Love Compatibility – Are you settling for the wrong guy?

100000540-_145When we were in New York, we used Airbnb to rent an apartment for over a week.  Online the apartment looked great.  In the pictures it looked clean, modern and like it had quite a bit of room (for Manhattan).

We were very excited about staying there for an extended period of time.  We booked the place about two months in advance.  We were fantasizing about our great place in New York for several months, building it up in our minds.

The day we showed up to the apartment was a disaster.

When we got there, the apartment looked a lot different than the pictures online.  It wasn’t clean.  It didn’t have a lot of room.  It wasn’t modern and had older looking appliances and furnishings.  We had been apartment catfish’d

Not only that.  The woman renting the place told us that if anyone knocked on the door to pretend we were her friends visiting town.  Oh and she’d be stopping by for hours at a time during the day.

She went on to tell us she wasn’t supposed to be renting out her apartment.  She could get in trouble if people knew she was renting it out, so we couldn’t let anyone know this.  She had to be there during the day so that people believed she lived there.

Wow.  Months of dreams of luxury New York living down the drain.

We quickly got out of there and got a refund.  We chose to stay at the New York Marriott Marquis last minute because we knew what we were getting there.  We went on to have a great New York visit, but it started off bad.

In dating you can definitely get catfish’d too.

It can happen in many ways too.

It’s not always obvious at first.  Sure, sometimes your date looks completely different then their online profile.  These guys are easy to spot right away.

The real danger is in someone who is somewhat of a good match for you.  The guy who has a number of qualities you are looking for, but who you have questions about whether he is the one for you or not.

You might be dating him for months or even years.

Is he the one for you?

Are you two compatible long term?

Are you settling?

We’ve all had these questions pop up when dating someone.

How do you REALLY know if the man your dating is the right one for you long term?

That’s where we come in.  We’ve studied dating, love and long term compatibility for many years.

We know there are about 30 qualities that are important for long term compatibility.

Some are more or less important to you based on your personality and lifestyle.

Even better, we’ve identified 7 qualities that are the most crucial for long term compatibility.  7 qualities that are necessary to create a lasting relationship full of love and passion.

If you are a member Single to Soul Mates University we have a new training for you.  In this training, we teach you about the 7 most important qualities to relationship compatibility.  This is one of the most important elements to get right in dating so go listen to the training now.

If you haven’t joined Single to Soul Mates University yet, now is the time.  Grab yourself this new training on compatibility.


Say yes to love,

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn