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Success Principles – Success = Results + Impact + Profit

Success Principles – Success = Results + Impact + Profit

We went to a Kentucky Derby party this weekend in our wine country town of Sonoma. Michael wore pink shorts and a red bowtie.  Ashley wore one of those big floppy pink Kentucky Derby style hats. We had a blast pretending to care about horse racing with our friends. Later that night we went to a fundraiser for our son’s school. The fundraiser event was a Poker tournament. It got us to thinking…. There are certain SUCCESS strategies in anything…
Stand up for Yourself – IT’S TIME TO GET OFF THE FENCE

Stand up for Yourself – IT’S TIME TO GET OFF THE FENCE

If you are a successful woman who has EVERYTHING except when it comes to love, take this short quiz so we can identify what’s getting in the way and map out a plan to have the relationship you want. After the quiz we’ll jump on short call to share your results and come up with solutions. Take the quiz here: http://findlovequiz.com Yesterday, Michael went to pick up our son Mason from school. Mason came running over to him and jumped…
If a man is Interested in you He’ll Pursue You! Yes or No?

If a man is Interested in you He’ll Pursue You! Yes or No?

If a man is interested in you he’ll pursue you! Yes or No? A vast majority of women we talk to say YES if he’s interested in you, he’ll pursue you. Many say a confident man will pursue you. But this is where we get into trouble when it comes to meeting the right man. There aren’t confident men or insecure men. There are men who are confident in some situations and not confident or uncertain in others. We are…

Don’t Back Down from Bullies

Yesterday, Michael went to pick up our son Mason from school. Mason came running over to him and jumped into his arms.He was sobbing. It was the kind of cry only Claire Danes could pull off or someone who had just gotten a metaphorical punch to their soul. You see, Mason loves Pokémon. When we say loves we mean LOVESSSSSSS! He’s obsessed. It’s all he talks about. Hearing about Pokémon makes our ears hurt at this point he talks about…
What’s Your MISSION and Your WHY?

What’s Your MISSION and Your WHY?

To use our 4-Step DATING FUNNEL in your life, hop on a quick call with us here: www.moderndatingcall.com Rooting for you, Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn
Should You Give Up on Dating Altogether?

Should You Give Up on Dating Altogether?

Dating is a grind. You get on these dating apps and are immediately sent perverted messages from men you’re not even interested in. Men say they want a REAL relationship only to find out later they just want to be friends with benefits. He wants to keep it casual. You put yourself out there.  You put in the effort to look your best.  You rush to dates after work. You date someone for 2 months only to find out he’s…
HOW TO TEXT GUYS YOU LIKE – Are you an OVER or UNDER Texter?

HOW TO TEXT GUYS YOU LIKE – Are you an OVER or UNDER Texter?

Texting someone you like is HARD. You have all these things you want to say. You have certain reactions or things you want them to say to YOU. Today we talk about how to text a guy you’re interested in so that the two of you want to see each other in person. If you are ready to have the relationship you want now, book a call to talk with us to see if or how we can help:  www.moderndatingcall.com…

HOW MANY REJECTIONS DID YOU GET THIS WEEK?

In both your business/Career and in your dating life, the person who seeks out NO’s or REJECTIONS gets the best results. I talk to people about their dating life and their careers every day and one of the biggest obstacles I hear is people doing anything they can to AVOID rejection. You don’t put yourself out there because you might get rejected. You don’t say what you really want because you might push someone away. You play it safe and…
Dating Rules for Professional Women

Dating Rules for Professional Women

To learn a simple 4-Step Dating Funnel to meet the right person go here: http://www.datingfunnel.com You hear all the time that you shouldn’t do this or you should do that in dating. Don’t text before X. Don’t sleep with someone until Y. Don’t talk about XYZ. The list goes on and on. Following all these dating rules is a nightmare. They conflict with each other. They often don’t sync with how you live the rest of your life. AND worst…
Meeting Men with Commitment Issues?

Meeting Men with Commitment Issues?

To learn about our 4-step dating funnel to meet the right guy for you go here: http://www.datingfunnel.com Are you dating men who “just want to keep it casual”? Do you meet men you’re interested in, but they don’t pursue you proactively? You might even meet men who say they’re ready for a relationship, but in the end they aren’t. Commitment issues can come in all shapes and sizes. They’re infuriating because they waste your time. They’re hurtful when you discover…
Learn by Doing in Dating & Relationships

Learn by Doing in Dating & Relationships

To know exactly what to DO go watch our free class here: http://www.datingfunnel.com Learn by Doing Many of us smart, curious and ambitious people get stuck in LEARNING. Believe it or not, your natural inclination to LEARN more or to GET MORE INFORMATION could be getting in the way of the results you want in your love life. Being caught in a never-ending cycle of learning through intellectualization leads to overthinking and paralyses by analysis. Michael is naturally curious and…
Work Life Balance – Your Career VS. Your Love Life

Work Life Balance – Your Career VS. Your Love Life

Do you have difficulties juggling being ambitious in your professional life and having the kind of relationship you want? Can you have fulfillment in both? Today Michael talks about why it’s important to answer these questions and figure out what works best for YOU in your own life. To learn how professional women are getting into happy and fulfilling relationship right now go to http://www.datingfunnel.com
What’s the #1 Challenge or Problem to Solve RIGHT NOW in your Love Life?

What’s the #1 Challenge or Problem to Solve RIGHT NOW in your Love Life?

