What is the best first date conversation to have?
On a first date, if someone asked you to describe yourself in 5 words, what would they be?
Usually, the most BORING, INSIGNIFICANT, and run of the mill words come to mind…
And BLAH BLAH BLAH.
How can you expect to have chemistry with ANY guy when you describe yourself as a roommate?
Most of the people that choose to come to work with us have ZERO idea how to talk about themselves.
They have no clue about the kind of first date conversation that CREATES attraction.
Do you want to know the craziest part?
The women we are fortunate to call clients are INCREDIBLE.
They have the depth of the ocean.
Hearts of gold.
And the list goes on and on (but, of course, we are not going to write your profile for you here!)
We all have many parts to us.
The trick to being successful in dating is to know EXACTLY what authentic parts of you your ideal man needs to see.
The hardest part about this is that your ideal man needs to see these parts of you in a matter of seconds or minutes, not five months down the line.
Nobody is getting to know the real you on a first date.
They are getting to know a small sliver of the you that you are expressing in that moment.
To really connect with the right guy, it’s critical for you to be able to communicate specific aspects of who you are to him.
It’s best to avoid all the boring pre-scripted questions and answers we all use.
There is another way and guess what? It’s a lot more fun to do it this way.
You have an inner goddess that is bursting at the seams to get out.
The unique, quirky incredible parts of you are probably trapped in the confusion of modern day dating.
The worst part about that?
If that is the case, you are likely EITHER…
Going on a ton of dates but feeling hardly any chemistry with anyone you meet.
Sitting at home not going on any dates keeping your amazingness to yourself.
Do either of those scenarios work for you?
If not, you are missing out on mind blowing, bed rattling chemistry with the man you could spend the rest of your life with.