How to Get Your Partner’s Undivided Attention Today

Today you are going to learn how to get your partner focused on YOU.

Yes, that’s right…… I know it sounds impossible but just keep reading and you can believe us later

Now, we are going to share with you part of Section: 8 Spotlight Texts – Getting Your Partner’s Undivided Attention from the Passionate Communication Program

If you have been with your partner for some time, you probably text about who is going to pick up the groceries on the way home or drop the dry cleaning off on the way to work. Texting often becomes a virtual to do list and the unfortunate part is that we are so attached to our cell phones that we can easily get overwhelmed by the growing number of tasks that somehow accumulate through our cell phones and text messages.

Imagine yourself going about your normal day-to-day activities, whether that is going to work, school, or taking care of the kids. Everything in your day seems to be going wrong. You spill your delicious latte all over you and, damn, you really could have used that caffeine because you couldn’t sleep last night because you were worrying about all the stupid crap you had to do today. You are running late on basically everything.

Just when you think things couldn’t get any worse, you get a text from your partner saying “You are so…”. A smirk rolls across your face just thinking about how good it feels to be acknowledged and paid attention to during your crappy day. Now you are curious, so you reply “I am so what?” Your partner responds, “You are so amazing in every way.”

Your partner just put a spotlight on you and damn that feels so good! Suddenly, this day perked up and things don’t seem so dour. As the laws of reciprocation go the more you send Spotlight Texts to your partner, the more likely they will be to send Spotlight Texts to you!

In its most basic form, a Spotlight Text is a brief attention grabber that you send to your partner at a random time during the day in order to catch them off guard and get them intrigued about how you intend to finish the sentence.

The best part is that Spotlight Texts are ridiculously hard to ignore because they are so enticing that your partner will not be able to handle the thought of you not finishing your sentence!

The goal is to draw your partner in with a short, incomplete text followed by a “…” (whichis called an ellipsis for all you English geeks out there)

Here are some Examples:

a. “I was thinking…

b. “You are so…

c. “I can’t stop thinking about…

d. “If we were together right now, I would…

e. “I want to…

f. “I can’t believe…

g. “If you only knew how much I…

After your initial Spotlight Text, you can decide what to send next depending on your partner’s response. Often a follow up Honeymoon Text or Passion Text is perfect to send to keep the sexy and flirty textersation going.

 

Say Yes to Love,

Dr. Michael Arn & Dr. Ashley Arn