Work/Love Success

Don’t Back Down from Bullies

Yesterday, Michael went to pick up our son Mason from school. Mason came running over to him and jumped into his arms.He was sobbing. It was the kind of cry only Claire Danes could pull off or someone who had just gotten a metaphorical punch to their soul. You see, Mason loves Pokémon. When we say loves we mean LOVESSSSSSS! He’s obsessed. It’s all he talks about. Hearing about Pokémon makes our ears hurt at this point he talks about…

HOW MANY REJECTIONS DID YOU GET THIS WEEK?

In both your business/Career and in your dating life, the person who seeks out NO’s or REJECTIONS gets the best results. I talk to people about their dating life and their careers every day and one of the biggest obstacles I hear is people doing anything they can to AVOID rejection. You don’t put yourself out there because you might get rejected. You don’t say what you really want because you might push someone away. You play it safe and…
Learn by Doing in Dating & Relationships

Learn by Doing in Dating & Relationships

To know exactly what to DO go watch our free class here: http://www.datingfunnel.com Learn by Doing Many of us smart, curious and ambitious people get stuck in LEARNING. Believe it or not, your natural inclination to LEARN more or to GET MORE INFORMATION could be getting in the way of the results you want in your love life. Being caught in a never-ending cycle of learning through intellectualization leads to overthinking and paralyses by analysis. Michael is naturally curious and…
Work Life Balance – Your Career VS. Your Love Life

Work Life Balance – Your Career VS. Your Love Life

Do you have difficulties juggling being ambitious in your professional life and having the kind of relationship you want? Can you have fulfillment in both? Today Michael talks about why it’s important to answer these questions and figure out what works best for YOU in your own life. To learn how professional women are getting into happy and fulfilling relationship right now go to http://www.datingfunnel.com
What’s the #1 Challenge or Problem to Solve RIGHT NOW in your Love Life?

What’s the #1 Challenge or Problem to Solve RIGHT NOW in your Love Life?

What’s the #1 Challenge or Problem to Solve RIGHT NOW in your Love Life? In your love life, you will ALWAYS have challenges or problems. Whether you are single or happily married, there is always a challenge to tackle. There are many solutions, but the most important thing to remember is to tackle the challenge or problem that will move you closer to the life you want to live and is the NEXT challenge to solve right now. Not the…
WINS – CREATING AN UNBEATABLE MINDSET & MOTIVATION

WINS – CREATING AN UNBEATABLE MINDSET & MOTIVATION

Are you acknowledging and really FEELING YOUR WINS? If not, dating and relationships are going to feel heavy and discouraging. You’ll always feel like you’re back at square one or not where you want to be. Having the relationship you want is a lifelong marathon, it’s not a sprint. Your mindset is crucial to succeeding in this marathon known as your love life. Celebrating your WINS, from the big ones to the tiny ones is important to you creating an…

Is indecision keeping you single?

One of the biggest things that will prevent the kind of man you want from pursuing a committed relationship with you is indecision. We know this might sound crazy so stay with us and we will explain. We receive hundreds of applications every month from women who want our help to meet a really great guy that they’re excited about, is compatible with them, and is commitment ready. We actually offer our help personal help to less than 10% of…

Finding Your Man is Easier Than You Think

Implement this one strategy to dramatically change WHO’S pursuing you. Hi it’s Ashley and Michael, If you’re a busy woman with little time to waste, you’re in for a treat today. We get it. We’re strapped for time too. We work our butts off to help all of you amazing women have the relationships you want. It takes time and energy to create the kind of best friend’s and lover’s marriage we have with each other (this kind of relationship…
Diamonds are formed under PRESSURE and STRESS

Diamonds are formed under PRESSURE and STRESS

Most people avoid stress and avoid pressure. They avoid putting themselves in situations where they are completely out of their element. They say “I’m not ready for that.” This is the surest way to avoid results or success in any area of your life. If you want to get the fastest results possible, put yourself in the deep-end on purpose. Put yourself in situations you’re NOT ready for yet. Put yourself in situations where you are completely out of your…

What do I want in life? How to Get Clarity on Where You are Going.

What do I want …. In life.. In a relationship…. In my career In a man… There is nothing more powerful than getting real clarity on what you want. What Do I Want in Life To be honest most people reject themselves before life or anyone else gets a chance to reject them. They don’t even allow themselves to think about what they most want out of the FEAR that they’ll go for it and come up miserably short. Michael…
How to Set Goals and Achieve Them

How to Set Goals and Achieve Them

Today we are talking about how to set goals because you are on TEAM ARN and that means you are a constantly growing person. How to Set Goals and GSD You don’t settle for average and you don’t stagnate. That means setting goals is a part of your life. If it isn’t, that is changing right now. In our year long mentorship program Rise Up we focus a lot on how to set goals and actually GSD. Most other people…

How to spend less time dating AND Meet your Man

If you are wasting a lot of time online dating, swiping, messaging and going on dates that don’t go anywhere today’s message is for you. When we talk with single women who want to find love, we notice a few patterns. 1. The first type of person hasn’t dated much, at least recently. It’s not that they’re meeting a lot of the wrong men, they aren’t meeting many men at all. 2. The second type of person has been dating…
Courage over Fear

Courage over Fear

We tend to reflect on what we HAVEN’T done instead of embracing all of the AMAZING things we have done over the last year. Decide right now who you are going to be. Are you going to let the things that haven’t happened YET define you? OR Are you going to show more determination than ever to give the middle finger to everyone and everything that is getting in your way and get to your goal? You have willingly chosen…

The real reason amazing women are single

You don’t want to be dating forever. Heck you don’t want to be doing it for 3 more months do you? You want to IMMEDIATELY stop having to beautify yourself for dates. Having to psyche yourself up mentally and emotionally to meet a stranger after a long tiring day of work. Needing to rush across town, spend your hard-earned money on transportation and parking…… Only to meet your date and feel like RUNNING out of the place immediately in disgust…
You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist

