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What’s Your MISSION and Your WHY?

What’s Your MISSION and Your WHY?

To use our 4-Step DATING FUNNEL in your life, hop on a quick call with us here: www.moderndatingcall.com Rooting for you, Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn
Should You Give Up on Dating Altogether?

Should You Give Up on Dating Altogether?

Dating is a grind. You get on these dating apps and are immediately sent perverted messages from men you’re not even interested in. Men say they want a REAL relationship only to find out later they just want to be friends with benefits. He wants to keep it casual. You put yourself out there.  You put in the effort to look your best.  You rush to dates after work. You date someone for 2 months only to find out he’s…
HOW TO TEXT GUYS YOU LIKE – Are you an OVER or UNDER Texter?

HOW TO TEXT GUYS YOU LIKE – Are you an OVER or UNDER Texter?

Texting someone you like is HARD. You have all these things you want to say. You have certain reactions or things you want them to say to YOU. Today we talk about how to text a guy you’re interested in so that the two of you want to see each other in person. If you are ready to have the relationship you want now, book a call to talk with us to see if or how we can help:  www.moderndatingcall.com…
Dating Rules for Professional Women

Dating Rules for Professional Women

To learn a simple 4-Step Dating Funnel to meet the right person go here: http://www.datingfunnel.com You hear all the time that you shouldn’t do this or you should do that in dating. Don’t text before X. Don’t sleep with someone until Y. Don’t talk about XYZ. The list goes on and on. Following all these dating rules is a nightmare. They conflict with each other. They often don’t sync with how you live the rest of your life. AND worst…
Meeting Men with Commitment Issues?

Meeting Men with Commitment Issues?

To learn about our 4-step dating funnel to meet the right guy for you go here: http://www.datingfunnel.com Are you dating men who “just want to keep it casual”? Do you meet men you’re interested in, but they don’t pursue you proactively? You might even meet men who say they’re ready for a relationship, but in the end they aren’t. Commitment issues can come in all shapes and sizes. They’re infuriating because they waste your time. They’re hurtful when you discover…
Learn by Doing in Dating & Relationships

Learn by Doing in Dating & Relationships

To know exactly what to DO go watch our free class here: http://www.datingfunnel.com Learn by Doing Many of us smart, curious and ambitious people get stuck in LEARNING. Believe it or not, your natural inclination to LEARN more or to GET MORE INFORMATION could be getting in the way of the results you want in your love life. Being caught in a never-ending cycle of learning through intellectualization leads to overthinking and paralyses by analysis. Michael is naturally curious and…
Work Life Balance – Your Career VS. Your Love Life

Work Life Balance – Your Career VS. Your Love Life

Do you have difficulties juggling being ambitious in your professional life and having the kind of relationship you want? Can you have fulfillment in both? Today Michael talks about why it’s important to answer these questions and figure out what works best for YOU in your own life. To learn how professional women are getting into happy and fulfilling relationship right now go to http://www.datingfunnel.com
How to Meet Guys without Online Dating

How to Meet Guys without Online Dating

To learn our 4-Step Dating Funnel to meet the right person go to http://www.datingfunnel.com Do you secretly want to run into the right person for you IN REAL LIFE? Are you over ONLINE DATING? You can absolutely meet someone offline if you DO the right things. We recommend to our clients that they use both an online and offline strategy to meet the person they want. Today we talk about the most important steps to find a guy offline as…

Connection comes Before Selection

You aren’t too picky. What’s important is WHEN are you picky. To learn how to our 4 Step Dating Funnel to MEET the right person for you go here: http://datingfunnel.com
WINS – CREATING AN UNBEATABLE MINDSET & MOTIVATION

WINS – CREATING AN UNBEATABLE MINDSET & MOTIVATION

Are you acknowledging and really FEELING YOUR WINS? If not, dating and relationships are going to feel heavy and discouraging. You’ll always feel like you’re back at square one or not where you want to be. Having the relationship you want is a lifelong marathon, it’s not a sprint. Your mindset is crucial to succeeding in this marathon known as your love life. Celebrating your WINS, from the big ones to the tiny ones is important to you creating an…
3 Reasons Why Men Don’t Approach You

3 Reasons Why Men Don’t Approach You

3 Reasons Why Men Don’t Approach You Jump on a quick call with us to see how you can IMPLEMENT our 4 Step Dating Funnel in your life: http://www.moderndatingcall.com MEN, On the one hand, they can bring so much joy, love and positive feelings to your life. On the other hand, they can be so frustrating and difficult to understand. We just did a brand new show on “Why the men you want don’t approach you”. We cover why it’s…
How to Meet GUYS when a Majority of Men AREN’T a Match for You

How to Meet GUYS when a Majority of Men AREN’T a Match for You

How to Meet Guys when a Majority of Men AREN’T a Match for You. For a deep dive into how to FIND the right guy for you go here: http://www.datingfunnel.com The women we help are the best of the best women in the world. They have EVERYTHING except when it comes to their love lives. They have MANY strengths.  Many great qualities. They bring A LOT to the table. They aren’t the type of woman who settles in life. They…
Are you told you’re TOO PICKY in Dating?

Are you told you’re TOO PICKY in Dating?

