What do I want in life? How to Get Clarity on Where You are Going.

What do I want ….

In life..

In a relationship….

In my career

In a man…

There is nothing more powerful than getting real clarity on what you want.

What Do I Want in Life

what do I want

To be honest most people reject themselves before life or anyone else gets a chance to reject them.

They don’t even allow themselves to think about what they most want out of the FEAR that they’ll go for it and come up miserably short.

Michael used to do this when he was single. He’d reject himself before even talking to a beautiful woman he was attracted to.

Ashley wouldn’t allow herself to think about owning her own business and working outside of a corporate job because of the fear it brought up in her.

But life isn’t meant to be lived out of FEAR.

Especially not when you’re on TEAM ARN.

Oh we still feel fear. Many days.

But we also condition our COURAGE to overcome our fear don’t we?

Courage and action are the antidotes to fear.

n our year long mentorship program Rise Up, we have our clients get clear on what they want in 7 key areas of life.


Love life/Relationship

Squad = the family members, friends and people closest to you.

Mission and Money

Fun & Celebration


Winning Blueprint

Doing this can fee like torture. Thinking like this is hard. It isn’t fun.

But it works and it’s effective.

We recommend that every 90 days you sit down and get clarity on what you want in these 7 key areas of life.

Think about an area and ask yourself

What do I want in this area in 5 years from now?

What do I want in this area in 1 year from now?

What do I want in this area in 90 days from now?

What would excite me in this area?

The key is not to limit yourself. This is the just a thought experiment at this point. Don’t reject yourself before you’ve even started. Don’t limit yourself mentally. Think about what would really excite you and what would be your ideal in your wildest dreams.

After you’ve went through this exercise pick one 90 day goal that is on the path to your most amazing 5 year dream.

Focus on that goal and taking small actions each day to move you closer to it.

So, let us know what do you want in the next 90 days?

Go here to let us know: http://bit.ly/2VfpRWD

Rooting for you,

Dr. Ashley & Dr. Michael Arn