Relationship Advice

Are Relationships Hard? – This is What a REAL Relationship is like

Are relationships hard or should they be easy when you’ve found the right person? On today’s brand-new Date to Soul Mate Show we get personal and you get a behind the scenes look into what a real relationship is like. Ashley doesn’t hold back and confesses what she can’t stand most about Michael. Michael lets loose on what he really thinks about Ashley. If you have a weak stomach DON’T watch today’s Show. We know you’ve been hearing conflicting opinions…

What Turns Guys Off – This Turns a Man off Quicker than you Farting in his Face

What turns guys off quicker than anything else? That is what we’re about to lay down for you on today’s Date to Soul Mate Show. You just met someone you are really interested in. You have only been on one date. BUT, you have all the FEELS. You haven’t felt this way in a long time. He is handsome. Smart. Witty. Respectful. Chivalrous. Passionate about his career AND successful. As if that wasn’t enough, he’s also sweetly philanthropic. He donates…

An Exclusive Relationship in 6 weeks?

Can you get into an exclusive relationship within 6 weeks? Learn what it takes to stop dating unavailable or undesirable men starting right now. She decided to reluctantly talk with us. She didn’t want to, but the frustration of meeting one more guy who was totally beneath her was unbearable. She booked a call to talk with us because despite her extreme skepticism, she was at a complete loss for what to do next. She knew she couldn’t do it…

Commitment Issues – Is MAN-ogamy possible or a ridiculous expectation?

Do you believe men or a man you’re dating has commitment issues? Is MAN-ogamy even something that is possible or desirable? Can a man really commit to monogamy in this day and age? A big challenge with online dating today is that people are no longer just dating ONE person when they meet. There is no denying that this is the way that dating is today, regardless of whether you are meeting people online or offline. So, should you just…

How to Deal with Rejection – Get Hurt and Get Even….

Learn how to deal with rejection, loneliness and heartache. You will experience ups and downs in your love life and it is how you deal with them that matters most. He was running as fast as he could. In fact, he was in an all out sprint. Nobody was going to stop him or get in his way. He had momentum and the support of the crowd. Than all of a sudden the unexpected happened…. He tripped and fell harder…

Deal Breakers for Dating – This deal breaker is a burning red flag to get out now

What are the critical deal breakers for dating? What are the signs that he is not right for you and that you need to move on right now? Deal Breakers for Dating Have you ever felt stuck in the middle with someone? You notice a few things about them that aren’t your favorite. You wonder if maybe these things about them might change. They seem to have some good qualities, but there are others that are just missing. Being…

Should I Sleep with Him?

We often get asked “Should I sleep with him?” “Do I need to wait?” “Will he leave if I don’t?” Today we answer this age old question. How many times have you wondered “should I sleep with him?” What’s the current rule? Wait at least two, five, or ten dates? Should sex happen before or after exclusivity? Should you sleep with other people at the same time if you aren’t exclusive or are dating multiple people? Isn’t that like cheating?…

What Attracts Men the Most – What Most Women Will Never Get….

Discover what attracts men the most. It’s not how you look or what you say to a man that matters most when it comes to attraction. Did you see Mark Zuckerberg of flakebook testifying before congress. It was pure pop culture theater. It was ironic that we watched the live stream of the hearing on facebook 😊 First, it was crazy to see 70 year olds questioning him about facebook when they obviously know nothing about how it works. They…

Is He The One? – Would you pass this dating test?

