“How can I be what he wants?”

A single, beautiful, successful woman asked us “How can I be what he wants?” and here was our answer…

You could easily follow the random tips and strategies out there to turn yourself into what the media says that a man wants.…..

Lose weight

Try more night cream

Become a siren (what does that mean?)

Change your hair

Change your face

Don’t talk about what you want when you meet a man

Buy a push up bra

Don’t call a guy you really like for at least three days

You could do some of these things and maybe you might get a different result.

Most likely not.

Here’s why.

You want to attract a man that will fall in love with the REAL YOU.

If this goes down any other way, the man that you want to attract will fall in love with the idea of who you are presenting to be.

One day, when the real you shows up, he will likely disappear pretty quickly.

In order for a man to want to commit to you long term, he has to be able to envision a future with you.

If you aren’t showing up as the real you, he won’t be able to imagine a future with you.

What this really means is that if you stay in a cycle of being something you are clearly not, you will continuously watch the men you really want walk out of your life over and over again.

There is nothing worse than knowing you had a chance with someone, but getting confused by all the random advice out there and forgetting to be yourself.

It’s not fair.

AND it won’t get you what you want.

We show our clients how to be the prize.

If you want to figure out if you’re showing up as the real you, let’s talk:


Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn