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Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

We have a special Date to Soul Mate Show Episode for you. We did a facebook live call in show. That’s right… We gave people advice right on the spot. We will continue to do this so make sure you’ve joined our free facebook group to watch the next show and even call in if you would like. https://www.facebook.com/groups/wineandlove/ If you want to have your last first date and jump on a free Single to Soul Mates call with us…
A Love Letter

A Love Letter

Your heart is good. You dream big. You try hard. You love selflessly. You care deeply. You do it all for everyone else. You think about their needs. You show up when they need you, no matter what your needs are at that moment. You come home alone. You want someone to lay next to at night. You want someone to console you after a rough day. Sometimes you cry. Does anyone even notice? Does anyone think about what you…
Your Best Online Dating Photos – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 19

Your Best Online Dating Photos – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 19

Today in our newest Date to Soul Mate Show we interview one of the foremost experts in the world on photos, especially online photos so buckle up and get ready. What are the best online photos to use on your dating profile? Should you get professional photos? How do you look your best in photos? We get to the bottom of these questions and many more. In the show we interview Claire Bahn, President of Online Profile Pros, formerly Dating…
Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Hey Date to Soul Mate Nation, We hope you are doing well.  We know it can be very frustrating out there in dating land. That’s why we are so passionate about helping ALL of you create real connections out there. That’s why we put out so much free content and advice.  We want to see you succeed. We were just recently interviewed on the Maggie Linton Show. We touched on several important topics including attracting the right person and where…
Free Love Success Summit with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Free Love Success Summit with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn

Why can’t I meet someone? Is this a thought you’ve had? Does it seem like meeting the right person is nearly impossible? Or when you do, it never works out? Don’t worry. You’re not alone. Many, many women are in the same boat you are. They are driven and successful in so many areas of their life except one: Finding the one. Ravid Yosef is a cancer survivor and successful businesswoman.  She is putting together a FREE summit called the Love Success Summit to finally ask…
The NY fire department broke us out

The NY fire department broke us out

Our family has been staying in Manhattan, NY for the past 10 days or so. It has been a great time. We took our son Mason to see The School of Rock which he thought was hilarious. The pure joy in watching him watch the show was palpable. One night we got a babysitter and went out with some friends of ours for dinner and drinks. We went to this steak restaurant that had been open for 150 years. We…
Make Your Skeletons Dance

Make Your Skeletons Dance

  We all have skeletons in our closet. No matter how much badassity swag you have, you still have some sort of perceived baggage. Do you feel like there is something about our past that potential matches judge you for?  Is there something about you or your past that YOU judge yourself for? The question is not IF you have baggage, but how do you manage your skeletons while dating? It is really tough to know how to talk about…
Are you being scammed in Dating?

Are you being scammed in Dating?

You all know that there are a grip of scammers, sex addicts and digital douches out there in dating land.   In case you don’t know, digital douches are men who would otherwise be nice upstanding gentlemen, but because we communicate now digitally or through online, text or email primarily they are major douchebags. They’re inner douchey demons are let out and run rampant in a digital world. They text, email and hit you up online in rude, overly sexual…
How to Be Irresistible on a First Date with Kimberly Seltzer – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 17

How to Be Irresistible on a First Date with Kimberly Seltzer – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 17

Would you like to know how to show up on a first date looking your best? Feeling confident in how you look? Feeling confident in how you express yourself? Great! We thought so.  You are in luck, because we have a special guest on today’s Date to Soul Mate Show.  She has specialized superpowers in helping people look their best AND feel confident in themselves while dating. Dr. Ashley talks with Kimberly Seltzer who is a therapist and Dating Makeover…
Opening Conversation Starters and How Long Should Women Offer to Pay for Dates – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 16

Opening Conversation Starters and How Long Should Women Offer to Pay for Dates – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 16

