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Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael

Is he leaving you bread crumbs?

Aahhhh today we are going to talk with you about one of the most insidious Forever Single Dating Patterns. The Bread Crumbing Dating Pattern…. This is when a guy gives you just enough attention, love, affection or communication to leave you wanting more. Just enough to get you to stay.. To keep dating him… To stay in the relationship… He is leaving bread crumbs for you to continue following the path with him. He never fully meets your needs. Not…

Four Friday Favorites – You May Want to Marry My Husband

Here is your weekly mashup of Four Friday Favorites, the best of the things we here at Date to Soul Mate are reading, thinking about, watching, listening to, and pondering. Articles we enjoyed – One of the best most touching articles we’ve ever read. Don’t read unless you’re ready for some tears. It’s about a woman dying of cancer who writes her husbands future dating profile for him. YOU MAY WANT TO MARRY MY HUSBAND You May Want to Marry…

Are you the scheduler?

Self-awareness is one of the key ingredients to success in love. You have to know what’s best for you. WHO is best for you. You also need to know HOW you’ve sabotaged yourself in the past. It’s not a questions of IF you’ve sabotaged yourself. We’ve ALL sabotaged ourselves in love. ALL of us. Some of us have done a lot of it. Some have done a little here and there. Sometimes it’s not enough to end a relationship or prevent…

She Left Him After FINALLY Listening to Her Gut and The Voice Inside

Have you ever stayed with a guy who you KNEW was wrong for you? Most of us have! You have had that feeling in your gut that he is not right for you. That you two aren’t compatible…. That he doesn’t treat you the way your MAN would treat you. But something STOPS you from leaving. Something prevents you from ending it and moving on. Could be comfort… Could be your share friends or the expectations of others.. Could be…
Live your goals Now – 5 Minute Monday Mindfulness & Meditation

Live your goals Now – 5 Minute Monday Mindfulness & Meditation

It’s MOOOONNDDDAAAYYYY. This might be a great thing for you or quite the opposite. We love Mondays. One of the best things you can do for yourself is to start your week off right. That’s why we send you our 5 Minute Monday Mindfulness and Meditation. It’s the ulimate mind/body exercise for busy people who hate mindfulness and meditation. It is what will help you create an unbeatable mindset and make this a killer week. Here is this weeks 5…
The Romantic Movie Love Dating Pattern

The Romantic Movie Love Dating Pattern

It’s been a sick few days over here at the Dr. Arn household.  Mason and Michael are still feeling the sick wrath. Meanwhile, Ashley has been able to escape the sick monster so far. (Although she’s had to put up with two sick men which might be worse than ACTUALLY being sick)…… We read an interesting article yesterday…. It was about the rise of VEGAN Dating Sites.  Yes, Vegans are being matched on their own dating sites. Click here to…

The crazy chemistry dating pattern

How is your week going? We’ve been killing it despite Michael and Mason both being sickos this week.  We’ve been doing some amazing work with our students in our Live Workshop and in Single to Soul Mates University. The insights and transformations we’ve been seeing are inspirational. When you work with thousands of clients you observe certain patterns. Some are success patterns… Others are what we call forever single dating patterns… Many of the clients we work with come to…

don’t look for love online if……

aaahhhh… the age old question (at least since 1995). Should you look for love online or on an app? Many of you HATE the current incarnation of dating. You LOATHE online dating. You wish you could serendipitously spill your coffee on your Mr. Right at Starbucks and have him pursue a relationship with you. Many of you LOVE online dating. You think it’s the best thing since Brad Pitt in Legends of the Fall.(oh such a good yet cheesy movie).…
Keep it Simple to Succeed

Keep it Simple to Succeed

We had a great President’s Day weekend here in Sonoma.  The weather was beautiful here Saturday, so we went to two wineries. We went as  a family (we brought our son Mason).  Many of the wineries here are family friendly and are fascinating to a 4 year old. One of the wineries, Jacuzzi, also has olive oil and vinegar tasting.  We ended up buying Chocolate Balsamic Vinegar.  Yum it’s so good. We wanted to have a relaxing yet pleasurable weekend.…
How to Command Attention from High Caliber Men

How to Command Attention from High Caliber Men

When you are stuck in the forever single cycle, one of the biggest shifts you can make is to start COMMANDING ATTENTION FROM HIGH CALIBER MEN. Most women ARE NOT commanding attention from the right guys. You might find yourself either not commanding any attention from guys….. or Commanding attention from THE WRONG GUYS. Both feel bad right? If you want to meet the kind of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want to…
A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

A secret Batwoman used to find love with Batman.

We know a secret that Batwoman used to meet, attract and fall in love with Batman. You see, for years she was single and dating THE WRONG GUYS. She read books, articles and talked to her friends for YEARS about what she could do differently to find the right guy for her once and for all. None of it worked. No matter what she did she ended up frustrated, hurt and SINGLE. This messed with her self-esteem.  She felt bad…

Valentine’s Day Sucks.

It is the most hated “holiday” for people who are single and for a great reason. If you are like most people who are single this time of year, you find yourself reflecting on what has happened and why you are single on this day. You are probably blaming yourself, telling yourself you have done something wrong and you might even be thinking that you aren’t worthy of having the kind of love you see all around you. Here’s the…

How to Get a Guy’s Attention and have Him Pursue YOU

We are going on a Ski trip to Big Bear Mountain this weekend with our family.  Our son Mason is so excited.  He doesn’t care much about the skiing, but can’t wait to throw snowballs at Michael. He looks so cute in his puffy ski outfit. Many of you have told us about a problem you are having…. You have no clue How to get a guy’s attention… But not just any guy. You want the attention of High Caliber men.…
Guided Meditation – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation “Say Yes and Figure Out How”

Guided Meditation – 5 Minute Mindfulness & Meditation “Say Yes and Figure Out How”

Today’s 5 Minute Mindfulness and Guided Meditation is all about Saying Yes. Most of us try to figure out how to do something before we commit to doing it. We want to KNOW the exact steps to go from where we are now to where we want to go BEFORE we commit to doing it. We don’t give ourselves permission to really commit to something until we have the certainty about HOW we’ll do it. You want to know HOW…
Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show

Finding Lasting Love – The First Shift – The Date to Soul Mate Show

How is your week going? How are your New Years resolutions going? For most people, they are starting to give up on their goals for 2017 already. They are almost ready to throw in the towel and “try again” next year. We don’t want that for you when it comes to finding lasting love. We want you to find love THIS YEAR. Yesterday we did a LIVE Date to Soul Mate Show in our free facebook group… Mastering Dating &…