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MLK is like WTF!

Happy MLK day! Today is the perfect day to reflect on your dreams. MLK was a dreamer AND took action to realize his greatest aspirations. If he knew most of us give up on our dreams so easily he would be like WTF! Think about what he faced in his lifetime. Constant rejection of his ideas. Relentless opposition. Received never ending death threats and threats of bodily harm. He was taking action every day to move his aspirations forward and…

#1 Way to have BAD dates

We are having a monsoon here in Northern California.  Flooding and constant rain. We love the rain.  Maybe it’s because we don’t see that much of it here in California…. Let’s get right to the point today. Most of the time, your dates suck. The guys seems WAY OFF from what you are looking for… He shows up late…. He flakes last minute or doesn’t show up at all… He’s a douche…. He doesn’t look anything like his online photos……

Wasting your time online dating?

Are you spending lots of time and energy dating the wrong guys from an online dating site? Maybe you aren’t dating ANY guys. You’re wasting your time sifting through endless profiles and not going out on actual dates. Today we are going to give one of you our feedback on your online profile. She sent us her plentyoffish.com profile to review. We’ve looked at thousands of online dating profiles, so we really know what WORKS and what doesn’t work. Little…

Albert Einstein’s secret to finding love

Most of us have our own idea of what INSANITY is. Maybe it’s the homeless guy preaching to pigeons on the street. Maybe it’s people who jump out of planes “for FUN.” Or maybe it’s just running a marathon. Whatever your view of insanity is…it does have a definition. Insanity has been defined as “doing the SAME THING over and over again AND expecting different results.” A pretty smart guy said that: Albert Einstein. By his definition insanity would be…
Stop Dating the Wrong Men and Find the One for YOU!

Stop Dating the Wrong Men and Find the One for YOU!

No more bad dates, Confusion, Worry or Heartache. You can Find, Attract and Deeply Connect with the Right Relationship Ready Man for You so he’ll Do Almost Anything to Commit to YOU. Stephanie is intelligent, kind and good person. She worked really hard to build a bustling career for herself. She has great friends and a fun social life. She is happy with who she is and her life. She is definitely not perfect, but no one is. She still…
You can be a special snowflake

You can be a special snowflake

Dr. Sad McSaderson is THE WORLDS FOREMOST EXPERT IN UNHAPPINESS. He has studied how to be unhappy for decades and is a renowned teacher in the art of unhappiness. If you want to be exceedingly unhappy look no further than the exquisite teachings of Dr. Mcsaderson! If you would rather become an Un-unhappiness expert, you may want to just notice if you’re using any of these strategies and how they are impacting your life. The special snowflake: In today’s lesson you…

Potential boyfriend or just friends?

Let’s rap on a question from one of you today… Question: So…I met this guy…Well he re-entered my life. I’ve know him ever since I can remember. But, he is re-entering my life as a potential boyfriend. I’m having a hard time knowing how to act towards him. I don’t wanna come across as pushy. Guys like a chase. How much is too much? I don’t wanna come across as uninterested. I have a ton of questions! Dr. Ashley &…
Our holiday gift to you!

Our holiday gift to you!

The very first step to finding the love of your life is checking where your stories are at. Most women make the mistake of trying 5 million different things to find that one “magic trick” that is going to help them find love. They read books and blogs. They try dating sites for short bursts of time. They get discouraged with online dating and feel burned out. They take a hiatus from dating and tell themselves they just need to…

Naked Cowboy teaches us some Skillz

You can learn a lesson from almost anyone right? A few months ago, we were in Manhattan for several weeks. We were there as a family. We took our son to see School of Rock which he loved. His first time on broadway was a hit for sure. We walked all over central park and ate our way through New York. We also saw the Naked Cowboy. He is a famous street performer in Times Square. He isn’t really naked.…

Broken promises….