Are you told you’re TOO PICKY in Dating? Are you an amazing woman with MANY great qualities and strengths who’s been told she’s TOO PICKY with Guys or in LOVE? We talk to high value women everyday who are wondering whether they’re too picky or not. Deep down they don’t really believe they are, BUT they’ve been told by people close to them that they are. AND they HAVEN’T found the right guy yet, so all of this together has…
When to Leave a Man & Let Him Go!

When to Leave a Man & Let Him Go!

We tend to either reject or move on from people way TOO QUICKLY or we HOLD ON to someone who isn’t right for us way TOO LONG. Often, we ping pong from one extreme to the other. To live an extraordinary life and have an amazing relationship, it’s imperative that you strike the right notes when it comes to your decision making about who to spend your precious time and energy on. We know you want the best in life…
The #1 way your Brain SABOTAGES your SUCCESS in Love & Life

The #1 way your Brain SABOTAGES your SUCCESS in Love & Life

Get a complete walk through of our 4 Step Dating funnel here http://www.datingfunnel.com What if……(there are no great single men in your city) Are you looking to meet a great man? Do you want to have the relationship you’ve always dreamed of? Do you have other life goals you’d like to accomplish this year? Anytime we ALLOW ourselves to think about the kind of relationship we actually want…. Or Anytime we set goals… Our brains instantly start going to work…
Doing the right things and STILL not finding love?

Doing the right things and STILL not finding love?

Today Michael is going to talk with you about one of the most important KEYS to having the relationship you want. If you’ve been doing all the “right things” in dating and still not finding lasting love watch todays video. What you do is important in dating. But it isn’t the only key to success. There is another key that is EQUALLY as important to finding love. Watch our latest Video to discover what it is.
Why your feelings don’t matter

Why your feelings don’t matter

How often do you FEEL like giving up looking for the right guy? Yes, you want to be in a great relationship but is the process to get there really worth it? The process is EXHAUSTING. It’s time INTENSIVE. It drains your energy It often beats you down mentally, emotionally and physically. There is another area of life that often FEELS similar… It’s your health and weight. We are in the midst of eating healthy and working out to hit…
You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist

You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist

There is a great Gandhi quote… “You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist” In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show Michael talks about how you can live this quote in your dating life.
How to Text a Guy Between Dates

How to Text a Guy Between Dates

Know exactly what to text him before or in between dates to spark attraction. Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael from TEAM ARN with a short but powerful message, One of our clients in our Meet the Man You Want Bootcamp asked about how she could text a man between dates. She connected with a guy who was working on the road for a few weeks and she wanted to know how to message him before they could get…
THE FIRST COMMANDMENT TO MEET THE MAN YOU WANT AND CREATE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP FOR SUCCESSFUL WOMEN

THE FIRST COMMANDMENT TO MEET THE MAN YOU WANT AND CREATE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP FOR SUCCESSFUL WOMEN

Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn. We have a strong set of beliefs about the right way to stop dating UNAVAILABLE & UNDESIRABLE MEN and Find Lasting Love.   We call these the 10 Commandments to Meet the Man You Want and Create a Great Relationship for Successful Women   In this video we go over the first of these beliefs.   Here’s the First Commandment:   Find the Right Person to Love AND Learn to Love the…
Stuck in the Modern Woman’s Dating Cycle?

Stuck in the Modern Woman’s Dating Cycle?

Stuck in the Modern Woman’s Dating Cycle? It seems like the things that used to work in dating don’t work anymore for the modern professional woman. THE BOTTOM LINE? Even though there are more single men now than ever, and even though it’s easier to meet people due to the EXPLOSION of online dating……more amazing women are single than ever before. We’re Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn and we help professional women stop dating unavailable and undesirable men using…
Who’s Infiltrating Your Mind & Decisions?

Who’s Infiltrating Your Mind & Decisions?

Hey ACTION-TAKER, It is a glorious day here in wine country California. Tuesday nights here are FARMERS MARKET starting at 5:30pm. We had an amazing time last night picking up some veggies, sipping on some bubbly, listening to the local band and devouring tasting eats from the GREEN Grocer (a bomb food stand that uses fresh ingredients straight from the market). Despite all the fun we are having, we carved out a bit of time to talk with you about…
We’re FIGHTING TODAY – How to Solve Relationship Problems without Breaking Up

We’re FIGHTING TODAY – How to Solve Relationship Problems without Breaking Up

Today we are going to reveal How to Solve Relationship Problems without Breaking Up. What we’re about to share with you is counter-intuitive. It’s not going to be what you think it is and yet when you discover what it is it will make total sense to you on a deep level. When you are able to put this into practice you will STILL have arguments and disagreements, BUT you will solve them effectively and MOST IMPORTANTLY you will emotionally…
Are Relationships Hard? –  This is What a REAL Relationship is like

Are Relationships Hard? – This is What a REAL Relationship is like

Are relationships hard or should they be easy when you’ve found the right person? On today’s brand-new Date to Soul Mate Show we get personal and you get a behind the scenes look into what a real relationship is like. Ashley doesn’t hold back and confesses what she can’t stand most about Michael. Michael lets loose on what he really thinks about Ashley. If you have a weak stomach DON’T watch today’s Show. We know you’ve been hearing conflicting opinions…