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Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

Is he leaving you bread crumbs?

Aahhhh today we are going to talk with you about one of the most insidious Forever Single Dating Patterns. The Bread Crumbing Dating Pattern…. This is when a guy gives you just enough attention, love, affection or communication to leave you wanting more. Just enough to get you to stay..…

Sex is Just an Excuse to Cuddle says Study…..

Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

Four Friday Favorites – You May Want to Marry My Husband

Here is your weekly mashup of Four Friday Favorites, the best of the things we here at Date to Soul Mate are reading, thinking about, watching, listening to, and pondering. Articles we enjoyed – One of the best most touching articles we’ve ever read. Don’t read unless you’re ready for…

You May Want to Marry My Husband

You May Want to Marry My Husband
Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

Are you the scheduler?

Self-awareness is one of the key ingredients to success in love. You have to know what’s best for you. WHO is best for you. You also need to know HOW you’ve sabotaged yourself in the past. It’s not a questions of IF you’ve sabotaged yourself. We’ve ALL sabotaged ourselves in love.…

How to Stop Work Stress From Ruining Your Marriage

How to Stop Work Stress From Ruining Your Marriage
Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

I Promise to Give All of My Heart to My Next Lover

I Promise to Give All of My Heart to My Next Lover
Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

Loneliness and Social Isolation are Killing Us

Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

The Gender Orgasm Gap

Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

Being More “Selfish” Is the Best Decision I’ve Made in Dating

Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

Why Did You Cheat? – Watch Ex’s Talk about His Infidelity

Why Did You Cheat? – Watch Ex’s Talk about His Infidelity
Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

Married People Experience LESS STRESS study finds…..

Married People Experience LESS STRESS study finds…..
Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

Live your goals Now – 5 Minute Monday Mindfulness & Meditation

Live your goals Now – 5 Minute Monday Mindfulness & Meditation
It’s MOOOONNDDDAAAYYYY. This might be a great thing for you or quite the opposite. We love Mondays. One of the best things you can do for yourself is to start your week off right. That’s why we send you our 5 Minute Monday Mindfulness and Meditation. It’s the ulimate mind/body…

NOVEL & AROUSING Shared Activities Help you Beat Relationship Boredom

NOVEL & AROUSING Shared Activities Help you Beat Relationship Boredom
Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

Straight Women are Barely Having Orgasms

Straight Women are Barely Having Orgasms
Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

Breadcrumbing is for Losers

Breadcrumbing is for Losers
Attract The Man You Want in 5 Simple Steps In this Free Online Training Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn will teach you how to end the FOREVER SINGLE DATING PATTERNS..... AND The ONE SHIFT that will lead you to capture the attention of available and desirable men and allow…

The Romantic Movie Love Dating Pattern

The Romantic Movie Love Dating Pattern
It’s been a sick few days over here at the Dr. Arn household.  Mason and Michael are still feeling the sick wrath. Meanwhile, Ashley has been able to escape the sick monster so far. (Although she’s had to put up with two sick men which might be worse than ACTUALLY…

The crazy chemistry dating pattern

How is your week going? We’ve been killing it despite Michael and Mason both being sickos this week.  We’ve been doing some amazing work with our students in our Live Workshop and in Single to Soul Mates University. The insights and transformations we’ve been seeing are inspirational. When you work…

don’t look for love online if……

aaahhhh… the age old question (at least since 1995). Should you look for love online or on an app? Many of you HATE the current incarnation of dating. You LOATHE online dating. You wish you could serendipitously spill your coffee on your Mr. Right at Starbucks and have him pursue…

Keep it Simple to Succeed

Keep it Simple to Succeed
We had a great President’s Day weekend here in Sonoma.  The weather was beautiful here Saturday, so we went to two wineries. We went as  a family (we brought our son Mason).  Many of the wineries here are family friendly and are fascinating to a 4 year old. One of…

How to Command Attention from High Caliber Men

How to Command Attention from High Caliber Men
When you are stuck in the forever single cycle, one of the biggest shifts you can make is to start COMMANDING ATTENTION FROM HIGH CALIBER MEN. Most women ARE NOT commanding attention from the right guys. You might find yourself either not commanding any attention from guys….. or Commanding attention…

A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.
We know a secret that Batwoman used to meet, attract and fall in love with Batman. You see, for years she was single and dating THE WRONG GUYS. She read books, articles and talked to her friends for YEARS about what she could do differently to find the right guy…

Valentine’s Day Sucks.

It is the most hated “holiday” for people who are single and for a great reason. If you are like most people who are single this time of year, you find yourself reflecting on what has happened and why you are single on this day. You are probably blaming yourself,…

How to Get a Guy’s Attention and have Him Pursue YOU

We are going on a Ski trip to Big Bear Mountain this weekend with our family.  Our son Mason is so excited.  He doesn’t care much about the skiing, but can’t wait to throw snowballs at Michael. He looks so cute in his puffy ski outfit. Many of you have told…

How Ann found love in 5 weeks

We just interviewed one of our students named Ann who found love with an amazing guy in just 5 weeks in our Single to Soul Mates Live Workshop. It almost sounds too good to be true…. Except it actually happened. Before working with us, Ann was dating A LOT. She…

3 Ways be Yourself when you like a Guy

Howdy yall, Yesterday in our Live Workshop group coaching call we talked about how to be your best authentic self when you like a guy. See, many of our clients have struggled with attracting the guys they’re not into like bee’s to honey and were unknowingly pushing away guys they…