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The State of Dating in 2017

The State of Dating in 2017

What are the current trends in dating right now? We always stay up to date on the latest research when it comes to dating, love and relationships. We filter out all the crap advice out there and bring you only what the worlds top experts are finding today. That is our job. We know your busy. You don’t have time to do a deep dive into the weeds to find out what is really working right now and what isn’t.…

The whacky crazy way to find love

Do this to break free from Old Dating Patterns. Today you’re going to get advice from US by way of George Costanza of Seinfeld. haha yes we know this sounds Whacky. Do you remember the Seinfeld episode where George does everything opposite from what he would normally do? It’s a hilarious episode. He tells a woman he is bald and a failure. He tells the owner of the Yankees that they suck and things start to drastically change for him. You…

4 Steps to End Bread Crumbing Now

We recently talked to you about The Bread Crumbing Dating Pattern and today we are going to teach you What to do when you’re stuck in this pattern. But before we get there, if you want a quick giggle, go check out this article and pictures of this couple who have been married 37 years and dress in matching outfits everyday http://datetosoulmate.com/stylish-couple-world/ Let’s refresh our memories about Bread Crumbing so we are all on the same page. Bread crumbing is when…

Is he leaving you bread crumbs?

Aahhhh today we are going to talk with you about one of the most insidious Forever Single Dating Patterns. The Bread Crumbing Dating Pattern…. This is when a guy gives you just enough attention, love, affection or communication to leave you wanting more. Just enough to get you to stay.. To keep dating him… To stay in the relationship… He is leaving bread crumbs for you to continue following the path with him. He never fully meets your needs. Not…

Are you the scheduler?

Self-awareness is one of the key ingredients to success in love. You have to know what’s best for you. WHO is best for you. You also need to know HOW you’ve sabotaged yourself in the past. It’s not a questions of IF you’ve sabotaged yourself. We’ve ALL sabotaged ourselves in love. ALL of us. Some of us have done a lot of it. Some have done a little here and there. Sometimes it’s not enough to end a relationship or prevent…

She Left Him After FINALLY Listening to Her Gut and The Voice Inside

Have you ever stayed with a guy who you KNEW was wrong for you? Most of us have! You have had that feeling in your gut that he is not right for you. That you two aren’t compatible…. That he doesn’t treat you the way your MAN would treat you. But something STOPS you from leaving. Something prevents you from ending it and moving on. Could be comfort… Could be your share friends or the expectations of others.. Could be…
The Romantic Movie Love Dating Pattern

The Romantic Movie Love Dating Pattern

It’s been a sick few days over here at the Dr. Arn household.  Mason and Michael are still feeling the sick wrath. Meanwhile, Ashley has been able to escape the sick monster so far. (Although she’s had to put up with two sick men which might be worse than ACTUALLY being sick)…… We read an interesting article yesterday…. It was about the rise of VEGAN Dating Sites.  Yes, Vegans are being matched on their own dating sites. Click here to…

The crazy chemistry dating pattern

How is your week going? We’ve been killing it despite Michael and Mason both being sickos this week.  We’ve been doing some amazing work with our students in our Live Workshop and in Single to Soul Mates University. The insights and transformations we’ve been seeing are inspirational. When you work with thousands of clients you observe certain patterns. Some are success patterns… Others are what we call forever single dating patterns… Many of the clients we work with come to…
Keep it Simple to Succeed

Keep it Simple to Succeed

We had a great President’s Day weekend here in Sonoma.  The weather was beautiful here Saturday, so we went to two wineries. We went as  a family (we brought our son Mason).  Many of the wineries here are family friendly and are fascinating to a 4 year old. One of the wineries, Jacuzzi, also has olive oil and vinegar tasting.  We ended up buying Chocolate Balsamic Vinegar.  Yum it’s so good. We wanted to have a relaxing yet pleasurable weekend.…
How to Command Attention from High Caliber Men

How to Command Attention from High Caliber Men

When you are stuck in the forever single cycle, one of the biggest shifts you can make is to start COMMANDING ATTENTION FROM HIGH CALIBER MEN. Most women ARE NOT commanding attention from the right guys. You might find yourself either not commanding any attention from guys….. or Commanding attention from THE WRONG GUYS. Both feel bad right? If you want to meet the kind of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want to…
A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

We know a secret that Batwoman used to meet, attract and fall in love with Batman. You see, for years she was single and dating THE WRONG GUYS. She read books, articles and talked to her friends for YEARS about what she could do differently to find the right guy for her once and for all. None of it worked. No matter what she did she ended up frustrated, hurt and SINGLE. This messed with her self-esteem.  She felt bad…
Guided Meditation – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation “Say Yes and Figure Out How”

Guided Meditation – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation “Say Yes and Figure Out How”

Today’s 5 Minute Mindfulness and Guided Meditation is all about Saying Yes. Most of us try to figure out how to do something before we commit to doing it. We want to KNOW the exact steps to go from where we are now to where we want to go BEFORE we commit to doing it. We don’t give ourselves permission to really commit to something until we have the certainty about HOW we’ll do it. You want to know HOW…
Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show

Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show

How is your week going? How are your New Years resolutions going? For most people, they are starting to give up on their goals for 2017 already. They are almost ready to throw in the towel and “try again” next year. We don’t want that for you when it comes to finding lasting love. We want you to find love THIS YEAR. Yesterday we did a LIVE Date to Soul Mate Show in our free facebook group… Mastering Dating &…

How Ann found love in 5 weeks

We just interviewed one of our students named Ann who found love with an amazing guy in just 5 weeks in our Single to Soul Mates Live Workshop. It almost sounds too good to be true…. Except it actually happened. Before working with us, Ann was dating A LOT. She was going out on lots of dates. Trying to meet guys on Plenty of fish and eHarmony as well as offline. She told us she wasn’t meeting any guys who…

3 Ways be Yourself when you like a Guy

Howdy yall, Yesterday in our Live Workshop group coaching call we talked about how to be your best authentic self when you like a guy. See, many of our clients have struggled with attracting the guys they’re not into like bee’s to honey and were unknowingly pushing away guys they liked. They saw the results. The guys they were neutral about or ACTIVELY DISLIKED were sending them flowers and tripping over themselves to see them. The guys they liked –…

The Wrong Mindset – The worst question you can ask yourself!

Don’t let the wrong mindset stop your success or growth in their tracks. We love helping people transform their lives. It’s the reason we became Psychologists. It’s the reason we spent hundreds of thousands of dollars in education to learn from the best in the world of Psychology, Dating, Communication and Relationships. It’s the reason we transformed ourselves first. It’s the reason we are going to transform how the whole world looks at connection and relationships. We are both obsessed…
Are you dating other people?

Are you dating other people?

  Are you Dating other People? – The Date to Soul Mate Show Hey there, We are enjoying the beautiful weather here in Sonoma, CA.  We also have great wine here toooooooo..    Yay! We’ve been going for long walks and have a fitbit competition with some friends of ours. Helps to offset the wine calories too. Today we have a question from a student…. So let’s get right into shall we! “If a man asks you out and you…

MLK is like WTF!

Happy MLK day! Today is the perfect day to reflect on your dreams. MLK was a dreamer AND took action to realize his greatest aspirations. If he knew most of us give up on our dreams so easily he would be like WTF! Think about what he faced in his lifetime. Constant rejection of his ideas. Relentless opposition. Received never ending death threats and threats of bodily harm. He was taking action every day to move his aspirations forward and…