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Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

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What you want DOESN’T matter if you don’t figure this out first….

What you want DOESN’T matter if you don’t figure this out first….

We LOVE San Francisco. We love going there for weekend romantic getaways. In fact, our FAVORITE Italian restaurant in the whole world is there, Franchino’s. It’s the kind of restaurant where it feels like your mother is doing the cooking, only its a version of your mother that is an even better cook. (sshhhh don’t tell our mothers we said that) It’s run by an Italian family. The father is the host and runs the front end of the restaurant…
When you shouldn’t listen to the voice inside

When you shouldn’t listen to the voice inside

Our internal voices are either our jailers or they lead you to living an authentic and fulfilling life. We all hear voices. Don’t let any psychiatrist tell you differently. Your internal voices are simply your conscious and unconscious thoughts. You have roughly 60 THOUSAND thoughts per day. Some of them are helpful. Many of them are harmful to your happiness and goals. How do you know when to TRUST your inner voice and when to ignore it? Us humans are…
Be the Spark and Make One Small Change Today – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation

Be the Spark and Make One Small Change Today – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation

We have a new 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation for you today.  This episode is all about how you can make one small change today to be a catalyst for a whole different life in the future.  Be the spark as we call it.  It’s powerful and simple at the same time. Be the Spark – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn
What are you avoiding?

What are you avoiding?

What are 2 crucial steps you’re avoiding doing when it comes to dating or love? These are 2 actions you know you should do to find the right person for you, but you’ve been putting them off. Avoiding them. Saying you’ll do them next week. We all have things that are important for us to be doing that we are totally avoiding. We do it in all areas of our lives. We avoid working out. We avoid eating vegetables. We avoid…

Why, What and How – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation

In today’s 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation we focus on Why, What and How. These 3 questions and your answers to them will dramatically impact if you find love or not. They will impact if you achieve any of your goals. Determining your why, what and how are crucial factors. You also need to learn to put 90% of your focus on your why and what or you won’t get to where you want to go. Listen here: Life Has…
Why making the wrong decision is better than no decision

Why making the wrong decision is better than no decision

You are better off making the wrong decision than you are analyzing the situation to death in your head. Why is this true? Because making decisions provides you with real world feedback.  It enables you to have positive momentum. It also allows you to make an even better future decision. Once you’ve made an imperfect choice, you can make an even better future decision after factoring in the real world feedback you’ll receive. Your choices and actions are ALWAYS imperfect. Don’t…
THE DISEASE OF MORE THINKING

THE DISEASE OF MORE THINKING

Picture this: your mind is racing wondering what to say or do about the current guy you’re dating. He’s not texting you back. He’s not asking you out again. He’s acting hot and cold. You think of all these scenarios about WHY he is acting this way. and What you can do about it. You talk to your friends about it. You read blogs. Maybe you even follow the so called “rules” of dating to try to MAKE him pursue you.…
Do men care about your career?

Do men care about your career?

“I can’t attract successful guys because I’m not in a good place in my career or financially.  I don’t own a house” Michael was on the phone with a potential new client for free Single to Soul Mates Session.   He asked her what was getting in the way of her finding love. She told him that she was attracted to successful and ambitious guys, but that she wasn’t attractive to them. She said that she was “renting” and that she…
Today is Practice for Tomorrow – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation

Today is Practice for Tomorrow – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation

Do you want to reduce stress and give your mind an effective 5 Minute Workout? If, so listen to today’s 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation It’s the ultimate mind/body exercise for busy people who hate mindfulness and meditation. Here is this weeks 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation Today is Practice for Tomorrow – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation If you haven’t yet joined our free facebook group: Mastering Dating & Love for Ambitious Women – head over there now so…
A New Relationship with Your Thoughts – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation

A New Relationship with Your Thoughts – 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation

It’s Monday.  We have a new Monday 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation. It’s the ultimate mind/body exercise for busy people who hate mindfulness and meditation. In today’s session we explore the nature of your thoughts and how you can create a completely different relationship to your thoughts.  This will help you be emotionally fit, more present and to truly connect with someone else. Here is this weeks 5 Minute Mindfulness and Meditation. A New Relationship with Your Thoughts – 5…
Soul Mates are Created

Soul Mates are Created

First you find the right person for you, then you fight like hell for the rest of your life to be soul mates. Last Sunday we realized something was off between us and had been for 2 weeks. We weren’t connecting. weren’t on the same page. We were bickering over little things. getting annoyed with each other over day to day things. We caught ourselves not prioritizing each other and not prioritizing our relationship. For several weeks we had both been…

Are you the scheduler?

Self-awareness is one of the key ingredients to success in love. You have to know what’s best for you. WHO is best for you. You also need to know HOW you’ve sabotaged yourself in the past. It’s not a questions of IF you’ve sabotaged yourself. We’ve ALL sabotaged ourselves in love. ALL of us. Some of us have done a lot of it. Some have done a little here and there. Sometimes it’s not enough to end a relationship or prevent…
Live your goals Now – 5 Minute Monday Mindfulness & Meditation

Live your goals Now – 5 Minute Monday Mindfulness & Meditation

It’s MOOOONNDDDAAAYYYY. This might be a great thing for you or quite the opposite. We love Mondays. One of the best things you can do for yourself is to start your week off right. That’s why we send you our 5 Minute Monday Mindfulness and Meditation. It’s the ulimate mind/body exercise for busy people who hate mindfulness and meditation. It is what will help you create an unbeatable mindset and make this a killer week. Here is this weeks 5…
Stop Dating the Wrong Men and Find the One for YOU!

