Keep it Simple to Succeed


We had a great President’s Day weekend here in Sonoma.  The weather was beautiful here Saturday, so we went to two wineries.

We went as  a family (we brought our son Mason).  Many of the wineries here are family friendly and are fascinating to a 4 year old.

One of the wineries, Jacuzzi, also has olive oil and vinegar tasting.  We ended up buying Chocolate Balsamic Vinegar.  Yum it’s so good.

We wanted to have a relaxing yet pleasurable weekend.  We decided to keep it simple to do that.

You want to do the same thing in your love life.

Most people OVERCOMPLICATE their love life.

They overcomplicate how they are dating.

They are continually ADDING things to do to find love.

They are joining new sites or apps.

They are reading new relationship articles.

They are asking their friends and family for advice.

They are trying multiple strategies to find love.

They are changing their hair or outfits.

They are trying new ways of flirting and communicating.

None of these things are bad in and of themselves.


The key to finding love with the right guy for you is SIMPLIFICATION.

Trying everything produces terrible results.

Overcomplicating the dating process only leads to you being stuck in the forever single cycle and feeling frustrated and bad about yourself.

You don’t need to ADD new things to do in your dating life.

If you’re like most people, you need to SUBTRACT things in your dating life.

To find success, you want to find a simple system to follow and FOCUS on only that.

Focusing on a simple system is one of the biggest factors in the success our clients get in working with us.

Our clients are busy and have other major priorities in life.  They don’t have the time or energy to devote endless hours to dating.

That’s okay.

As long as you simplify your dating life and know exactly what works and doesn’t work.

When you follow our system, you shut out all the noise.

You stop reading dating books, dating articles and blogs.

You stop running around “TRYING” something that may or may not work.

You ALWAYS know what to do next and feel confident that you are on the right track.

If you haven’t yet watched our free masterclass on how you can stop dating the wrong men and find the one go here:

If you are ready to simplify your dating life so that you can find love once and for all, book a free Single to Soul Mates Session with us.

On the call we will discover if we are a good fit to work together and we will tell you how we can help you specifically:

The simplifiers,

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn