Dating isn’t easy, but it’s…….


It’s MONDAY and we are getting after IT!

We had a fantastic weekend. We went garage saling on Saturday and made out like bandits.

We found a brand-new foosball table for $20.

We bought a handmade mint condition floor standing wine rack that holds 30+ bottles for $30.

AND… if you know anything about us, it’s that we LOVE wine (we do live in Sonoma, CA).

How was your weekend?

We know you are doing amazing things in your life.

You don’t just settle in life. You don’t let the force of average consume you.

Sometimes we don’t see what we’re doing as amazing but when you really look at the little amazing things you’re doing day to day it is pretty special isn’t it?

In your love life, it’s how you do the little day to day things that matter to your success.

One thing you want to BURN into your mind is that our mission to have the relationship we want, with who we want, while making the impact we want isn’t easy, but it’s worth it.

We will say that again.


Never forget why we’re doing this and that it is hard. It’s down right brutal at times.

But it’s worth it. We are on this mission KNOWING it’s hard. We expect it to be hard at times.

We do all of this also KNOWING that it’s worth it in the end.

Because you don’t settle

You don’t succumb to the force of average.

You don’t want to live a mediocre life.

You don’t want to have regrets on your death bed.

You are on this mission because it’s how you live your best life.

Picture what your victorious life will look like in 20 years from now.

We can do this together.

Have a great week.

Rooting for you,

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn