Red Flags in Dating – Signs You are Dating a Narcissist, Commitment Phobe, or Fixer Upper

In today’s Date to Soul Mate Show we teach you the Biggest Red Flags in Dating to AVOID toxic men.  To identify Narcissists, Commitment Phobes and Fixer Uppers,

Are you ready to meet a relationship ready man?

Are you giving a ton of your energy and effort to putting yourself out there, but find that you seemingly always end up with a narcissist, fixer upper, or commitment phobe?

Amazing women ask us every day how to find a relationship ready man. To find a great guy you first have to identify the red flags in men who aren’t ready for a relationship.

Step number one is to stop hosting men in your life that aren’t relationship ready! Hosting means allowing this type of guy to infiltrate your life and your heart.

You want to be honest with yourself whether the issue you is attracting toxic men or hosting these men in your life after KNOWING they weren’t right for you or relationship ready.

Men who aren’t relationship ready typically fall into three categories: the narcissist, fixer upper, or commitment phobe.

It is extremely easy to get caught up with this kind of guy because they are great at creating chemistry with you.

When you are with this type of guy you might feel like the most important woman in the world. They’re very good at making you feel a certain attraction to them. You probably also feel like fireworks are constantly going off.

The sparks are flying and you are probably thinking about passionate, crazy…..(woah, hold the phone, don’t get too carried away).

They can establish a very deep connection and attraction with you very quickly.

It usually feels exciting and adventurous to be in their presence.

That’s why it’s difficult to avoid these kinds of guys, because they make you feel a certain sexiness, romance, and chemistry.

But, this kind of guy will never be your Mr. Right. This kind of guy isn’t happy with himself.

He will likely make choices that will hurt you. He may cheat, lie, or walk away.

All of that ends in heartache for you because you felt a connection and you know it was real. It was real. It just isn’t lasting.

Here’s how to spot men who are not relationship ready.

One of the tell tale signs you’re dating a Narcissist, Fixer-Upper or Commitment Phobe is misaligned…..

• Intentions
• Behaviors
• Results

If the person you are with isn’t doing what they are saying or saying what they are doing, you may want to consider discontinuing this relationship.

If wild fireworks go off every time you are together, that is also not a good sign.

Chemistry alone is trouble. Long lasting relationships are successful because two people share chemistry and compatibility.

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Red Flags in Dating – Signs You are Dating a Narcissist, Fixer Upper, or Commitment Phobe – The Date to Soul Mate Show EP 21

Say yes to love,

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn