on the app.  In fact it is one of the most successful dating apps for our clients.  Many of our clients have met the man they want on bumble. It’s similar to Tinder in that both you and a…
Finding love isn’t always easy, It’s Always worth it!

Finding love isn’t always easy, It’s Always worth it!

Anytime you are doing something difficult or big you will come up against resistance. Resistance from yourself. Resistance from family and friends. Resistance from strangers who will criticize you. Resistance from all the different challenges life throws at you. And finding lasting love with the right person IS BIG. It’s one of the most impactful elements of your life. Yes, anyone can fall into a relationship with someone. But to find love and create an amazing long term bond is…
Don’t be Catfished in Online Dating

Don’t be Catfished in Online Dating

Can you imagine talking to who you think is an attractive CFO named Derek but is instead a slobbering pervert and sex addict who lives in his mama’s basement? You know what we’re talking about. The ultimate catfish. It’s dating the biggest liar of them all. We’ve all heard the catfish horror stories. There are many people who tell lies in their dating life. These lies range from the white variety to the I’m nothing like who I said I…
Attractive Complementary Qualities

Attractive Complementary Qualities

On Today’s Date to Soul Mate Show Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn talk about How you can be your most attractive self using Attractive Complementary Qualities. Attractive Complementary Qualities – The Date to Soul Mate Show APPLY FOR A FREE ATTRACT THE MAN YOU WANT PERSONALIZED BLUEPRINT! FIND & ATTRACT Your IDEAL MAN in the SHORTEST TIME possible by following a simple system that’s led thousands of modern, professional women to build lasting relationships with their ideal man. If…
The Curse of the One Hit Wonder

The Curse of the One Hit Wonder

  I get knocked down, but I get up again You are never gonna keep me down I get knocked down, but I get up again You are never gonna keep me down I get knocked down, but I get up again You are never gonna keep me down I get knocked down, but I get up again You are never gonna keep me down He drinks a Whiskey drink, he drinks a Vodka drink He drinks a Lager drink,…
THE DISEASE OF MORE THINKING

THE DISEASE OF MORE THINKING

Picture this: your mind is racing wondering what to say or do about the current guy you’re dating. He’s not texting you back. He’s not asking you out again. He’s acting hot and cold. You think of all these scenarios about WHY he is acting this way. and What you can do about it. You talk to your friends about it. You read blogs. Maybe you even follow the so called “rules” of dating to try to MAKE him pursue you.…
Do men care about your career?

Do men care about your career?

“I can’t attract successful guys because I’m not in a good place in my career or financially.  I don’t own a house” Michael was on the phone with a potential new client for free Single to Soul Mates Session.   He asked her what was getting in the way of her finding love. She told him that she was attracted to successful and ambitious guys, but that she wasn’t attractive to them. She said that she was “renting” and that she…
What People are REALLY looking for in Online Dating!

What People are REALLY looking for in Online Dating!

In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show, we talk about what people’s real intentions are in online dating. What are they looking for when they’re swiping right? Are you wasting your time even looking for love online? Why you need a strategy to combat WHAT people are looking for on dating apps and sites. How online sites are like Wine Tasting events! What? Yes we get into it all. Go watch the show here: What People are REALLY looking for in…

People use Tinder for “confidence boosting procrastination”

44% of people using Tinder use the app for “confidence boosting procrastination”. Whoa… Read that again. A large percentage of people on Tinder aren’t looking for love. They aren’t even looking to hook up. They are doing “confidence boosting procrastination.” What does that mean? It is the act of avoiding the real stuff in life while doing something that makes you feel good about yourself. Procrastinating on the important stuff in life while boosting your ego with strangers liking how…

She thinks we are wrong….Uuuh Ohhhh

Tanya disagrees with us that soul mates are created. Here is what she said “I’m sorry to say!  I disagree with your point of view on soulmates. you don’t create a soulmate. if that were true then we could pick anyone and make them into your soulmate.  your soulmate is the one who when you meet them you know I mean you really know its them. the love from your heart never goes away and neither does the pain when…
He has to have…..

He has to have…..

“He has to be tall, have dark eyes and dark hair.  It’s a must! It’s what I’m attracted to, I can’t help it and I’m not settling!” Hello fellow adventurers in love, A potential client of ours told us the words above.  She HAD to be with a guy who was tall, had dark eyes and dark hair. She said she wouldn’t compromise or settle on these qualities.  She wasn’t going to settle for less than an amazing relationship. She…
8 Online Dating Tips for Women – Why Online Dating Doesn’t Work for Some People

8 Online Dating Tips for Women – Why Online Dating Doesn’t Work for Some People

Today we going to teach you our best Online Dating Tips for Women! Does online dating work? Yes it does, but not for everyone. Online Dating Sucks… It Doesn’t Work! All I see are deadbeats online… We hear this all the time. Online dating is one of the most polarizing things in the world. Many people hate online dating as much as they hate going to the dentist. Other people LOVE IT. SWEAR by it. As you know, we were…
The Romantic Movie Love Dating Pattern