Broken promises will be the death of your self esteem and your future relationship. You are part of this group because you are 100% certain that you need to figure out how to find love and you haven’t been able to do it on your own. You know that you want it and deserve it. So, why are you stuck in the broken promises cycle? You make a promise to yourself that finding love is going to me your number…

2016 Is Almost Over

Being single during the holidays absolutely sucks. No one to put up that fresh smelling pine tree with. No one to snuggle up to the fire with. No one to kiss under mistletoe. No one to attend holiday parties with. No special someone to receive beautiful, heartfelt gifts from. Being alone during the holidays is absolutely UNACCEPTABLE. Commit to yourself right now that you absolutely WILL NOT spend the 2017 holidays single. The best way to ensure that success is…
Where are you stuck?

Where are you stuck?

Many of the clients we work with in our live workshop are stuck in meeting the wrong guys. They are DOING all sorts of things to meet men. They are online dating. Meeting men offline. Speed dating. Hiking dating. Some of you are not meeting ANY MEN. You feel stuck in knowing where to meet men. The bad news is that this won’t change UNLESS you DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT. The saddest part is to see an amazing woman like you…
Is Russia Hacking Your Dates?

Is Russia Hacking Your Dates?

We are sure you’ve heard the news. Russia may or may not have hacked into the democrats emails to get the Trumpster elected. If you are a republican you are saying there is no way Russia did this. If you are a  democrat you are YELLING that Vladimir Putin did this intentionally to get his BFF elected president of the United States. Either way you are getting whipped up into a frenzy. Russia isn’t the only ones who can hack…
Your Last Christmas Alone

Your Last Christmas Alone

Take a moment to think about where you are really at in your dating life. Be honest with yourself. Are you stuck? Miserable? Not sure what to do next? Wake up every day wishing you were in His arms? What would Christmas look like this year if this man was by your side? Why do you think you don’t deserve to have that amazing man in your life? What is holding you back? Why aren’t you important enough to invest…

What if a guy has a creep finger?

Happy Sunday, Today one of you beauts has found yourself in an “interesting” situation. Here is the question…. “should i ignore my feelings? I just met a man who seemed really nice, good looking and we were hitting it off. I was interested in meeting him again just for a lunch date, and we were shaking hands and saying our goodbyes…when he rubbed his finger against my palm. To me that is such a sleazebag thing to do and i…

Success in Love comes from the Amount of times you stood up to the plate and swung.

Sure you have to have the right bat, the right muscles and the ability to read the situation, but you have to swing. Many times probably. Nothing can prepare you for dealing with and uncomfortable feelings of being at the plate and swing. No amount of thinking about it will get you there. You only learn from being in the situation and making mistakes From swinging again and again. Don’t expect Success from Actions you never took. www.meetarelationshipreadyman.com Say yes to…
Warning: Don’t be Here when I get Back Up!

Warning: Don’t be Here when I get Back Up!

Relationships REALLY SUCK sometimes. You put yourself out there.  You make the effort.  You persist. You meet guys offline.  You meet guys online. You go out on dates. You meet guys.  You flirt. You get your hair done. You dress up and look your best. You put yourself in a great emotional state.  You make interesting conversation. You really get to know these guys. The guys you’re attracted to aren’t relationship ready or don’t pay attention to you. The guys you…
Are You a Perfectionist or a Scaredy Cat?

Are You a Perfectionist or a Scaredy Cat?

Many of you are ambitious professionals. You have a good education.  You have a respected job.  You excel in number of areas of life. You like things the way that you like them.  You want to do a great job at whatever you do. You may call yourself a perfectionist. Being a perfectionist has some advantages.  It also has some disadvantages. In your career, it can help.  Sure it might cause you some stress or mental anguish but it helps you…

Does Santa Clause have Commitment Issues?

Over the weekend we saw Santa Clause in our little hometown of Sonoma, CA. Our son Mason has been anticipating the big red’s arrival for weeks.   You could see the excitement written all over his face. Mason talked endlessly about what he was going to tell Santa he wanted for Christmas.  This was a big part of seeing Santa for him. Santa had to know he wanted transformers, power rangers and trucks. He also told us he was going…
Fear. Freedom. Power.

Fear. Freedom. Power.