You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist

There is a great Gandhi quote… “You cannot shake hands with a clenched fist” In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show Michael talks about how you can live this quote in your dating life.
Taking Care of Your Inner Child – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation

Taking Care of Your Inner Child – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation

Today’s 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation is all about taking care of your inner child. Take just 5 minutes to create an unbeatable mindset, to be emotionally fit and to exercise your mind and body today. Audio Version – Taking Care of Your Inner Child – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation        
How to Text a Guy Between Dates

How to Text a Guy Between Dates

Know exactly what to text him before or in between dates to spark attraction. Hey it’s Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael from TEAM ARN with a short but powerful message, One of our clients in our Meet the Man You Want Bootcamp asked about how she could text a man between dates. She connected with a guy who was working on the road for a few weeks and she wanted to know how to message him before they could get…

[ Live an Ambitious Life AND be Happy? ]

We were just talking with an awesome client who’s doing big things in her life, but she’s having a frustrating day full of setbacks and things not going her way. We had a great conversation about how it’s possible to DO BIG THINGS and live an AMBITIOUS Life while being happy and content. Here are some of our insights: 1. Think in terms of choosing vs. things being forced upon you. Remind yourself that you are CHOOSING to live a…
Focus, Perseverance and Action Taking – Today’s Mindset Elixir

Focus, Perseverance and Action Taking – Today’s Mindset Elixir

Today we are hitting you with a powerful mindset elixir to help you conquer your week. It isn’t enough to use the best strategies to meet the right person or do anything big successfully. You also must CREATE & CONDITION an unbeatable mindset to have long term success. Here is today’s Mindset Elixir

We all Perform Magic

We hope you had a FANTASTIC weekend. We had a blast at our son’s 6th birthday on Saturday. We hired a magician and 24 children were spellbound by his tricks (many of us adults were too). If you really think about it, what does a magician do? Mainly a magician directs your attention and focus in one particular direction. He gets you to focus over here while he’s doing the trick over there., completely out of your focus of attention.…

DO LESS – SUCCEED MORE

Years ago, when we did in person therapy with people, we learned something simple yet profound. You see, we had an office and our clients would come and talk to us in the traditional therapisty manner. They would sit on our couch and we’d talk about their issues. The prevailing wisdom was you NEEDED to take MASSIVE ACTION to get over any problems or succeed in an area. All the gurus were touting this massive action credo. They still do…

Live in the Present – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation

We’ve got a treat for you today, but before we get to that you want to know this….. In relationships, it’s almost never a straight line to getting it right. There is often a person BEFORE your person. What often seems like the right person for you is simply the person who is helping you grow so that you can meet your person. That’s right! We often believe someone is right for us and they’re not. We stress about a…

How to have Superpowers this Week!

It’s MONDAY. Do you feel like you have a million things you COULD DO? Does it feel like you have more things to do than time to do it? The brutal truth is most things we do DON’T MATTER. Most of our lives are spent talking about and doing things that don’t have a meaningful impact on our life or goals. THIS IS GOOD. It means we could drop the ball on most things we are currently doing and nothing…
Live the Good Life – These are the Keys to the GOOD LIFE

Live the Good Life – These are the Keys to the GOOD LIFE

Do you want to live the good life?  Today we’ll teach you what it takes to live a life full of love, happiness and impact. “There is no heavier burden than an unfulfilled potential” – Charles Schulz Happy Friday TEAM ARN, We want to give you so much VALUE today that you explode into your weekend with purpose and intention.  We show up DAILY for you in this VIP newsletter to help YOU show up daily in your own life. We know that…

Judging People – Use Other People’s Judgments to Your Favor

Should we stop judging people?  Can we stop others from judging us? We all judge people. When we’re out running errands, at work, socializing with friends, hanging with family, we judge people. People would be frightened if they KNEW our worst thoughts about others. We are 24/7 judgy judgersons. You can’t stop it. You also can’t stop others from judging you. The best thing to do is to use other people’s judgements of you to your advantage. You see, there…
How to Improve Your Life – 5 People Will Determine the Quality of Your Life!

How to Improve Your Life – 5 People Will Determine the Quality of Your Life!

Today we talk about how to improve your life by building relationships that last with the right people. Who do you spend the most time with? Do you really know them? Do they add to the quality of your life? The 5 people you devote the majority of your relationship time and energy to will by and large determine the quality of your life!  That’s why building relationships that last with the right people is so important. Why are these people so…
Get Unstuck with Tiny wins

Get Unstuck with Tiny wins

It’s time for you to get unstuck and gain momentum in your life! We had a great weekend. We love to cook and host people and had quite a few friends over this weekend. We also got to spend time having fun with our little man, laughing and doing all sorts of crazy things. We woke up to this message from a client today who got unstuck… “I thought I’d let you know that I have connected with men much…

Why Tom Brady could meet the man of his Dreams

Tom Brady might have just lost the Superbowl, but if he was single and looking to meet the man (or woman) of his dreams he’d able to do it and we will tell you why. Today on our live call with our clients we laid out a specific system for how to meet the kind of man they’re looking for offline. Yes. You heard that right. We showed these lovely ladies exactly how to find this type of guy without…
Feeling better vs. BEING better

Feeling better vs. BEING better

If you had a bad day and are just venting, we recommend you vent in a private journal and not on a public facebook post. Believe it or not, the people you’re dating are looking you up. We once had a client who couldn’t figure out why she was having so much trouble in the beginning stages of dating. People were initially interested in her but quickly disappeared. After 2 minutes of online research, we discovered that she was saying…