What’s the #1 Challenge or Problem to Solve RIGHT NOW in your Love Life? In your love life, you will ALWAYS have challenges or problems. Whether you are single or happily married, there is always a challenge to tackle. There are many solutions, but the most important thing to remember is to tackle the challenge or problem that will move you closer to the life you want to live and is the NEXT challenge to solve right now. Not the…
WINS – CREATING AN UNBEATABLE MINDSET & MOTIVATION

WINS – CREATING AN UNBEATABLE MINDSET & MOTIVATION

Are you acknowledging and really FEELING YOUR WINS? If not, dating and relationships are going to feel heavy and discouraging. You’ll always feel like you’re back at square one or not where you want to be. Having the relationship you want is a lifelong marathon, it’s not a sprint. Your mindset is crucial to succeeding in this marathon known as your love life. Celebrating your WINS, from the big ones to the tiny ones is important to you creating an…
Are you told you’re TOO PICKY in Dating?

Are you told you’re TOO PICKY in Dating?

Are you told you’re TOO PICKY in Dating? Are you an amazing woman with MANY great qualities and strengths who’s been told she’s TOO PICKY with Guys or in LOVE? We talk to high value women everyday who are wondering whether they’re too picky or not. Deep down they don’t really believe they are, BUT they’ve been told by people close to them that they are. AND they HAVEN’T found the right guy yet, so all of this together has…
When to Leave a Man & Let Him Go!

When to Leave a Man & Let Him Go!

We tend to either reject or move on from people way TOO QUICKLY or we HOLD ON to someone who isn’t right for us way TOO LONG. Often, we ping pong from one extreme to the other. To live an extraordinary life and have an amazing relationship, it’s imperative that you strike the right notes when it comes to your decision making about who to spend your precious time and energy on. We know you want the best in life…
The #1 way your Brain SABOTAGES your SUCCESS in Love & Life

The #1 way your Brain SABOTAGES your SUCCESS in Love & Life

Get a complete walk through of our 4 Step Dating funnel here http://www.datingfunnel.com What if……(there are no great single men in your city) Are you looking to meet a great man? Do you want to have the relationship you’ve always dreamed of? Do you have other life goals you’d like to accomplish this year? Anytime we ALLOW ourselves to think about the kind of relationship we actually want…. Or Anytime we set goals… Our brains instantly start going to work…
Are you an Attractive Woman Struggling in Dating?

Are you an Attractive Woman Struggling in Dating?

Attractive women have certain challenges in dating that nobody else has. Yes, I know this is sort of like talking about rich people problems, but guess what? Rich people DO have real problems. And attractive women DO have real big time problems when it comes to dating. On one hand your attractiveness is a big plus and it does help you in dating and in your life in general. On the other hand, your attractiveness causes a unique set of…
Doing the right things and STILL not finding love?

Doing the right things and STILL not finding love?

Today Michael is going to talk with you about one of the most important KEYS to having the relationship you want. If you’ve been doing all the “right things” in dating and still not finding lasting love watch todays video. What you do is important in dating. But it isn’t the only key to success. There is another key that is EQUALLY as important to finding love. Watch our latest Video to discover what it is.

Why great men disappear

We just had a recent conversation with a “yes, but” person. She reached out to us requesting help in finding her person. She couldn’t proclaim enough that she wanted to work with us, was ready to do whatever it takes, and was all in! This is always red flag number one. It’s like when you are planning a first date with a guy and every message he sends you has one million exclamations….you can just tell right away that something…

Make Valentine’s day about this…

Happy Valentine’s day from TEAM ARN. Our whole family, Ashley, Michael, our son Mason and our two dogs Bear and Bailey are grateful to be a part of your life, however big or however small. We appreciate so much that you’ve become part of our family and we don’t take that lightly. We know you could spend your time, energy and attention on anything else and we are grateful for having a human connection with you. We recommend you make…

You’re probably single because…

You never forwarded those chain messages in 2008. JK 🙂 If you’ve ever been single on Valentine’s day, it basically sucks. The fact that there is even a nickname of “Single Awareness Day” is stupid. At the same time, the pressure is real. Anyone and everyone has to ask about your plans. If you say you are having a “Galentine’s day” there might be jokes about hating men. If you stay home alone, someone might criticize that you should go…

Did he come on strong and then disappear?

You RARELY meet a guy that you are really interested in. Most of the time, you are on again, off again with dating, When you are in the “on” phase, you put in good effort and go through the motions. Men are interested in you. It’s pretty easy to get a first date. The guys that you meet are great on paper. You feel like you “should” like them. They are nice and seem stable. They seem to do all…
Why your feelings don’t matter

Why your feelings don’t matter

How often do you FEEL like giving up looking for the right guy? Yes, you want to be in a great relationship but is the process to get there really worth it? The process is EXHAUSTING. It’s time INTENSIVE. It drains your energy It often beats you down mentally, emotionally and physically. There is another area of life that often FEELS similar… It’s your health and weight. We are in the midst of eating healthy and working out to hit…

Step by step plan to stay single

Today you’re going to learn HOW to stay single. Knowing how to achieve the opposite of your goal is just as important as knowing how to get what you want. Many times what you choose NOT to do is more important than what you choose to do. This weekend we chose to put away our phones and focus on spending real quality time together as a family. Our son Mason had our full presence. Our two dogs Bear and Bailey…

Get Upset or Get Comfortable

Sometimes you want to be comfortable with where you’re at and other times you want to get upset with where you’re at. Whether you’re comfortable with something or upset about it, it’s totally subjective and within your control to change how you’re representing it to yourself. If you want to accept what is and be happier, it’s best to create comfort with where you’re at. If you want something to CHANGE, it’s best to get UPSET with where you’re at…