Yo Yo Yo, Happy end of the week. We are excited for the weekend. We are going to a microbrew fest in Catalina Island on Saturday. This means sipping the lagers in our sandals on the beach. We are talking about two important topics on today’s shizzle. Our lovely Wine and Love with Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael members have been curious lately….. First, we are answering one of your questions about paying for dates. Specifically, how long should a…
Match.com Review from Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

Match.com Review from Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

Hello Beauts and Gents, Today we are going to give you our unvarnished expert opinions of Match.com. If you are dating like it’s this year, you are going to be online dating.  The key is to choose one paid online dating site to use and one free or niche site to use. So here it goes. Match.com Review Match.com is one of those er paid sites.  It’s the grand poo ba of online dating.  The Bill Gates. The Big Dog…
Do Men Only Want da Younger Women?

Do Men Only Want da Younger Women?

Welcome back to the work week.  The grind is real this week no?   We hope you had a great Labor Day weekend. We received a lot of questions from you all.  One of the consistent themes you ask us about is “do men only want younger women?” “why do men seem to only look for younger women?” “who do these men think they are looking for someone 10-15 years younger, while they’re not the best catch themselves?” Yes it’s true…

Online Dating Tips, Amarone and Reckless Love – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 13

In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show we answer all of your questions.  We give you our best online dating tips.  We also drink wine.  We review two “Man” wines. Here are some of the questions we answer… What are your best online dating tips? How long should you date someone you are unsure about? Why am I attracting the wrong people? How do you move the process of online dating along to meet someone? How do you initiate contact…
How to Trust Again – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 11

How to Trust Again – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 11

We have a brand new show for you all! We received some great questions from our free facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/wineandlove/   Here are some of the questions we answer on today’s show: 1) How to trust again and get over trust issues? 2) How do you stop meeting fixer uppers and project type guys? 3) How do you get out of the friend zone? 4) What do you do when you like a guy who is part of a group of…
Ghosting Someone – Why he Disappeared

Ghosting Someone – Why he Disappeared

Ghosting someone! Find out why he disappeared and what you can do about it on the latest Date to Soul Mate show with Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael. We answered our FB group’s most pressing dating questions. Here are some of the questions we answered: 1) Where are the best places to meet single men? 2) Is it ok for a woman to make the first move and how do you go about doing that? 3) Why do men decide…
What to Wear on a Date from Alex Cheatwood of Ustyled.com

What to Wear on a Date from Alex Cheatwood of Ustyled.com

In today's Date to Soul Mate Show, Dr. Ashley gets the best style advice from fashion and style expert Alex Cheatwood of Ustyled.com. If you want to learn about the best date outfits to wear and how you can look your best listen to this show.
The Best Places to Meet Men – The Date to Soul Mate Show

The Best Places to Meet Men – The Date to Soul Mate Show

Discover the best places to meet men from Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael Arn.  We will teach you where to meet relationship ready men offline. Do you want to learn about the best places to meet men? What about meeting high caliber relationship ready men? They are everywhere. It’s literally raining men out there. There are so many single quality relationship ready men in the world right now. The thing is you can’t be romantic about the best places to…

Online Dating Profile Examples – Free Profile Makeover

How would you like the chance to get a free online dating profile makeover from us? We are going to provide you and our other readers with the best online dating profile examples out there. We have provided many online profile makeovers both here at date to soul mate and while working with eHarmony.com.   These makeovers are often part of packages people pay $5,000, $10,000 and up to $30,000 for. We know from our experience that minor changes and…
eHarmony Review from Dr. Michael and Dr. Ashley Arn

eHarmony Review from Dr. Michael and Dr. Ashley Arn

We are your trusted experts when it comes to dating. We want to give you the best dating advice in the world. We also want to steer you in the right direction in terms of the best and worst places to find your match. Today we are going to review eHarmony.com We have to give you a disclaimer because we have both worked with eHarmony as dating experts and matchmakers. Of course, we are biased towards their services.  We also have…
4 Lessons from the Worst Online Dating Profile Ever – Four Friday Favorites – June 10th 2016