Is he the one for you? What do you look for to know with certainty that he is right for you? Today we’ve got a simple yet IMPORTANT one question test for you. If you pass with flying colors, your chances of finding the right man for you skyrocket and you’ll never have to wonder ” is he the one for me” If you don’t pass (almost nobody does), you will not find the right guy for you no matter…

How to Text a Guy – One of the Worst texts to receive from a guy

Learn how to text a guy that you like. Today we’ll talk about why it’s so important to be able to communicate through text, email, chat or in person. “hey you free to hang?” Have you ever gotten one of these texts from a guy you’re dating? He doesn’t plan something with you in advance. He just randomly texts you out of the blue to see if you’re “free to hang out”. What does that even mean? “HANG OUT” What…

Live the Good Life – These are the Keys to the GOOD LIFE

Do you want to live the good life? Today we’ll teach you what it takes to live a life full of love, happiness and impact. “There is no heavier burden than an unfulfilled potential” – Charles Schulz Happy Friday TEAM ARN, We want to give you so much VALUE today that you explode into your weekend with purpose and intention. We show up DAILY for you in this VIP newsletter to help YOU show up daily in your own life. We know that…

Judging People – Use Other People’s Judgments to Your Favor

Should we stop judging people? Can we stop others from judging us? We all judge people. When we’re out running errands, at work, socializing with friends, hanging with family, we judge people. People would be frightened if they KNEW our worst thoughts about others. We are 24/7 judgy judgersons. You can’t stop it. You also can’t stop others from judging you. The best thing to do is to use other people’s judgements of you to your advantage. You see, there…

How to Improve Your Life – 5 People Will Determine the Quality of Your Life!

Today we talk about how to improve your life by building relationships that last with the right people. Who do you spend the most time with? Do you really know them? Do they add to the quality of your life? The 5 people you devote the majority of your relationship time and energy to will by and large determine the quality of your life! That’s why building relationships that last with the right people is so important. Why are these people so…

How to Get to Know Someone – Why it’s Crucial to Know Your Partner’s Inner World!

Do you know your partner? If you think you know and understand your partner completely your wrong. There is always something more to learn about someone. Relationship Advice - Teaching you Crucial Habits for Successful Relationships

Men and Women Differences – Who wins in a fight: Men vs. Women

Men and women differences – Do these differences matter and what can you do to overcome them and have a great relationship. Ouch yes we went there. You’ve probably heard Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. What a BS concept. Ashley is from Laguna Niguel, CA and Michael is from New Glarus, WI (home of the best beer ever made) We aren’t from different planets. Men and women are more ALIKE than they are different. All of…

Bad Dating Advice – Don’t Do What She Does

Bad dating advice is everywhere. It comes in all forms. From… ….society ….celebrities ….family members ….coworkers and today we are going to talk about bad dating advice from your FRIENDS. It’s one of the worst kinds. You don’t want to find yourself copying women in your life that AREN’T successful in love. When a single friend says “You have got to try this.” Don’t listen! Unless she has proof that this is a technique that will actually lead to the…

Why am I Attracted to Him – Why Everything We Think about Attraction is Wrong

We often get asked ” Why am I attracted to him?” “Why am I always attracted to men who aren’t right for me or relationship ready?” Attraction and chemistry are fickle beasts. We desire attraction with someone. It’s also a little scary when we really have chemistry with a person. We are often attracted to people who are terrible for us long term. We often are shut off to having chemistry with others. Most of us knowingly or unknowingly use…

Happily Ever After – He kept showing up uninvited

Today will show you how one couple lived happily ever after despite a rough start. The curious case of the happily ever after couple who should’ve never been together. It was 1963 and Nancy went out on a blind date with Harry. Nancy was 5 feet tall and she liked shorter men with brown hair. She didn’t like dating tall guys because she felt so small in comparison. Harry showed up at her door and she immediately wanted to cancel.…

How to Talk to a Guy – Real is RARE

If you want to learn how to talk to a guy online or someone you’re interested than keep reading. Do you ever feel like all you’re doing is having fake “conversations” with people on: online dating sites/apps social media text chat email We are doing more “communicating” now than ever before, yet are we really saying anything? We are connected to each other 24/7 and yet disconnected from each other on a level never before seen. Digital communication has made…

The red carpet was “normal” that’s why it failed.

