Are you pen pals or are you ACTUALLY dating?

There is a special kind of boiling frustration that engulfs you when a guy you met online continues to want to be message pals or text buddies.

The dreaded never ending messages.

He messages you over and over again.


He halfheartedly messages you every once in awhile.

All without ever asking you out on a REAL DATE.

The growing resentment inside of you explodes when he send you another “what’s up” message.

The worst part of it is you have NO CLUE what to do about it.

The so called “GOOROOS” have given you all kinds of conflicting advice.

You should NEVER ask a guy out.

Wait for him to pursue you.

He’s just not that into you.


Be more feminine.

Flirt with him.

Play hard to get

oh my the so called rules.

Well lucky for you we’ve never been ones to follow the rules.

You don’t have to either.

Especially when they don’t work.

In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show we teach you about our 3-2-1 Meet Strategy.

It’s how we teach our clients to smoothly transition from starting a conversation with a guy online or on an app to getting to a great first date.

It’s the best strategy IN THE WORLD to get from First message to First Date in our humble yet accurate opinion.

Yes we hear your inner naysayer YELLING it can’t be done. MEN ARE LAZY TODAY. THEY JUST WANT TO BE CASUAL. YOU CAN’T DO IT.

Never fear our little grasshopper, as we will teach you our wicked ways that have led thousands of women to a great first date.

If they can do it, so can you….

Go here to watch the show



Say yes to love,

Dr. Ashley and Michael Arn

If you would like to learn our wicked ways from us personally in our Single to Soul Mates Live Workshop book a free session with us to see if you qualify.

The workshop isn’t for just any grasshopper.

You won’t be allowed in if you…..

“are just looking for more information”

“want a magic bullet tactic to manipulate someone”

“believe in getting something for nothing – you have to work hard to find lasting love”

“aren’t open to our direct feedback on what you have to do differently to get results – yes you will need to make some changes in your approach to dating”

Go here to book a free session and to fill out a short application