4 Lessons from the Worst Online Dating Profile Ever – Four Friday Favorites – June 10th 2016

Hi Date to Soul Mate Nation – Here is your weekly dose of our Four Friday Favorites, the best of the things we are reading, thinking about, watching, listening to, and pondering. Psychology we enjoyed –  On reddit, people were discussing their ability to set healthy boundaries with family members.  This person made an excuse for his or her inability to set healthy boundaries by saying they hated conflict and were an INFP.  For anyone who doesn’t know, INFP is a personality…
Online Dating First Impressions – Men Focus On Looks, Women Look At Everything

Online Dating First Impressions – Men Focus On Looks, Women Look At Everything

This is a guest post from Karenna Alexander Men are picky about looks. Women are picky about everything. One of the most fascinating things about being a dating coach and matchmaker is that I get to see – up close and personal – just how different men and women are. I am not here to judge, but to point it out so men and women can learn from one another. It’s instructive for both sides to know what the other…
Handling Rejection in Dating

Handling Rejection in Dating

Handling rejection is brutal.  It’s no joke.  Rejection can tear you apart. Is it worse to not hear from someone after you have messaged them or to get a polite, “I’m not interested in you” response? This is a tough answer, because they both suck.  They both emotionally feel bad for most people. Rejection in love always stings. It depends on what kind of person you are.  For many of us the unknown causes a lot of anxiety and stress. …
Online Dating Scams – The white lie you can’t come back from

Online Dating Scams – The white lie you can’t come back from

She started receiving tons of mail about her upcoming eligibility for social security. Her husband who always collects the mail was getting annoyed by the mail because his wife wasn’t anywhere close to being eligible. She was only 53 years old. It was a good 10 years until social security was even something to think about. What a waste of paper he thought. Why would they be bombarding us with this mail? In frustration he complained to his wife of…
What to Do On a First Date with a Guy- Is your First Date a Breaking Bad Episode?

What to Do On a First Date with a Guy- Is your First Date a Breaking Bad Episode?

What to Do On a First Date with a Guy- Is your First Date a Breaking Bad Episode? What do you do on a first date?   What is your mentality going into meeting someone for the first time? We had a long hard week. It was time to binge watch some Netflix as the young kidz do nowadays. We were on the hunt for a new show to binge watch. Hey Netflix is creepily recommending Breaking Bad, Nurse Jackie and…

Why is it hard finding love? What are the common mistakes we make?

Have you been on a major love sucking streak?   Has your craydar been off?  (craydar is your ability to spot crazy men)   It is hard to find lasting love.  No doubt about it our ami.  You are not alone in your frustration.   Dr. Ashley Arn was a featured guest on The Love Show with eHarmony.  In this show Dr. Ashley talks with two of eHarmony’s Vice President’s Jeannie Assimos and Grant Langston about why it is so hard to find love.…

Should I ask a guy out?

Since the 1960’s the dating world has gotten much better.  Women are able to date and find love.  You have more opportunities in love now more than ever.  The changes that have happened in society since the 1960’s have been great and they also made male/female dynamics in the dating world very confusing. We often get asked about who should be the pursuer in a relationship.   Can I ask a guy out that I find attractive?   What to…

How to Find and Keep a Good Man

  Dr. Ashley Arn of Date to Soul Mate and eH+ by eHarmony was just interviewed on Last First Date Radio about how to find and keep a good man.  She gives some great free tips and insights into men, women and dating.   Check Out Relationships Podcasts at Blog Talk Radio with Last First Date Radio on BlogTalkRadio with Last First Date Radio on BlogTalkRadio     Here are some takeaways from the interview……. -there are many great relationship…

5 Reasons Why Dating is So Hard Today

Why is dating so hard these days? One of the most common questions we get asked by our clients and readers is why is dating so hard today. The amount of single men and women is at an all time high so it should be easier to find love right? Not so fast. We’ll explain why the opposite is actually true later.  Dating and relationships are very confusing today. There are a number of reasons dating is so frustrating and confusing…