The Romantic Movie Love Dating Pattern

It’s been a sick few days over here at the Dr. Arn household.  Mason and Michael are still feeling the sick wrath. Meanwhile, Ashley has been able to escape the sick monster so far. (Although she’s had to put up with two sick men which might be worse than ACTUALLY being sick)…… We read an interesting article yesterday…. It was about the rise of VEGAN Dating Sites.  Yes, Vegans are being matched on their own dating sites. Click here to…

The crazy chemistry dating pattern

How is your week going? We’ve been killing it despite Michael and Mason both being sickos this week.  We’ve been doing some amazing work with our students in our Live Workshop and in Single to Soul Mates University. The insights and transformations we’ve been seeing are inspirational. When you work with thousands of clients you observe certain patterns. Some are success patterns… Others are what we call forever single dating patterns… Many of the clients we work with come to…

don’t look for love online if……

aaahhhh… the age old question (at least since 1995). Should you look for love online or on an app? Many of you HATE the current incarnation of dating. You LOATHE online dating. You wish you could serendipitously spill your coffee on your Mr. Right at Starbucks and have him pursue a relationship with you. Many of you LOVE online dating. You think it’s the best thing since Brad Pitt in Legends of the Fall.(oh such a good yet cheesy movie).…
Keep it Simple to Succeed

Keep it Simple to Succeed

We had a great President’s Day weekend here in Sonoma.  The weather was beautiful here Saturday, so we went to two wineries. We went as  a family (we brought our son Mason).  Many of the wineries here are family friendly and are fascinating to a 4 year old. One of the wineries, Jacuzzi, also has olive oil and vinegar tasting.  We ended up buying Chocolate Balsamic Vinegar.  Yum it’s so good. We wanted to have a relaxing yet pleasurable weekend.…
How to Command Attention from High Caliber Men

How to Command Attention from High Caliber Men

When you are stuck in the forever single cycle, one of the biggest shifts you can make is to start COMMANDING ATTENTION FROM HIGH CALIBER MEN. Most women ARE NOT commanding attention from the right guys. You might find yourself either not commanding any attention from guys….. or Commanding attention from THE WRONG GUYS. Both feel bad right? If you want to meet the kind of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want to…
A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

We know a secret that Batwoman used to meet, attract and fall in love with Batman. You see, for years she was single and dating THE WRONG GUYS. She read books, articles and talked to her friends for YEARS about what she could do differently to find the right guy for her once and for all. None of it worked. No matter what she did she ended up frustrated, hurt and SINGLE. This messed with her self-esteem.  She felt bad…

Valentine’s Day Sucks.

It is the most hated “holiday” for people who are single and for a great reason. If you are like most people who are single this time of year, you find yourself reflecting on what has happened and why you are single on this day. You are probably blaming yourself, telling yourself you have done something wrong and you might even be thinking that you aren’t worthy of having the kind of love you see all around you. Here’s the…
Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show

Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show

How is your week going? How are your New Years resolutions going? For most people, they are starting to give up on their goals for 2017 already. They are almost ready to throw in the towel and “try again” next year. We don’t want that for you when it comes to finding lasting love. We want you to find love THIS YEAR. Yesterday we did a LIVE Date to Soul Mate Show in our free facebook group… Mastering Dating &…

How Ann found love in 5 weeks

We just interviewed one of our students named Ann who found love with an amazing guy in just 5 weeks in our Single to Soul Mates Live Workshop. It almost sounds too good to be true…. Except it actually happened. Before working with us, Ann was dating A LOT. She was going out on lots of dates. Trying to meet guys on Plenty of fish and eHarmony as well as offline. She told us she wasn’t meeting any guys who…

3 Ways be Yourself when you like a Guy

Howdy yall, Yesterday in our Live Workshop group coaching call we talked about how to be your best authentic self when you like a guy. See, many of our clients have struggled with attracting the guys they’re not into like bee’s to honey and were unknowingly pushing away guys they liked. They saw the results. The guys they were neutral about or ACTIVELY DISLIKED were sending them flowers and tripping over themselves to see them. The guys they liked –…
The You Go First Principle and Making the First Move – The Date to Soul Mate Show

The You Go First Principle and Making the First Move – The Date to Soul Mate Show

Hello, It’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael.  We are feeling extra frisky, it must be the bipolar weather here in Sonoma. Or it could be…. Last night we went to a Kindergarten presentation for our son Mason. He’s going to start school in the fall and we found out about the 5 elementary schools in town. This is mucho exciting and terrifying for some reason. We decided to bang out some free training for you. We have a new Date to…
Are you dating other people?

Are you dating other people?

  Are you Dating other People? – The Date to Soul Mate Show Hey there, We are enjoying the beautiful weather here in Sonoma, CA.  We also have great wine here toooooooo..    Yay! We’ve been going for long walks and have a fitbit competition with some friends of ours. Helps to offset the wine calories too. Today we have a question from a student…. So let’s get right into shall we! “If a man asks you out and you…