What are the root causes of the Forever Single Dating Patterns?


Sarah came to us in a sweat of panic and debilitating confusion.

She knew she was stuck…

She was trapped in several of the forever single dating patterns…

She was excruciatingly aware that she was meeting guys who weren’t right for her.

She kept dating these guys who seemed right but were breadcrumbing her.

She was also meeting a gang of guys who were WAY off from what she was looking for.

She KNEW there was better guys out there…

Several of her friends and family members had gotten married to amazing men.

She even KNEW she had to do something different…..

She tried MANY different dating tips to break out of them…

Yet she remained stuck and totally confused.

She even started doubting her worth..

Was there something wrong with her?

Luckily Sarah, joined our Single to Soul Mates Live Workshop and we were able to identify the root causes of her forever single dating patterns.

If you haven’t heard us talk about the forever single dating patterns go watch this training to learn about them:


But Sarah was already painfully aware of the results she was getting with men.  She knew the patterns.

What we really had to help her do was to identify the root causes of WHY she was stuck in these patterns.

In our workshop, we went to work doing just that and we quickly discovered what was sabotaging her love relationships.

We call them HEART BARRIERS.

and here is the good news…

Heart Barriers are ALWAYS at the root cause of the Forever Single Dating Patterns and we know exactly how to identify and overcome them.

Your heart barriers are a result of your natural evolutionary wiring. You are wired for survival.  You aren’t wired for fulfillment, contentment and an amazing relationship.  Your brain and nervous system is setup to keep you alive and help you procreate and that’s it.

What helps you survive?

Identifying what’s wrong.

what could hurt you.

what could kill you.

what’s not right.

being vigilant for predators or peope who will hurt you.

FEAR helps you stay alive.

But it absolutely stops any chances you have of fulfillment, contentment and love.

Your heart barriers are your deepest biological pre-wired FEARS, DOUBTS and INSECURITIES.

-fear of not being good enough

-fear of being seen and rejected

-fear of settling

-fear of being vulnerable

-fear of going after what you want

-fear of making the wrong choice

-fear of wasting your time

-doubt about whether or not you can do it

-doubt about whether or not you deserve it

-doubt about whether or not it is possible or exists

-insecurity about your worth or value


Underlying all your struggles in dating are these heart barriers.

Luckily for you we are surgeons when it comes to love and contentment and know how to help you take a scalpel to these heart barriers and remove them forever.

We teach you how to overcome your natural wiring for survival so that you can find love with the right man and contentment overall in our Single to Soul Mates Live Workshop.

This workshop isn’t for everyone.  In fact it’s not for most people. To qualify we have strict policies.

You MUST take action and do the work.

You MUST commit 100% to transforming your love life now and never looking back.

You MUST listen and be open to our coaching and feedback.

You MUST be able and willing to be pushed by us personally.  To get outside of your comfort zone and be pushed to do things you won’t want to do.

You MUST endure the pain that comes from growing as a person.

If this is you, we will of course support you the whole way. We will get you through the challenging moments because that is when the transformation takes place and you claim your dream.

To apply for the workshop, book a free Single to Soul Mates Session to see if it’s a good fit here:


Dr. Ashley and Dr. Michael Arn