This was the title of the Cosmo headlines today. Being “normal” means that you fall between the cracks. Normal=Unmemorable Normal=Predictable Normal=Average Normal=Mediocre Normal=What is expected So, what does this have to do with your love life? Most people fall into the category of being “normal” in their love life. They take the steps they are “supposed” to take. They do what everyone else does to try to find love…which is stay stuck in an on again off again cycle of…

Independent Woman – What should I do?

Are you an independent woman? Are you a modern woman who is able to stand on her own two feet? Today we will rap about what you can do to find love when you are an independent woman. Being a strong woman is hard. There is so much to balance. You can take care of yourself (you likely have for years). You don’t “need” anyone in your life to take care of you. You have worked hard to be where…

Gratitude and Happiness – Stinkin Thinkin

Gratitude and happiness go hand in hand. There is no separating them. You can’t be happy without gratitude. Today we are going to lay out the secrets of gratitude and happiness AND the non-secrets of stinkin thinkin. Let’s talk about one of our clients. In LESS THAN ONE YEAR, she met AND married a man that is incredible. Together, they have chemistry, compatibility, connection and commitment. These are the four essential elements of long-term relationship success. She got married in…

How to Change My Life – Miracle Workers or Scammers?

How to Change My Life – Miracle Workers or Scammers? Are you looking for how to change your life? Today we will talk about what needs to happen to make a significant change in your life. Can we work miracles in your life? If not, are we scamming you? We got a message from a “fan” yesterday musing about what we do and we’ll talk about that in a minute. Before we do, we want you to know that we love…

Get Unstuck with Tiny wins

It’s time for you to get unstuck and gain momentum in your life! We had a great weekend. We love to cook and host people and had quite a few friends over this weekend. We also got to spend time having fun with our little man, laughing and doing all sorts of crazy things. We woke up to this message from a client today who got unstuck… “I thought I’d let you know that I have connected with men much…

How to Make Decisions – Are you Hiding in the Middle?

Today we are going to talk about how to make decisions in your love life. You most likely want to be able to make decisions more effectively, faster and that lead you to what you want. Here is what we often hear from people. I’m not sure if I like him! I don’t know. Maybe! Ya I think I’d like to do that. I’ll try that. Does that sound familiar? Do you talk to yourself that way? Is that how…

How do I Find My Soulmate? Take this One Step First

A client asked us… How do I find my soulmate? What do I have to do meet the man who is the one for me? Do I find my soulmate online? Offline? We told this client we need to change how she is thinking about soulmates before she can find who she is looking for. Another client of ours has gone on 3 great dates with a guy. This man is attractive. He is an ambitious professional. He is family…

Common Relationship Problems – We had a 2 Hour lip boxing Fight

Common Relationship Problems & Challenges What are common relationship problems and challenges? Are they normal? Are they a sign you are with the wrong person or that you need to fix something? Over the weekend we did all sorts of fun things. Our son, Mason, had Friday through Monday off and we took advantage. We spent quality time together as a family. We broke bread with friends. We laughed a lot. We also had a lip boxing fight that lasted…

We don’t claim to help everyone.

We’ve been at this for over a decade. In that time, we have tried to help our clients in A LOT of different ways. We worked with clients face-to-face in our office in the traditional therapy model. We met for an hour a week….and every week it felt like we were starting over again. Progress was SLOW. We created ebooks. We had monthly memberships where people could ask us questions. We had products that highlighted one part of our system…

Dumped and in a Dark Place

It can seem like no matter what you do you aren’t any closer to meeting the right person or having the relationship you want. The endless bad dates are demoralizing. It doesn’t seem to matter how hard you try it always feel like your back at square one. Your love life is different than other areas of your life. In most other areas you can make gradual progress. It’s easier to feel like your making progress in your career because…

Feeling better vs. BEING better

If you had a bad day and are just venting, we recommend you vent in a private journal and not on a public facebook post. Believe it or not, the people you’re dating are looking you up. We once had a client who couldn’t figure out why she was having so much trouble in the beginning stages of dating. People were initially interested in her but quickly disappeared. After 2 minutes of online research, we discovered that she was saying…

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