Fear. Freedom. Power. These are three of the most powerful MOTIVATORS behind all the actions people take. Think about it. Most of the things you want in this life have to do with one of the above. Fear. You are afraid that you will never find the love you want and deserve. You are AFRAID you’ll be single and lonely forever. You are afraid that you are unwanted and unloveable. You are afraid of failure. You are afraid of success. Freedom. You want…
Your Mind isn’t Wired for Happiness and a Great Relationship

Your Mind isn’t Wired for Happiness and a Great Relationship

You have to learn how to fight against your natural wiring. APPLY FOR A FREE ATTRACT THE MAN YOU WANT PERSONALIZED BLUEPRINT! If you are ready to get out of the dating game once and for all, then NOW IS THE TIME to fill out an application for a FREE Attract The Man You Want Personalized Blueprint with us. Apply NOW and If we are 100% CERTAIN we can help you based on your application, we will reach out to…
Red Flags in Dating – Signs You are Dating a Narcissist, Commitment Phobe, or Fixer Upper

Red Flags in Dating – Signs You are Dating a Narcissist, Commitment Phobe, or Fixer Upper

In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show we teach you the Biggest Red Flags in Dating to AVOID toxic men.  To identify Narcissists, Commitment Phobes and Fixer Uppers, Are you ready to meet a relationship ready man? Are you giving a ton of your energy and effort to putting yourself out there, but find that you seemingly always end up with a narcissist, fixer upper, or commitment phobe? Amazing women ask us every day how to find a relationship ready…

When Life Flips You the Bird!

Do you know It took Leonardo da Vinci 10 YEARS to paint Mona Lisa’s lips. You might feel frustrated that you haven’t found the right guy yet. Hell, you might just be wondering whether there is even a good-ish guy out there for you. The dating game can knock you on your a#ss. It can suck any positive feelings right out of you if you aren’t careful. At times it feels like life is flipping you the bird. Life is…

First-Ever Giveaway for Cyber Monday!

This is for 24hrs only! Today ONLY when you sign up for Single to Soul Mates University (STSMU), our most cutting edge, life changing, love advice every month, you can get these awesome bonuses worth $1,100! Bonus #1: You will also have access to one Q & A call for the Single to Soul Mates Elite Live Workshop (a $500 value!!).  You can ask Michael and I your pressing questions about dating LIVE! Bonus #2: We will give you feedback on your online dating profile so that it…

What’s Your Winning System?

It’s almost Thanksgiving! Are you still recovering from the big ole election. Wow things are crazy right now right? No matter who you voted for, it feels like things are chaotic. It feels like a lot is out of your control. We are here to bring you some good news. It’s different than the gloom and doom in your news or tee-vee’s. There is a lot that is in your control. No you can’t control what President Trump does! You…

The 5 Biggest Mistakes Most Women Make with The Right Guys

Every day we talk to women who are making some simple mistakes with the right guys. It sucks because these women are incredible! Smart, successful, kind, and good people! But, they are doing a couple of small things that are driving away the kind of men they would really like to share their lives with. After one or two dates, they aren’t hearing from the men that they wish would call again and give them another chance. We had the…
What if you DON’T do something?

What if you DON’T do something?

We want you to take a quick second to take a little journey with us… Let’s imagine for a second your life is going to stay the SAME. You’ll make the SAME amount of money. You’ll have the SAME relationships. Most of all, you’ll have the SAME PROBLEMS in love. You’ll STILL be single or miserable in a dead end relationship. You’ll STILL be going out on dates with narcissists, fixer-uppers and commitment phobes. You’ll STILL be meeting man-childs who…
A little Thank You…..

A little Thank You…..

We are so happy that you are part of our community!  We wanted to connect with you and provide you with an EXTRA level of support. First of all, thank you for believing in a unicorn!  Many of you haven’t seen or experienced a love life full of passion, fulfillment, and joy. We know that it can be hard to hold on to hope that it exists. BUT, you are certainly doing it because you are here taking this journey…
Why Love is Harder for the over achiever!

Why Love is Harder for the over achiever!

If you are reading this, we already know that you are an overachiever! Tricked you. Seriously though. Dating is tougher for people who are ambitious, driven, and tend to over achieve. You always earned good grades, you have never missed a deadline, and every time you “apply” yourself, you have gotten the result you wanted. Of course, that only applies to every other area of your life except your love life, only THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in your life. Most…