Does Santa Clause have Commitment Issues?

Over the weekend we saw Santa Clause in our little hometown of Sonoma, CA.

Our son Mason has been anticipating the big red’s arrival for weeks.   You could see the excitement written all over his face.

Mason talked endlessly about what he was going to tell Santa he wanted for Christmas.  This was a big part of seeing Santa for him.

Santa had to know he wanted transformers, power rangers and trucks.

He also told us he was going to tell Santa he had a FAT BELLY.

When he said this, we had one of those parent moments where you secretly laugh on the inside, but pretend your not supposed to say such a thing on the outside.

When Friday came, it was the big moment.

Santa was coming…..

We saw lights flashing off into the distance.

The sounds of Christmas music getting louder and louder.

Yes it was Santa Clause himself coming.

He rode in valiantly on on his fire truck er..  I mean slay.  Mason was beaming with joy and excitement.  He also said to us – hey Mrs. Clause is a fireman (A fireman was driving the truck Santa was riding in).

It was a great moment to see the joyous look on our son’s face.

Then something strange happened.

Santa Clause stopped for a moment.

Waved at the kids.

and rode off again.

He left.

Mason was pissed.  He was hurt.  He felt rejected.

He didn’t even get to tell Santa what he wanted!

Would he even get presents now!  He had been a good boy all year!

So Santa came and went just like that.  It was more of sighting.  It wasn’t the normal sit down with Santa and tell him what you want deal.

Have you been dating Commitment Phobe Santa’s in your life?

Have you been getting to know guys who swoop in and out of your life without a care for what’s important to you?

There are lots of guys who aren’t ready for a relationship.  They aren’t ready for a commitment.

There are also lots of great guys out there who are relationship ready. They are ready to commitment to a woman just like you.

We teach our clients how to spot these commitment phobes with our Unwrap the Present Compatibility Checklist.

We show you exactly what to look out for and how to spot a relationship ready guy.

Don’t fall for one of these Santa’s with commitment issues again!

To find your relationship ready guy join our Single to Soul Mates University, where we teach you exactly what you need to know to find lasting love.


Say yes to love,

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn