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Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

The Wrong Mindset – The worst question you can ask yourself!

Don’t let the wrong mindset stop your success or growth in their tracks. We love helping people transform their lives. It’s the reason we became Psychologists. It’s the reason we spent hundreds of thousands of dollars in education to learn from the best in the world of Psychology, Dating, Communication…

Making the First Move – Good Idea or Bad Idea?

We just found a new house in our little wine town of Sonoma, CA. We are excited and gearing up for the move. It has a great kitchen that Ashley is excited to create in and has great walkability for Michael to “walk and think”. It’s exciting yet nerve racking…

Are you dating other people?

Are you dating other people?
  Are you Dating other People? – The Date to Soul Mate Show Hey there, We are enjoying the beautiful weather here in Sonoma, CA.  We also have great wine here toooooooo..    Yay! We’ve been going for long walks and have a fitbit competition with some friends of ours.…

MLK is like WTF!

Happy MLK day! Today is the perfect day to reflect on your dreams. MLK was a dreamer AND took action to realize his greatest aspirations. If he knew most of us give up on our dreams so easily he would be like WTF! Think about what he faced in his…

#1 Way to have BAD dates

We are having a monsoon here in Northern California.  Flooding and constant rain. We love the rain.  Maybe it’s because we don’t see that much of it here in California…. Let’s get right to the point today. Most of the time, your dates suck. The guys seems WAY OFF from…

Wasting your time online dating?

Are you spending lots of time and energy dating the wrong guys from an online dating site? Maybe you aren’t dating ANY guys. You’re wasting your time sifting through endless profiles and not going out on actual dates. Today we are going to give one of you our feedback on…

Albert Einstein’s secret to finding love

Most of us have our own idea of what INSANITY is. Maybe it’s the homeless guy preaching to pigeons on the street. Maybe it’s people who jump out of planes “for FUN.” Or maybe it’s just running a marathon. Whatever your view of insanity is…it does have a definition. Insanity…

You’ve just been shot…now what?

If you got SHOT what would you do? You would go to the ER. No questions asked. No other ideas would come to mind. You got shot. You NEED to get medical attention. What’s this got to do with FINDING LOVE? Well it’s unlikely that you treat your dating and…

Stop Dating the Wrong Men and Find the One for YOU!

Stop Dating the Wrong Men and Find the One for YOU!
No more bad dates, Confusion, Worry or Heartache. You can Find, Attract and Deeply Connect with the Right Relationship Ready Man for You so he’ll Do Almost Anything to Commit to YOU. Stephanie is intelligent, kind and good person. She worked really hard to build a bustling career for herself.…

You can be a special snowflake

You can be a special snowflake
Dr. Sad McSaderson is THE WORLDS FOREMOST EXPERT IN UNHAPPINESS. He has studied how to be unhappy for decades and is a renowned teacher in the art of unhappiness. If you want to be exceedingly unhappy look no further than the exquisite teachings of Dr. Mcsaderson! If you would rather become…

Potential boyfriend or just friends?

Let’s rap on a question from one of you today… Question: So…I met this guy…Well he re-entered my life. I’ve know him ever since I can remember. But, he is re-entering my life as a potential boyfriend. I’m having a hard time knowing how to act towards him. I don’t…

Naked Cowboy teaches us some Skillz

You can learn a lesson from almost anyone right? A few months ago, we were in Manhattan for several weeks. We were there as a family. We took our son to see School of Rock which he loved. His first time on broadway was a hit for sure. We walked…

Broken promises….

Broken promises will be the death of your self esteem and your future relationship. You are part of this group because you are 100% certain that you need to figure out how to find love and you haven’t been able to do it on your own. You know that you…

Where are you stuck?

Where are you stuck?
Many of the clients we work with in our live workshop are stuck in meeting the wrong guys. They are DOING all sorts of things to meet men. They are online dating. Meeting men offline. Speed dating. Hiking dating. Some of you are not meeting ANY MEN. You feel stuck…

Is Russia Hacking Your Dates?

Is Russia Hacking Your Dates?
We are sure you’ve heard the news. Russia may or may not have hacked into the democrats emails to get the Trumpster elected. If you are a republican you are saying there is no way Russia did this. If you are a  democrat you are YELLING that Vladimir Putin did…

Your Last Christmas Alone

Your Last Christmas Alone
Take a moment to think about where you are really at in your dating life. Be honest with yourself. Are you stuck? Miserable? Not sure what to do next? Wake up every day wishing you were in His arms? What would Christmas look like this year if this man was…

What if a guy has a creep finger?

Happy Sunday, Today one of you beauts has found yourself in an “interesting” situation. Here is the question…. “should i ignore my feelings? I just met a man who seemed really nice, good looking and we were hitting it off. I was interested in meeting him again just for a…

Warning: Don’t be Here when I get Back Up!

Warning: Don’t be Here when I get Back Up!
Relationships REALLY SUCK sometimes. You put yourself out there.  You make the effort.  You persist. You meet guys offline.  You meet guys online. You go out on dates. You meet guys.  You flirt. You get your hair done. You dress up and look your best. You put yourself in a great…

Are You a Perfectionist or a Scaredy Cat?

Are You a Perfectionist or a Scaredy Cat?
Many of you are ambitious professionals. You have a good education.  You have a respected job.  You excel in number of areas of life. You like things the way that you like them.  You want to do a great job at whatever you do. You may call yourself a perfectionist.…

Does Santa Clause have Commitment Issues?

Over the weekend we saw Santa Clause in our little hometown of Sonoma, CA. Our son Mason has been anticipating the big red’s arrival for weeks.   You could see the excitement written all over his face. Mason talked endlessly about what he was going to tell Santa he wanted…

Fear. Freedom. Power.

Fear. Freedom. Power.
Fear. Freedom. Power. These are three of the most powerful MOTIVATORS behind all the actions people take. Think about it. Most of the things you want in this life have to do with one of the above. Fear. You are afraid that you will never find the love you want and deserve.…

Your Mind isn’t Wired for Happiness and a Great Relationship

Your Mind isn’t Wired for Happiness and a Great Relationship
You have to learn how to fight against your natural wiring. APPLY FOR A FREE ATTRACT THE MAN YOU WANT PERSONALIZED BLUEPRINT! If you are ready to get out of the dating game once and for all, then NOW IS THE TIME to fill out an application for a FREE…

When Life Flips You the Bird!

Do you know It took Leonardo da Vinci 10 YEARS to paint Mona Lisa’s lips. You might feel frustrated that you haven’t found the right guy yet. Hell, you might just be wondering whether there is even a good-ish guy out there for you. The dating game can knock you…

What’s Your Winning System?

It’s almost Thanksgiving! Are you still recovering from the big ole election. Wow things are crazy right now right? No matter who you voted for, it feels like things are chaotic. It feels like a lot is out of your control. We are here to bring you some good news.…

The 5 Biggest Mistakes Most Women Make with The Right Guys

Every day we talk to women who are making some simple mistakes with the right guys. It sucks because these women are incredible! Smart, successful, kind, and good people! But, they are doing a couple of small things that are driving away the kind of men they would really like…

What if you DON’T do something?

What if you DON’T do something?
We want you to take a quick second to take a little journey with us… Let’s imagine for a second your life is going to stay the SAME. You’ll make the SAME amount of money. You’ll have the SAME relationships. Most of all, you’ll have the SAME PROBLEMS in love.…