Stop Dating the Wrong Men and Find the One for YOU!

No more bad dates, Confusion, Worry or Heartache. You can Find, Attract and Deeply Connect with the Right Relationship Ready Man for You so he’ll Do Almost Anything to Commit to YOU. Stephanie is intelligent, kind and good person. She worked really hard to build a bustling career for herself. She has great friends and a fun social life. She is happy with who she is and her life. She is definitely not perfect, but no one is. She still…
A little Thank You…..

A little Thank You…..

We are so happy that you are part of our community!  We wanted to connect with you and provide you with an EXTRA level of support. First of all, thank you for believing in a unicorn!  Many of you haven’t seen or experienced a love life full of passion, fulfillment, and joy. We know that it can be hard to hold on to hope that it exists. BUT, you are certainly doing it because you are here taking this journey…
How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

How Whitney Found Her Relationship Ready Man

Whitney is one of our students and she has absolutely nailed it! She is a dedicated single mom and found herself disheartened by the men she was meeting and the way they were treating her. We were so lucky to interview Whitney on what has worked for her because now she is in an amazing relationship with a man who is an incredible fit for her. She shared the specific tips that she learned from us to find love so…
Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

Live Call in Show – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 20

We have a special Date to Soul Mate Show Episode for you. We did a facebook live call in show. That’s right… We gave people advice right on the spot. We will continue to do this so make sure you’ve joined our free facebook group to watch the next show and even call in if you would like. https://www.facebook.com/groups/wineandlove/ If you want to have your last first date and jump on a free Single to Soul Mates call with us…
A Love Letter

A Love Letter

Your heart is good. You dream big. You try hard. You love selflessly. You care deeply. You do it all for everyone else. You think about their needs. You show up when they need you, no matter what your needs are at that moment. You come home alone. You want someone to lay next to at night. You want someone to console you after a rough day. Sometimes you cry. Does anyone even notice? Does anyone think about what you…
How to Prioritize Your Fitness – No time? No problem!

How to Prioritize Your Fitness – No time? No problem!

This is a guest post from Douglas Sciortino Staying fit is important to you. But so is everything else. Your ambition and devotion to your job takes more of your time than you’d like, maintaining social obligations becomes harder and harder, and you’re also in search of your soulmate. It’s no wonder that finding the time to get your sweat on can be difficult. However, there are ways to help you intertwine your fitness with your hectic lifestyle without you evening…
Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn on the Maggie Linton Show

Hey Date to Soul Mate Nation, We hope you are doing well.  We know it can be very frustrating out there in dating land. That’s why we are so passionate about helping ALL of you create real connections out there. That’s why we put out so much free content and advice.  We want to see you succeed. We were just recently interviewed on the Maggie Linton Show. We touched on several important topics including attracting the right person and where…
How to Give a Massage to Your Partner with Yasuko Kawamura

How to Give a Massage to Your Partner with Yasuko Kawamura

Learn how to give a massage to your partner.  Yasuko Kawamura stops by The Date to Soul Mate Show to teach how to to give a good massage to someone. Yasuko is a Board Certified Licensed Massage Therapist and Reiki practitioner based in Orange County, California. Yasuko has a passion in teaching Couples Massage Class’ in which couples learn how to massage each other using easy massage techniques that do not hurt their fingers. By showing them how to effectively…
Beware of The Energy Vampires & Negative People

Beware of The Energy Vampires & Negative People

Do you feel like you don’t have time or energy for love? Do you find yourself dealing with other people’s problems, negative people and feeling completely depleted? There are family, friends, co-workers and other people out there who will suck the time and energy out of your life.  They are negative people.  They may or may not mean to but boy are they good at it. Audit Your Needy Naysers and Negative People in Your Life Before you can really be…

How to Make Money and Earn more Income with John Cummuta – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 12

Hey Y’all, It is a beautiful sunny day in southern California today.  Duh, when isn’t it right?  We want to talk to you about an issue most women grapple with. No, it isn’t chauvinistic pigs or unwanted douche pics! We want to talk to you about your struggle to have enough skrilla to live the life you really want.  How do you earn more income, make more money and have the career you really want while creating an amazing love…
Lessons from a Wise Man, Relevance, & How You Can Have it ALL

Lessons from a Wise Man, Relevance, & How You Can Have it ALL

Today Ashley is going to take it in a little bit of a different direction and dive into something personal that might even seem unrelated to love at first. Don’t worry, it will sneak up on you! Enter Ashley… There has been something weighing on my mind that I am trying to figure out how to navigate. I’m having a hard time balancing the joy that comes from work-life balance and the need to be relevant. I’ve always been an entrepreneur and…
Is Working from Home Ruining Your Love Life?

Is Working from Home Ruining Your Love Life?

Is working from home ruining your love life? It definitely could be….. Does this sound like you? Roll out of bed.  Throw on yoga pants.  Instantly make and drink GIANT cup of java. Dream about going back to sleep…..WAIT just kidding. Turn on your laptop. Get cracking. No hair brushing. Usually, no teeth brushing. No makeup. Honestly, this is our daily routine and it feels pretty awesome. No muss, no fuss. We can just wake up and grind. Unfortunately, working from home makes finding…