Dumped and in a Dark Place

It can seem like no matter what you do you aren’t any closer to meeting the right person or having the relationship you want.

The endless bad dates are demoralizing.

It doesn’t seem to matter how hard you try it always feel like your back at square one.

Your love life is different than other areas of your life.

In most other areas you can make gradual progress.

It’s easier to feel like your making progress in your career because the path to success is one step at a time.

You get a degree.  You get a job. You get a promotion.  You get a better job with more responsibility.

You usually know when you are on the right track.

With your love life you almost never know if you are on the right track.

In baseball terms……

In other areas of your life you generally hit singles over and over again to be successful.

Dating is different.

When it comes to Finding the right person and creating a great relationship , you are either striking out or you hit a home run.

There is usually no in between.  You usually aren’t hitting singles.

Your dates aren’t consistently getting better.

The people you’re connecting with online aren’t getting closer and closer to what you are looking for.

You are striking out a LARGE MAJORITY of the time.

This is what makes dating so hard.

You are either 100% right or 100% wrong with the person you’re dating.

and unless you get lucky you are going to be 100% wrong for a certain time period until you meet that exact right person.

It’s easy to get hopeless and quit as a result of these “strikeouts”

It’s critical to learn to cope when you are meeting people who are 100% wrong for you.  When you are striking out.

It doesn’t mean it won’t happen for you as long as you continue to step up to bat and continually work on what you’re doing.

Here is a message we just received from a client who was striking out BIGLY until she hit the home run she was looking for.

If you want to learn more about how our client went from getting dumped and being in a dark place to being in a relationship with a man who loves her more than the sun, click on the link at the end of this message, fill out the quick form, and tell us what’s been happening in your love life.

If it seems like a fit, we’ll reach out to you to schedule a chat.

We will also send you a training PROVING how just a few small but important changes can help you meet the right man too.


Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn