And how you can get moving in the right direction.
He thought be might be stuck here FOREVER.
Michael went to college in Florida even though he’s a die hard Wisconsinite for life.
One day his friends took him out into the “sticks” of Florida.
They had a great time fishing and camping. The kind of fun you can only have when you’re FAR AWAY from civilized society.
When it came time to leave, they packed their truck and started to drive back to the city.
Out of NOWHERE the truck sunk into the mud.
The truck WAS NOT moving.
Michael stepped on the gas and NOTHING happened.
Sure a lot of mud flew in the air but there was NO movement.
Michael and his friends got out of the truck and tried to push it forward with all the force they could muster.
They got back in the truck and tried to go forward again.
Not only did they not get out, they sunk DEEPER into the mud.
Their frustration grew, and they feared the worst. Maybe they’d be stuck here FOREVER.
Does this happen to you in dating?
You’re putting all this effort to try and meet the right guy.
Into trying to get unstuck from dating men who are all wrong for you.
And no matter how hard you try nothing happens.
Worse – you feel like you’re in a deeper hole than you were to begin with.
What do you do when you’re stuck like this and nothing is happening?
Michael and is friends took some deep breathes and realized they’d have to rock back and forth to move forward.
The direct path forward doesn’t work when you are stuck. They had to go back a little. They went back and forth several times and all of a sudden the truck went forward.
They got out and were able to drive home.
This is what we need to do in dating as well. Often the obvious path forward isn’t the way to go and will only keep you stuck where you are.
You may have to put it in reverse and then go forward.
Every fiber in your body will fight doing this because it’s counter intuitive, but IT WORKS.
In our Meet the Man You Want Bootcamp, we will take you by the hand and help you do this.
It’s hard to do it on your own because it feels so counter intuitive.
If nothing is happening when it comes to dating and you want to get unstuck we can help you GET OUT and moving in the direction you want.
It almost always takes way less time and effort than you think, especially when you’re using the best strategies in the world.
BUT it does require COURAGE to be uncomfortable and do something different.
That’s the hardest part.
That’s why most people will remain stuck.
Rooting for you,